Is when you can't tell if you're imagining things or not. like if you think they may dislike you but they actually don't. or vice versa. or if they're messing you around, but they're not doing it on purpose but you think they are.

Of course noone wants to be a fool, so we'll try and catch them out, won't we? Say "Ha you're just giving me sass and treating me crappily, fuck you" and they're all "RABBITWEED WTF ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT". And then you feel bad because maybe you were a dick for no reason.

I think about and stress about things too much. Have so many ideas in my head that I can't look at them properly and decide "Wtf that idea makes no sense, GTFO" until it's a too late.

Humans are tricky creatures indeed.

Is he not holding my hand because he doesent feel like it and his hands are cold? Omg omg no it's because he hates me!

Do I console myself with the fact that I'm just paranoid?...and then get stabbed in the back if it turns out that he does hate me?

I wonder if the worlds problems would be solved if we were all telepathic. Of if we'd kill each other all the quicker.

well that's kinda what any relationship is like sometimes. i mean completely understanding another person is impossible, but we try our best anyway. Sometimes we interpret things wrong and sometimes right, its all about being human

Well I was having a dream where I was having surprise buttsecks! Maybe not surprise, but you get the point.

I couldn't tell if it was real or not, but damn it was nice! Thing is...most of the dream was foreplay etc. I woke up before we started sexy time. Additionally, no mess was to be had. Taken care of hours earlier when I jerked off.

I might as well add something relevant to your thread. I don't think intimate is the right word for your title but I understand you're message. It does suck nuts. Not knowing if she likes you or if you did something wrong etc. And you can outright ask them because well that proves you're over thinking it, etc.

I guess the best piece of advice is: 'Don't worry about it'

It's not human interaction, it's your own fucking insecurity and fear. Relax, I assure you that nobody hates you.

Amen, brother...amen.

There's a really easy way to find out if a girl likes you: hang out with her.

Problem solved!!!!!

That's just your own insecurities/shortcomings. I've done my fair share of kinda fucking with people before and testing them. I never worry if anybody likes me unless I'm in a situation where I need them to like me (like trying to get into a club with no ID). I like when somebody's obviously trying to be your friend and will do obviously nice things to you like makin a point of givin you things fo free and you take them for granted.

People rarely "sass" me unless they dont know me and I tend to "sass" (or tell to fuck off) people I dont know so it evens out. Anybody else knows I'm capable of violence and does not give a fuck about anything except going to jail (which any slightly suspicous incident will send me to until at least sept 4th) so they don't start shit. I honestly don't care if anybody likes me whos pants I'm not trying to get in...

I guess it is insecurity, but it also is...uh...outsecurity. The thing is it fluctuates wildly. Sometimes I'll think I'm awesome and everyone loves me because I'm an ivory sex God, and sometimes the opposite.

Because my self esteem is constantly ranging from depressingly low to annoyingly high, I really have no idea where I am with anyone. and I am sure I make up things in my head, based on my self esteem. I try and read peoples thoughts and get them horribly wrong depending on how good I am feeling. then I confront them with the things I've made up and they get very confused.

That's not really "intimate" though RW. Intimate implies a connection between people, doesn't it? This sort of thing occurs when there is a disconnection between people.

Yeah, how do you reset the modem?

just be a dick all the time as long as your funny some times when you are a dick people will like you.

sounds like you're more confuzed....

It's not human interaction, it's your own fucking insecurity and fear. Relax, I assure you that everyone hates you.


Fixed!

God,youre getting stranger and stranger,... i love itttt =] lmao

QFT..

You just gotta train your mind, there aint much else you can do. dont worry about things and think to hardcore on stuff unless you want to develop some nice anxiety problems. Just sit back and look at things briefly, notice a pattern, look at other situations of someone you know and how they hooked up with a girl...that way you can recognize what is what. Thats what i did over the years....

Yea i almost shit my pants in anger over this one chick until i realized she was joking around....i knew she was but the words she said just hankered to my automatic anger reaction. So what did i do, just pull back, take into consideration that shes probably just joking and trying test me, so i busted jokes and bombed her back with some of the same shit...what happened then? Backed her into a corner and ended up getting insane responses(good things that is) back from her...