hippies.

Only you can really decide what to do.

You have a confused, prude and childish girlfriend. Do you want to try and make her trust you to the extent that she'll have sex with you?
Can you really be bothered to go to all that effort? Is she worth it to you?

She sounds rather selfish that she'll never do anything for you. I beleive if you're going out with a man it's one of your roles to please him.
Does she talk alot about 'taking it slow' ? Is she a virgin as far as you're aware?

Yeah, I think she has a god damn obligation to do something to me as well.

She doesn't really talk about taking it slow maybe said it once or twice along time ago and yes as far as I know she is a virgin but the last person she did things with is in California so she could be lying but I doubt it shes pretty honest for the most part.

I don't need her to have sex with me I just want her to do something so I don't have to drive home pissed off b.c. my nuts feel like there going to explode. And yes she is worth it, but shes really fucking pushing it and making it really really difficult to keep a relationship with her.

What should I do just call her out? I feel if I do that I'll sound really shallow, I figured most girls who are seniors in high school wouldnt be this way so I'm trying to let her do it herself so it doesnt make me look bad.

I was going to post some half-assed flame on account of guys shouldnt rush girls into doing stuff they're not ready for.

Your girl just sounds selfish though. Its one thing if she doesn't want to do anything, it's another if she just wants you to do all the work.

If I were you, I'd just stop pleasuring her altogether. Don't go any further then kissing for a couple weeks, and see where it goes from there.

If I were you, I'd just stop pleasuring her altogether. Don't go any further then kissing for a couple weeks, and see where it goes from there.

Good plan.

Hopefully it will make her think. If it's frustrating to her, perhaps she'll realise just how frustrating it's been for him.
Also there's the hope she'll think "omg he's not attracted to me anymore!" and fling herself upon him.

Good plan.

Hopefully it will make her think. If it's frustrating to her, perhaps she'll realise just how frustrating it's been for him.
Also there's the hope she'll think "omg he's not attracted to me anymore!" and fling herself upon him.

hmm that sounds interesting but i feel that will lead to two things:

a.) absolutely no ass (which sucks btw)

b.) Her getting upset and giving me shit

the thing is though i dont really finger her that often and im always the one to instigate things.

so you think that if i just dont do anything she'll just eventually just fling herself on me as you said?

hmm that sounds interesting but i feel that will lead to two things:

a.) absolutely no ass (which sucks btw)

b.) Her getting upset and giving me shit

the thing is though i dont really finger her that often and im always the one to instigate things.

so you think that if i just dont do anything she'll just eventually just fling herself on me as you said?

Probably not. But it gives you a portion of your dignity back for chasing ass that means more to you then it does to her.

Or you could always whip out your own member while you're fingering her. One hand for each. See if she takes the hint.

Get her alone, and lay down the law. Say something along the lines of: "Unless you are willing to have sex with me, this relationship ends here." Actually, say precisely that. Either you'll get laid, or you'll be free to chase girls who aren't childish and stupid.

Place your bets. 10-1 against. That'll never work.

Place your bets. 10-1 against. That'll never work.

There are two outcomes, both positive. How could it not work?

just whip it out...

im only half kidding, it works

unless your sitting next to a stranger

Cockslap.

Yeah I've been going out with my girlfriend since I think late May and shes really hot defintly one of the hottest girls in my school. And she had a boyfriend back when she lived in CA (Im in VA btw) who she apprently did stuff with like gave head to alot or something according to my friend who she told.

So this is almost the 4th month we've been going out and she won't do anything to me, she lets me do stuff to her (she lets me finger her every now and then and I've made her cum everytime) but she wont do ANYTHING with me and so I go home with blue balls every night after hanging out with her.

Shes also kinda weird in the sense that shes apperently been diagnosed with depression (at least she says) and is always paranoid im going to break up with her and gets angry at me for the weirdest things (I dont hang out with her enough during the daytime wtf is that bullshit)

Well anyway shes told me she will do things with me but that was literally a month ago and im still in the same spot i was before. The other day she was like come over when my parents arent home...So I go over and she says we have to leave b.c. there cleaing the carpets or something stupid like that...we wind up going back to her house and theres clearly no one there or ever was and we start making out and thats it and she says we dont have anymore time and b.c. she invited her friend over. And its not as if she should be disinclined to do anything b.c. ALL of her friends have boyfriends and have sex all the time but she wont do fucking aNYTHING with me and its driving me crazy.


what the fucks up with this bullshit totse help me out...im going insane

I stopped reading here.

just whip it out...


I only not kidding.

Totse is in a sad state of affairs when no one mentions that this thread is worthless without pics. :D

There are two outcomes, both positive. How could it not work?

Agreeing with you here.

Chances are the slag is getting it elsewhere if not with you.

Or you could do the guilt trip on her "do you..do you not find me attractive anymore..? :( ('cause I'll go and find a new girl if you dont..)"

just tell her straight.
"babe, im left with blue balls every time i leave your house because you are unwilling to reciprocate."
she will either get pissed off, or do the whole "i never realised!!!" bit

it worked with my gf and it got me my first blowjob within the next 10 mins

Erm... How old are you both?

If you actually care about her, perhaps you should stop worrying about "getting some ass" or "doing stuff" and actually ASK her what the problem is. She's obviously making excuses, but if she's young or inexperienced she might just be scared. Don't believe everything her friends tell you about her experience. If you're not mature enough to talk to her about this stuff, regardless of how horny you are, I'm not surprised she's not putting out.

its not a matter of maturity...its more i dont want to come off as a shallow asshole who only thinks about getting in her pants.

You've been with her for 4 months, that's time enough to at least get your shit played with.

Tell her to woman up or eject.

Yeah, seriously. Let her know how much of a pain it is, because she could be totally oblivious. I used to mess around with a guy and he never mentioned that he wanted anything, or that I was giving him blueballs until our little fling was over. And I was shocked.

I was in the same situation a long long long time ago, almost the exact same, she'd let me finger her/eat her out, but would never want to do anything to me (cept for a handjob... but she wasn't the greatest at it lol) i think in the 6 months i dated her, i only received 2 blowjobs, both on the same day, a week before we broke up. But difference is, we were both 14, young and inexperienced so yeah, diff situation. Just wanted to tell you that it might never get better, so either stick with her and keep your dick in your pants, dump her and get your dick wet with some slut you dont care about, or there is always the customary totse 3rd option of:

RAPE!!!!!!!!!

talked about it tonight actually it just sorta came up randomly and apperently her old boyfriend almost raped her...so i guess it makes sense and she said she wants to have sex with me so i guess it all works out...or will eventually.

... shes really hot defintly one of the hottest girls in my school.....

My advice: Stop chasing ass and let her come to you. Let her get a taste of her own medicine.

EDIT: Ok, so there's your reason. My advice still holds.

Sounds like a prude bitch's excuse to me.