So I just got back from Shambhala (huge music/drug fest in BC) and had an amazing week of mindless self indulgence. The only thing I couldn't indulge in was sex because we were sharing a tent with 4 other people, so we only managed to sneak in a few quickies.

But while we were there, we came across a sex tent of sorts. We didn't go in because we weren't really sure of the etiquette, but the tent did have a sign outside which basically said "come in to watch/be watched."

It really intrigued me, but I think that I'm only a voyeur, not an exhibitionist.

I want to look into it more, I think I might want to give it a try next year. I really don't know how it would work, like if you could actually just sit around and watch people go at it, or if it was more of an orgy that you had to participate in...

So what do you guys think? Would you have checked out this sex tent?

"Afterall, voyeurism is participation."

Meh, truth be told, I've only watched 'Shortbus' for the Shanti Carson sex scenes. She's nice. And pleasantly muscular.

I love the idea of watching, and being watched. It just seems dirty and fun!
I like the idea of masturbating in public for some reason.
I asked one of my best friends and her boyfriend if I could watch them - he said yes, but she said no.. so that was thge end of that!!

Lmao, Flock. I respect you for wanting to achieve your dream and trying to. Masturbation in public? It wouldn't bother me honestly, but I wouldn't be participating either. Sex is natural, healthy, and exhilarating warped and twisted into a shameful act of sin by religion's ideologies. Masturbation is also healthy and stress relieving.

lol. She shoulda gone first. I woulda got a whoopin'

Shambhala was pretty fucking awesome. I walked by that tent with my friends and everyone seemed interested but no one dared go in. I probably would have had I not been on a large amount of acid.

At the fetish parties here, they have a couple cages that are open to the public that people can go in and get it on, in the middle of a crowded room. It's pretty hot...but i've never had the opportunity to try it.

The girlfriend and I love it. I love to watch her with other guys, and she loves showing off. On various occasions, we've put on a show for people we know in the right settings, and often for strangers in other reasonably safe settings. Hookups with the audience are always encouraged and enjoyed.

Yes, we have a good time.

I've jerked off in front of an open window before, does that count?

All i can think to say is "sharing is caring". :)

Voyeurism has never really been a desire for me. Although I would never discourage it or count it out, I just don't seek it actively. If I had the opportunity it would be interesting to see live sex, but only if I had the chance to enjoy some myself in the near future.

However, I've always had a thrill from exhibitionism, although being a very outgoing type, I tend to date shyer girls (opposites attract?). Either way, my current gf has shown interest in exhibitionist acts especially when she's out of her shell a bit with a substance in her blood. Nothing crazy like live sex in front of a crowd or anything though.

The only really edgy thing we've ever done is sex outside in a very public place. We were in a large church parking lot at around 10pm. Where we were parked was right near a fence, and past that fence was a major highway onramp, where cars could definitely see my own car. Anyways, we were in the moment and my gf was just like, I want you to take me against the car. No sooner said then done, she's taking it from behind on the hood of my car in the church parking lot right beside the highway. Now those are times that make me smile :)

it seems a bit tribal,

Turns me on like yuh wouldn't believe!

I don't care so much for voyeurism. Sex is something I'm around fairly often so I guess it just seems kind of normal. But I have to admit, it's hot when there is the chance of being caught, or we're just straight up being watched. My last girlfriend (I'm bi) was up for doing it anywhere; in parks, when we're in the same room with other people, at the movies etc. If someone else can enjoy sex too, why not? The more the merrier!

How do two females spontaneously have sex? Does she carry dildos everywhere?

How do two females spontaneously have sex? Does she carry dildos everywhere?

Dude, we live in the digital age now.

How do two females spontaneously have sex? Does she carry dildos everywhere?

No, they just sorta scissor.

How do two females spontaneously have sex? Does she carry dildos everywhere?How many times must I post this?


ALYSSA: And that's how I feel. I've never really been attracted to men. I'm more comfortable with the idea of girls.

HOLDEN: Wait, wait, wait - you're still a virgin?

ALYSSA: No.

HOLDEN: But you've only been with girls.

ALYSSA: You're saying a person's a virgin until they've had intercourse with a member of the opposite sex?

HOLDEN: Isn't that the standard definition?

ALYSSA: Again with the standards. I think virginity is lost when you make love for the first time.

HOLDEN: With a member of the opposite sex.

ALYSSA: Why? Why only then?

HOLDEN: Because that's the standard.

ALYSSA: So if a virgin is raped, then she's still a virgin?

HOLDEN: Of course not.

ALYSSA: But rape is not the standard. So she's had sex, but not the standard idea of sex. Hence, according to your definition, she'd still be a virgin.

HOLDEN: Okay, I'll revise. Virginity is lost when the hymen is broken.

ALYSSA: Then I lost my virginity at ten, because I fell on a fence post when I was ten, and it broke my hymen. Now I have to tell people that I lost it to a wooden post I'd known my whole young life?

HOLDEN: Second revision - virginity is lost through penetration.

ALYSSA: Physical penetration or emotional?

HOLDEN: Emotional?

ALYSSA: Well, I fell in love hard with Caitlin Bree when we were in high school.

HOLDEN: Physical penetration.

ALYSSA: We had sex.

HOLDEN: Yeah, but not real sex.

ALYSSA: I move to have that remark stricken from the record. On account of it makes you come off as completely naive and infantile.

HOLDEN: Well where's the penetration in lesbian sex.

Alyssa holds up her hand.

HOLDEN: A finger? Come on. I've had my finger in my ass but I wouldn't say I've had anal sex.

ALYSSA: Did I hold up a finger?
(waves her hand)

HOLDEN: (beat; then he gets it)
You're kidding?!?!
(she nods)
How...?!?

ALYSSA: Our bodies are built to pass a child, for Christ's sake.

HOLDEN: But doesn't it hurt?!

ALYSSA: Sure. But in a good way. And it's only a once-in-awhile thing - reserved for really special occasions.

HOLDEN: What about not-so-special occasions?

ALYSSA: Tongue only.

HOLDEN: But how can that be enough? I mean, let's be real - how big can a tongue even get?

Alyssa swallows what she's chewing and releases her tongue, which is just huge. Holden is transfixed. Alyssa wraps it back up and smiles, standing.

ALYSSA: Let's go.

She exits. Holden remains in the swing. Alyssa comes back in.

ALYSSA: Come on.

HOLDEN: Just...uh... just give me a moment.

I guess I could have posted the shorter Banky/Alyssa strap on dialogue, but whatever.

I love being watched. It's fun to watch others, and threesomes are even better. Things are looking good for a threesome taking place next week with a my fiance and I, and plus another hot chick. We're pretty much swingers.

Not quite the definition that you are using, but walking into my g/f's apartment and watching her shower till she realizes I'm there... that's pretty hot.

Interesting to see this thread. Today my girlfriend and I were in a park which is bordered by an all girls bording school. We engaged in much oral sex but it was only half way through when I was facing the school that I realised there was a crowd of little girls staring out of the high windows. For some reason I found that really hot, not sure if it would be the same with other men watching though.

Religion is an easy answer. Whilst religion has a part to play in the shame of sexual expression in the wester world (and particularly the US), it's not the be all and end all.

Ahah, I appreciate the clarification, robinhoody.

This thread wins.

All it needs is some pics now.

This thread reminds me of the movie Crank, where the guy starts fucking his girlfriend in the middle of the sidewalk.

All these asians are watching and they start cheering him on.
Great movie

I think we are.

EDIT: exhibitionists, that is.

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y146/zuperxtreme/zoo/05-12-07_1714.jpg

lol, duck.