There's this female friend of mine, we'll call her N.

Whenever me and N meet, it inevitably leads to fooling around and sometimes sex. But the weird thing is that we're both totally unattracted to each other, and always feel weird afterwards and thinking 'never again'.

Untill it happens next time.

It can't be healthy. I think she's desperate, and I don't really mind.

Man my life is weird.

post pics

post pics

I would be too embarrassed to. Like I said I'm not attracted to her...

:(

I would be too embarrassed to. Like I said I'm not attracted to her...

:(


post pics anyway, I won't judge you. Your reluctancy will only make people imagine her Rosie o donnel lookin'

Sounds like a bullshit story to me

nah, this sounds legit. I know plenty of personal experiences of the same nature and lots of stories from friends.

That same thing used to happen to me, but it usually involved us both being drunk and hooking up and then regretting it and then repeating the process.

From the sounds of it she might not be the most attractive girl to you, and that's fine. If you keep doing it, you must at least enjoy the physical aspect if not her appearance.

Is it healthy? I don't know if constantly regretting your decisions is ever healthy, but if you keep doing it, and nothing bad has happened of it, probably isn't that bad.

A play partner is usually a little weird, and sometimes awkward, but as long as it doesn't mess anything up it probably isn't all that bad.

It's like one of those things....you don't like the candy bar, but it's there, so you feel compelled to eat it, even though you regret it afterwards.

Friends with benefits. Lovely. Enjoy and reap while you can.