So my girlfriend dumped me last night... she just "doesn't like me anymore".

A few weeks ago she dumped me but came crying back telling me it's one of those "you don't know what you got till it's gone" kind of things. I agreed, since we had been together for 9-10 months.

The first time she broke up with me she had been drinking a lot the days before it happened... everytime I tried talking to her she'd be too busy drinking or with other people to talk to me.

Now...well I don't know. Lately she and a few friends of mine have been telling me she has been doing a lot of coke and drinking a lot.

Despite her acting like she has, I think if she was to come back to me I'd feel sorry for her and go back to her. That's just how I am, but I don't want to be.

Honestly I don't know what the fuck I'm trying to ask. I just want some advice as far as what I should do if she does try to come back to me. Last night I was thinking a little bit, maybe when she realizes that older dudes only give her coke to try to fuck her, that I'll try getting back with her.

God she sounds scarily familiar. Are you in bristol?

And no, do NOT feel sorry for the bitch. She had your chance of being with you.. twice! And you're not responsible for her actions. To hell with her. Lets hope she dies of a fucking coke overdose before she ruins your life any more than she allready has.

Move on..

I can understand a second chance... but after that you're just setting yourself up for a bit of abuse and heartache.

Nope, not in Bristol.

I always felt sorry for her though...just because of the shit that she's been through. Her real dad tried raping her when she was young. Her family was split up because of her mom's drug use. When she visits her mother, her step dad is abusive and she has had problems with bulimia. The list just goes on.

Thanks for the response though, it was what I was looking for.

Oh gosh.. the sob story she's spun you..

I hope you're smart enough to see through that bullshit.

I think you were going out with what is called in technical terms an "attention whore".

Stay away from that bitch. Shes no good.

Do you love her or is she just another girl?

I've tried one third chance.

Geuss what happened? Same as the last two...

And coincidentally she was pretty spun on coke when she broke it up the third time.

Welcome to the shitty-feeling club

No no no no no no no no no no. That's all I've got to say about 3rd chances.

Don't feel bad. I got the shit kicked out of me when I was a kid, does this give me the right to abuse drugs, and act like a dick head to people who love me (Even though there isn't, lets just say there is....)? No. You are responsible for your own actions. Anyone who blames what they are doing on something that happened to them is just looking for an excuse. Pick up your balls, and drop the bitch. Two chances is two too many, never mind three.

I believe in only letting someone have one chance AT MOST. So no, tell her to piss off if she comes crawling back to yyou

Stop telling him to tell her to 'piss off' or never to get back with her, 99% he will get back with her and you all know that.

If not, least he as learnt his lesson.

Yea i know this from experience.......Put it this way she's on her 5th chance

bain surgeon - That's a good question. I never thought of her as "just another girl. We always told each other that we loved each other. And I mean, I thought I did? I won't elaborate, but to see each other we had to both go out of our way. Sometimes we'd hang out on school nights and then before school I'd come home and pop some adderall and stay up all night. I would come to school looking like a fucking zombie, just 'cause I wanted to see her so bad.

I talked to her sister a little last night. She made me realize a few things. While I was always the nice guy doing whatever I could, she would treat me like shit. I never thought anything of it... I was just really passive about it I guess.

After that and after talking to one of my best buddies who she's apparently trying to get with, I've decided to say fuck it for sure. I don't really care anymore.

Live and learn - I guess. Some shit you can't learn from others and you just have to experience yourself.

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