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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-08-14, 17:16
seckseewon seckseewon is offline
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Default how come i dont want sex anymore?!

right now i feel so goddamn sexy, have always had my pick of guys and currently have been with the same stunning boyfriend for the last 1 1/2 years...

problem is: i just dont want to have sex with him anymore... i really can't work out why, but I always fall asleep on him on purpose so we won't have to do it.
sex just seems like SO much effort. we haven't had sex in about 5 weeks. i usually love sex...

can anybody relate to suddenly just not wanting it anymore???

ALSO, although I love him I also cannot help myself developing little crushes on other guys, but i know that i don't want to be with them...i have to train myself not to think about them and to focus on my boyfriend because i know i want to stay with him and be faithful to him. my body+mind is feeling waaaay out of whack...
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Old 2007-08-14, 17:22
own3dripy2 own3dripy2 is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

You want some good time with me honey? I can satisfy you with my 8'' inch cock
 #3 
Old 2007-08-14, 17:25
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

post pics and ill tell you why
 #4 
Old 2007-08-14, 17:31
own3dripy2 own3dripy2 is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

Quote:
Originally Posted by getoffmylawn
post pics and ill tell you why


Yeah exactly post some pix
 #5 
Old 2007-08-14, 17:36
bored_teen bored_teen is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

marriage syndrome ftw
 #6 
Old 2007-08-14, 17:42
random_jew random_jew is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

He must hate you.
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Old 2007-08-14, 18:19
KoldBane KoldBane is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

He must hate you.

I agree, 5 fucking weeks? I have sex with my girlfriend at least once every day I see her, and that's a minimum.

And yeah, show us some pictures of this "stunning" bf. I have a feeling that you have a pretty high opinion of yourself and him.
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Old 2007-08-14, 22:24
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

You don't like him.
 #9 
Old 2007-08-14, 23:48
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There's a NEW Mexico?
Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

Think about the guys you have little crushes on while you're having sex with him.

And then see if you feel bad later.

But at least fuck him to be nice. Or suck him off or something... I mean, 5 weeks? He must think you're pretty alright.
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Old 2007-08-15, 01:54
KoldBane KoldBane is offline
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Originally Posted by ApocalypsePlease
Think about the guys you have little crushes on while you're having sex with him.

And then see if you feel bad later.

But at least fuck him to be nice. Or suck him off or something... I mean, 5 weeks? He must think you're pretty alright.


Note: she could be like 14 and think she's hot shit and think that having sex once a month is a big deal.

Note Note: I'm pretty sure that's the case.
 #11 
Old 2007-08-15, 01:59
bain surgeon bain surgeon is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

You sound like you've simply gotten bored of him.
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Old 2007-08-15, 03:20
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

Note: she could be like 14 and think she's hot shit and think that having sex once a month is a big deal.

Note Note: I'm pretty sure that's the case.

I dunno, I figured that since she was talking about falling asleep on him, that they were living together and sleeping in the same bed.

14 yerolds don't usually do that, yaknow.
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Old 2007-08-15, 04:01
Chibi Shinigami Chibi Shinigami is offline
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Default Re: how come i dont want sex anymore?!

To be constructive...

Are you on BC? If so, that could be the cause...especially if it's a new version or something. That can affect libido. Also, if you're stressed out, that can affect your sex life as well, for females AND males.

Has anything happened around the time you stopped wanting to have sex?
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Old 2007-08-15, 09:16
seckseewon seckseewon is offline
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haha we're both 20 years old and i stay at his house about 2 times a week... im a law student, he's a commerce student...

i guess around the time we stopped having sex i had to make some life-making decisions - i had to decide whether or not to move to another city by a certain deadline. i also guess that at the time i was extremely stressed out and have since decided to stay where i am for the meantime.

i don't have particularly high opinions of myself, im just trying to get the message across that neither of us are desperate, nor is this a relationship for convenience. i could easily find another quality guy tonight and he could find a fantastic girl. i don't need to prove my attractiveness or worth, im sure i'll never meet any of you people.

i just feel so awful about not giving him anything...but i am just SO not into the idea of being intimate...i feel like being alone when the time does come and so i fall asleep.

i'm not on any form of medication, either. haha i tried BC but it made me put on weight.... woo fun times
 #15 
Old 2007-08-15, 11:43
niggersexua niggersexua is offline
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u gay
 #16 
Old 2007-08-15, 15:02
shoesux shoesux is offline
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You 2 wont last long, i dont think.
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Old 2007-08-15, 19:18
Pilsu Pilsu is offline
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Just let go of him if you're that bored. Not fair to string him along

Oh and what you're feeling is marriage. Take that as a warning and don't get married in the future, it's not going to be a 30 year bliss like every dumb broad/bloke thinks in the heat of passion
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Old 2007-08-15, 19:27
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i just feel so awful about not giving him anything...but i am just SO not into the idea of being intimate...

Sacrifices must be made for the general good ma'am. It seems you do not have much motivation.
 
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