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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-08-14, 15:44
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Default Well, look at the bright side...

After 7 long months of rejections, failures, and lack of interest, I've found that rejections now just bounce right off of me, as opposed to hurting.

Still, while I don't actually dwell over girls anymore or feel much of anything when I get rejected, I'm seriously feeling as though I'm cursed.

From September to about December/January, I was hooking up with girls on a fairly regular basis. I'd say one every 3 weeks, and on a given Friday/Saturday night, I was fairly confident I had a nice shot of getting with someone. Well, around the start of the new year, I toned down the excessive alcoholism, matured a bit, etc. All hookups seized immediately, though incidentally, the two hookups I did have occurred while I was completely wasted (ie. I don't remember them, though everyone around me at the table does).

This long drought has lasted from that January/February time up until now. It's gotten to the point where my overall mindset is something like "lol nigga plz" when it comes to getting with a girl. It seems that no matter how good a conversation is, or how interested a girl seems, nothing is going to happen when you fast-forward a few hours or days. I'm being 100% serious when I say that the universe basically has pussy attached to a string and pulls it away at the last second. That shit has been going on for fucking months...There have been a shitload of situations where I'm at point A and I can clearly see point B, which reads "Sex (or hooking up, or relationship, whatever)". But the way that random obstacles just continually end up stopping me...well, it's seriously like a constant, fucking mean prank.

So, like I said, the bright side of my current situation is that rejections don't really mean shit to me anymore. But at the same time, I just can't seem to have success. It really feels like some force is watching my pursuit of women and laughing every time I go for it. "LOL, look Phil, look, he's going for it. He actually thinks he's gonna get with her this time. Oh! OH! AWWWWW!"

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To put this in more "I need help" terms: I'm a good-looking guy, I think I've got some attractive personality traits and am fairly good at conversation, but I've been having a fucking LONG drought when it comes to getting with girls (or getting a girlfriend, which seems unthinkable at this point).

Has anyone else found himself in this type of slump? What do you think of the drinking thing, where all of my success seemed to be directly related to getting fucked-in-half drunk (and I mean that literally. Even if I drink enough to lose most of my inhibitions but I still have my memory, nothing happens)?
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Old 2007-08-14, 15:48
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

You probably have no game.

I can sell you some of mine but it don't come cheap.
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Old 2007-08-14, 15:50
spinal_cord spinal_cord is offline
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

bitches are easy

and stupid

too bad their all whores and I loathe every single female organism on this wretched planet.

i only mate with a-sexual smurfs now
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Old 2007-08-14, 17:11
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

that's how I think "Lol nigga plz" but then I think and say "aww fuck it" so I try anyway and 9 times out of 10. I fail :(
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Old 2007-08-14, 17:20
own3dripy2 own3dripy2 is offline
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

Every dog has its day
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Old 2007-08-14, 17:55
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

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Originally Posted by vazilizaitsev89
that's how I think "Lol nigga plz" but then I think and say "aww fuck it" so I try anyway and 9 times out of 10. I fail :(


You know, it occurred to me that since rejection doesn't have too bad of an effect on me, I might as well just try to approach 10 or so girls one night. There's this claim I've heard that if you ask 20 female strangers "Wanna fuck?" that just by odds 1 of those girls will say yes. Now, I don't want to get slapped or stabbed by some crazy boyfriend, but approaching 10-20 girls seems like a good idea...

My "love life" is just one big joke anyways, eh?
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Old 2007-08-14, 18:49
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Post a pic of yourself.
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Old 2007-08-15, 01:22
grungekid grungekid is offline
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Default Re: Well, look at the bright side...

Just start smoking marijuana. Everytime I'm high and around girls I do just fine. When I'm not high...unless I know them atleast decently, then I don't do so well.
 
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