So I'm 18 and she's 14. Yeah yeah, whatever. We've been getting closer for a while now and we both love each other, though I can only really speak for myself. She *is* 14, but It's not my place to judge her commitment.

Until relatively recently she let on that all she wanted was sex. Knowing how 'unstable' they can be at that age, I wasn't sure it was the best idea so I told her we should just take it really slow but she wasn't having it.

We're sort of 'unofficially' together now but today, in spite of eveything she said she tells me that she doesn't think she's ready for sex... :/ Now the last thing I want is anyone even *considering* that I was pressurising a 14 year old girl into sex so I tell her its's no problem etc and that it doesn't mean anything to what's between us. She seems happy.

I'm just interested in you guy's opinions on this. There was a guy in my class last year who was 18 and had a 12 year old girlfriend, before you critisize but that's not what bothers me. Do you think everything will fall into place or is it a bad idea to be in a relationship that just doesn't *quite* feel right, and I honestly can't put my finger on what I mean by that.

Input appriciated.

Usually I find it kind of pathetic on the guy's side but occasionally I've seen relationships like yours where the younger girl was a quite a bit more mature than their age let on. I had a girlfriend that was 14 when I was 17 which is a big difference but she's actually the smartest girl I've ever known and it was a good relationship for the most part.

Well, if you were 17, I'd be on your side. You are 18 now. She is illegal. Sucks, doesn't it?

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Do some googling if you don't get it.

Age of consent here is 16. And as for the US, two 17 year olds can just as easily be considered statutory rape as much as an 18yo and 17yo can. The whole 'age of consent' thing has got to be the most illogical ideology ever. In some countries it's as low as 12, and in others as much as 21. Clearly someone has their brains up their arse, methinks.

i had a buddy that when he was 18 he hooked up with this 13 yo chick and after he fucked her she became obsessed so he tried to break it off and and she freaked out and started cutting herself and shit. that was 3 years ago. they got back together just for the fact he didn't want to go to jail and they're still together and he's pretty much stuck now.

^^God damn, he deserves it.

They'll probably end up getting hitched, throw caution to the wind and fuck like rabbits without birth control, spreading their genetically inferior seeds throughout the world. 5 years down the line: 7 kids, no jobs, on welfare watching "When Animals Attack" on FOX.

Uhh....

Uh...

What have we learned today, kids? Thats right, never, ever, no matter how desperate you are, hit on a 12 year old.




Lol but she's 14!

Lol but she's 14!

There was somebody 'round here talking about an 18 y/o with a 12 y/o.

EDIT: I completely revised my post and you quoted before the change. Now it's like I said two things with one post. MINDFREAK!

Even if you were 16, I would advise that you didn't go for a 14 year old.

Btw, you should have beaten up the 18 year old who went out with the 12 year old. That is fucking disgusting.

I have a 21 year old GF, is that illegal?

That's a good point. The 18yo withe the 12yo seemed the same to me, but since I didn't know too much about the nature of the relationship I can't make judgement. It just seems that at that age, especially when it's their first time at the whole thing, and for some reason even more so when it's a considerably older guy, they get really obsessive. I know it's a sort of status thing as well and it elevates them above their peers exponentially.

She's 14, but I get the feeling she's a little immature for her age though. She asked me what ejaculation was and I just thought omg what have I got myself into. Not to mention I felt like such a pedo. And it's not as though I'm a cradle snatcher or anything either.

Meh. That's about all I can say... :/

Just thought I'd ad - I'm looking for a relationship thats the least demanding as possible. I can't really afford to put the time and work into a mature relationship with someone my age even though it would probably be more 'rewarding'.

She now tells me she's '100% ready' but says I must be gentle with her.

Advice plz.

pics of 14 year old and I'll post pics of 15 year olds.

i say go for it i went out with a chick that was 18 wheni was 15, but she thought i was 16 so whatever. but really age doesnt make much of a difference if you really love each other.


EDIT: i didnt read the part about you two having sex, fucking wait and really think about it because if something happens you are fucking screwed. but if you decide to go for it DONT RIP DAT SHIT NIGGA!!