I know there are a lot of virginity questions S&A, but i've never seen a thread like this. Did you loose your virginity to someone you love or a stranger/someone you didn't love were just attracted to. Any regrets?

Virginity is overrated.

Get rid of it ASAP.

Agreed

My girlfriend has told me several times in the heat of the moment that she wanted to "fornicate"
But I are teh sukk. :(
Tomorrow tho...
Why do today what you can do tomorrow...
So yeah, I suck :(

I don't want to offend you, but why would you turn down sex?

Surely your not that bad.

Explain, and I will give you some help if needed.

Any regrets?

Never regret losing something you don't need. :)

i are teh virgin and happy :)

It is impossible to be a virgin, and be truly happy.

Wow what's your secret?

Well, the first time we were in a very not soundproof tent at a German hippie festival and her parents were in a very not soundproof van next to us.

The second time we were in another van all alone but I was tired as hell.

The third time she wanted me to come to the shower with her but I figured that we had no condoms and...

The fourth time we were all alone, with a box of condoms lying at the bedtable, and the moment was completely right and I was ready to go, but she was on her period, woohoo.

But knowing how life usually is, these reasons are probably manufactured by my subconsciance and theeres some deep underlying psychological issue of feeling inadequate, or something.
/drunk

i don't know there really isn't a secret i got a girl that actually likes me but were both Christians and we feel it should wait till marriage and were happy with that

The fourth time we were all alone, with a box of condoms lying at the bedtable, and the moment was completely right and I was ready to go, but she was on her period, woohoo.

Red Wing Squadron FTW!!!11!1oneone

Wow what's your secret?

lube and tissues.

Red Wing Squadron FTW!!!11!1oneone

Haha :D

My girlfriend has told me several times in the heat of the moment that she wanted to "fornicate"

"Mmmm, baby, I'm so turned on, I just wanna fornicate so much right now... fornicate me, you stud, fornicate me hard!"

Something's not right.

Denied.

"Mmmm, baby, I'm so turned on, I just wanna fornicate so much right now... fornicate me, you stud, fornicate me hard!"

Something's not right.

Haha
You guys make me laugh today :D

Well it wasn't quite like that.
I was fingering her, and she whispers in my ear "Bean, do it properly"
I was like "uh...:( Im doing it wrong?"
"No I wanna have sex!"
"Ooooh...."

Then one time when she was lying on me and looking into my eyes all romantically she asked what i was thinking about.
"Your eyes" I said and asked her the same.
"You, and me, fornicating" :3

Haha
You guys make me laugh today :D

Well it wasn't quite like that.
I was fingering her, and she whispers in my ear "Bean, do it properly"
I was like "uh...:( Im doing it wrong?"
"No I wanna have sex!"
"Ooooh...."

Then one time when she was lying on me and looking into my eyes all romantically she asked what i was thinking about.
"Your eyes" I said and asked her the same.
"You, and me, fornicating" :3

I bet your girlfriend is ugly... fornicating wtf

I bet your girlfriend is ugly... fornicating wtf

Huh?
Two questions.
1. What's up your ass?
and
2. I hate you

Im still in a good mood tho :D
My girlfriend (who is quite bloody hot most seem to think) wants to sex me badly. Does yours?

Some people take virginity more serious than others, as evident from the varied replies in this thread.

Virginity tends to be something that's more important for girls, just because sex is a more emotional experience (it tends to be, sex can be very emotional for both genders).

I lost my virginity to a girl who was on my bus to school every morning and afternoon. She just called me up one day and said she wanted to drop by and we did the deed. First and last time I ever hung out with her outside of the bus.

And anyone who tells you that the first time was good was either lying to you or had a very experienced partner to guide them through. First time for both of us, possibly one of the most awkward things I've ever done in my entire life.

My suggestion? Get it over with. It honestly is much much better once you get good at it and you and your partner are both experienced. The experience is just that much more incredible.

Virginity really is over-rated, and the longer you keep it the more awkward it becomes to lose it.

Huh?
Two questions.
1. What's up your ass?
and
2. I hate you

Im still in a good mood tho :D
My girlfriend (who is quite bloody hot most seem to think) wants to sex me badly. Does yours?

Talk, all talk. Post pictures, including nudes if possible (which if you story is true, which i bet it isnt, you will have no problem having access to)

Talk, all talk. Post pictures, including nudes if possible (which if you story is true, which i bet it isnt, you will have no problem having access to)

I see what you did thar...
But really, no.
I have nothing to prove to you.

Then one time when she was lying on me and looking into my eyes all romantically she asked what i was thinking about.
"Your eyes" I said and asked her the same.
"You, and me, fornicating" :3

Hahaha cute.



Me, I'm a virgin; I don't know what I'm waiting for. I have girls literally begging to rip my clothes off. But I guess I want more of a challenge or something. I really just don't have any desire at all to go out and fuck someone.
It's okay, because I've got friends who are bitching about not having gotten laid in months, and I'm like, well, that's one less thing I have to worry about. :D

I sold it on ebay.

I sold it on ebay.

Sadly, that's possible.

Well I lost it to a girl I didn't love, but the most I can usually love a girl is a week or two until I either fuck them or see their nasty little flaws.

I'm a virgin, partly by morals, mostly because I don't know too many people as I've moved recently. I really don't want to be in a relationship with the person I lose my virginity to, because I know too many guys who fucked the girl and then dropped them.

So instead of risking being dropped, you go ahead and guarantee you're just a warm place for him to dump his spunk and scram?

Denied.

Yoyobek you are such a nazi moderator. I mean you are a sensitive woman and all but censoring is just ridiculous. Especially when what the guy said is quoted a few posts later.

What you really need is a man. And i think you already know i would be more than ready to help you. Long one, here, if you know what i mean. Slavs sense of comprehension is strange, you never know if they get it.

So instead of risking being dropped, you go ahead and guarantee you're just a warm place for him to dump his spunk and scram?

I understand, and accept the concept of "no strings attached".
I'd feel more, safe (?) knowing that I'm not going to be dumped afterwards.

I understand, and accept the concept of "no strings attached".
I'd feel more, safe (?) knowing that I'm not going to be dumped afterwards.

...my oppinion is to risk it...you never know..you might find something good in it all if it worsk out.

and as for me, it was to someone i love(d)

Look all these threads are stupid. Why is everyone so obsessed with this shit?

Why is everyone so obsessed with this shit?

Is this a real question?

I am a virgin, but luckly not for long. I will be losing it to a girl I'm pretty sure I love.

I lost my virginity and got spooked into thinkin she was pregnant because I didnt wrap it up.

Yeah, you definitely have some sort of inferiority complex my friend. None of those are great excuses for not going ahead and fucking her, as I believe most guys would do in most of all of those situations. You just need to build up your confidence, maybe you feel like you wouldn't be able to get her off or something like that, so rather than feel like a fool you don't want to try at all. Or did I totally misread your post and you meant that those occasions were the times that you DID have sex?

Then one time when she was lying on me and looking into my eyes all romantically she asked what i was thinking about.
"Your eyes" I said and asked her the same.
"You, and me, fornicating" :3

You.
Less romance,more "fuck me now". :)

...or had a very experienced partner to guide them through...

Bingo, that's me. I absolutely loved when I lost my virginity, very comfortable, little pressure, I actually went for a good 15 minutes, which isn't bad for a sober virgin male, and she was experienced and meant alot to me. She was also very understanding and knew I was a virgin.

Bingo, that's me. I absolutely loved when I lost my virginity, very comfortable, little pressure, I actually went for a good 15 minutes, which isn't bad for a sober virgin male, and she was experienced and meant alot to me. She was also very understanding and knew I was a virgin.

Oh, sooooo sensitive. "She" must have been a transexual, you little homo.

Oh, sooooo sensitive. "She" must have been a transexual, you little homo.

what, just flexing your e-dick to make up for a strong lack of the real thing? Any guy who claims to have no emotion is usually a little baby in the bedroom.

"Well that doesn't usually happen..."
"Which part? The three minutes of sex or the 45 minutes of crying afterwards"

To Byss, that sounds like a good time man, most guys dream of that. My second time was with an experienced girl, but I was still a wreck. I was concentrating way too hard to actually cum though...

I thought I liked the girl I first had sex with. I was wrong. We both sucked at sex, but I found a great teacher. Shame she was a drunk with two kids. But she did teach me pretty good.

One time I fornicated with an emo girl on a three day cruise to Mexico... twice. That was how I lost my virginity. I do not regret it.

I thought a friend of mine summed it up well; 'make sure it's someone you care about..'

Not that I've lost mine anyway. Everytime I do something with someone I care about, something gets fucked up along the way and things change too much. And I really hate change, of any kind.

Virginity is one of those oddly ironic things. Guys can't wait to lose it, and women want to hold onto it as long as possible. WTF, mate?