Recently, my underage g/f has stopped seeming interested in me. This was after the first time we had sex, and ever since then I have been completely miserable. What really bugs me is I don't get why she stopped having an interest in me, she says she still likes me and that nothings wrong but the whole thing is fucked up. Any idea what to do?

Why did you feel the need to tell us that she's underage? How is that at all relevant?
Anyway, break up with her. It'll throw her off guard and she'll come back begging.

once the quest for sex is achieved, some lose interest. i do. im a guy and i lose interest in most girls after i fuck em. once i reach that point, there is nothing really keeping me attached to them. all i do is move on to da next ho!

Recently, my underage g/f has stopped seeming interested in me. This was after the first time we had sex...

I don't suppose you took that opportunity to tell her about how you wanted to watch her nail her little sister (http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2039191), did you?

Don't get me wrong... I like the way you think... but things like that are usually best shared in the context of an established relationship based on trust... and most of all, should not be brought up for the first time during sex... just in case your favorite fantasy is a turn-off for her or something. Let her get hers and have her long moment with you afterwards before you completely kill her mood.

"After dinner" or "while sharing embarassing secrets" would've been a lot better.

Best o' luck working your way out of the doghouse.

Why is the fact she's underage something you feel that's worth mentioning?

If there was a teenage girl going "so, liek, my 45 year old boyfriend...." you'd call her a moron and an idiot and a bragging silly twat.


Maybe she's gone off you. Have you gained any weight since being with her?

You must be the luckiest guy in the world :(

It is because all she really wanted was to see what sex was like, now she has experianced it, she has no need for you.

she might be feeling guilty, regretting that you had sex. that regret causes her to resent you.

I didn't mention having sex with her sister.

And believe me, it's relevant. Get a girlfriend that you have to wait till her parents are out of the room to try talking too and tell me that age doesn't come up.

I didn't mention having sex with her sister.

Good plan! U GOT GAME! :)

...but more importantly...

And believe me, it's relevant. Get a girlfriend that you have to wait till her parents are out of the room to try talking too and tell me that age doesn't come up.

You're doing it wrong. :p

In my prolific dating of the underage, usually ranging from preschoolers to gradeschoolers, we just pretty much carried on in front of her parents. In fact, for some unknown reason, parents seem to be a lot more comfortable with you and their daughter making out in front of them, than if they just walk in to find you tonguing their daughter in her bedroom while they're not looking... probably something to do with having heard her ask, or knowing how this happened, or knowing what's going on or something, rather than trying to figure out what the hell you were doing to their daughter while you weren't looking.

Maybe things change when they hit the sixth grade, I dunno... or, maybe you just piss her parents the fuck off. It's open to speculation...

...but if you have to act like you don't like this person while you're with her parents, you're probably doing something wrong. Maybe it's too late now. Maybe not. Maybe it doesn't matter...

...but if you can't bond with her parents on the basis that you both care very deeply for the same person, you're doing it wrong.

Couple options;
1. She regrets the sex and thinks you're in it for the sex or something
2. It's all in your head
3. Just wanted the sex but you're bad in the sack but she doesn't know how to tell you that she has needs you can't fulfill

..Maybe she's gone off you. Have you gained any weight since being with her?

thats some petty shit, being shunned for having put on a few pounds....imo..women really hate that shit though, i guess.

oh ya, im guessing that this is 1 of the first girls youve been with, and that youre overeacting to nothing....be yourself though, not insecure, or you will lose her for sure.