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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-08-11, 04:41
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BlackAbstract919 
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Siblings
So i have a older sister and two younger half sisters, all of us spend most of our time in the house but my stepmom keeps us separate. My older sister spend most of our time upstairs entertaining ourselves talking, watching tv, having fun, just chillin' and for some reason our stepmom goes to great lengths to keep us separated. My 7 year-old sister is constantly trying to hang our with us. Downstairs i hear her telling her mom "please can i just spend five minutes with them....i'll set the timer....pleeeease?" whenever i go go downstairs to play with them their mom calls them over to do something redundant or send them upstairs, or in another room. this shit breaks my heart, why is this bitch trying to segregate a family and how can i spend some time with my siblings ?
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#2
 2007-08-11, 08:50
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Re: Siblings
That's fucked up. How much younger?
If you're within a reasonably close age range with the other one, she's probably deathly afraid of something happening on a romantic level between you and her. As for the seven year old, fuck if I know. Maybe she has some weird crazy idea that you're a pedo or something. I think it'd be best if you confronted her about it. Make it very clear that it hurts you and you honestly just want to spend some time with your sisters, because you're family. If you word it right (i.e. not creepy), and if she's at all reasonable, she should understand.
Lack of communication is the root of 99.67% of such familial problems.
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#3
 2007-08-11, 11:31
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Re: Siblings
Lack of communication is the root of 99.67% of such familial problems.
I'll bite. What's the other .33%?
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#4
 2007-08-11, 15:01
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Re: Siblings
Why the fuck is this topic in Sex and Affection forum?
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#5
 2007-08-11, 15:22
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Re: Siblings
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Originally Posted by own3dripy2
Why the fuck is this topic in Sex and Affection forum?
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"Affection" doesn't mean sexual affection, it means any sort of feelings you have to anyone you care (or lack there of) about.
This thread is valid.
As for the OP, yes, communicate your problem with your family. First confront their mom, then if that doesn't work, express your problems with the rest of the family (I.E. Dad, other sisters).
I mean, you sound reasonable, but maybe she thinks you're a bad influence? Demand to know.
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#6
 2007-08-11, 23:52
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BlackAbstract919 
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Re: Siblings
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Originally Posted by jojabr
That's fucked up. How much younger?
If you're within a reasonably close age range with the other one, she's probably deathly afraid of something happening on a romantic level between you and her. As for the seven year old, fuck if I know. Maybe she has some weird crazy idea that you're a pedo or something. I think it'd be best if you confronted her about it. Make it very clear that it hurts you and you honestly just want to spend some time with your sisters, because you're family. If you word it right (i.e. not creepy), and if she's at all reasonable, she should understand.
Lack of communication is the root of 99.67% of such familial problems.
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Im 18, my older sister is 21, and my younger sisters are 7 and 4. I could understand about the pedo thing but i've helped raise my sisters all their life and they love hanging out with me and they know about "bad touches" and what not (they watch enough tv). And as for talking to their mom, we don't even discuss the weather, i honestly think the bitch is trying to steal my sisters away from us
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#7
 2007-08-12, 00:05
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Re: Siblings
Im 18, my older sister is 21, and my younger sisters are 7 and 4. I could understand about the pedo thing but i've helped raise my sisters all their life and they love hanging out with me and they know about "bad touches" and what not (they watch enough tv). And as for talking to their mom, we don't even discuss the weather, i honestly think the bitch is trying to steal my sisters away from us
Does your step mom have a job? Maybe you could hang out with them while shes at work.
Edit: I agree with fatkitty420 about talking to your father about this (if you have one).
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#8
 2007-08-12, 00:09
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surprise buttsecks 
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Re: Siblings
I'll bite. What's the other .33%?
Incest?
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#9
 2007-08-12, 00:15
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BlackAbstract919 
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Re: Siblings
Does your step mom have a job? Maybe you could hang out with them while shes at work.
Edit: I agree with fatkitty420 about talking to your father about this (if you have one).
Yea my sister talked to my dad and he could care less about green shit and no the bitch is unemployed.
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#10
 2007-08-12, 00:38
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Re: Siblings
Yea my sister talked to my dad and he could care less about green shit and no the bitch is unemployed.
I know what you're going through to some degree, my mom died when I was 13 and I grew up with an assortment of different women my dad was dating (many moved in with us (My dad and two brothers)). Many of which had kids and were unemployed.
I'm really stuck on this, but I'll be thinking, and if I come up with anything I'll post it as soon as possible. It's real shitty what she's doing, I feel bad for you and your sister.
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#11
 2007-08-12, 03:08
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bain surgeon 
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Re: Siblings
You have to confront the bitch.
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#12
 2007-08-12, 03:13
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Re: Siblings
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Originally Posted by bain surgeon
You have to confront the bitch.
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Depending on his situation, this may be a good or bad idea.
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#13
 2007-08-12, 13:37
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Re: Siblings
Maybe get to know the stepmum. If she doesnt know you at all then maybe she thinks that you will be a bad influence to them, she clearly knows that they look up to you and if you have any back traites the little 'uns will pick them up.
Get to know your step mum, make her realise that you are a good person with good intensions.
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#14
 2007-08-12, 13:41
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Re: Siblings
Knock her the fuck out.
Clean hit to the temple, put the bitch in her place.
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