The internet is probably the best way to get an honest answer.

My question is whether the prospect of being raped, or even willingly dominated/degraded by men (ie. gangbangs, deepthroat, etc.) is appealing to you (on the fantasy level).

There's obviously a large number of women that love it to the point of being hardcore porn stars...I mean, the series Gag Factor is into the 20s as far as DVD releases and each week they apparently add more girls (this porn has girls getting fucked HARD in the mouth/throat, and several regularly return). And then there's probably hundreds of other porn sites that are regularly getting girls in for other kinds of degradation.

Now, I'm not suggesting that the porn market is representative of every woman's dream, but...let me put it this way: As a guy, the idea of doing degrading, rough shit to a woman is pretty arousing, so...as females, is the idea of being degraded generally arousing?

Nope! its just a male thing.

Internet pr0n is faked didn't ya know!.......girls pretending for money?.....POP! is that the sound of your bubble bursting?

Money talks.

Mind you there is a very large BDSM community; check out http://www.collarme.com In most "normal" relationships there is a dominant person(especially during sex) it is most often the male. Its only nature for there to be "extremes" of those roles. That isn't to say that there aren't a lot of submissive males.

My girlfriend deepthroats quite well actually. She really loves giving blowjobs and it definately turns her on. I've been with another girl prior who deepthroats aswell. It is quite the experience. Facefucking isn't that uncommon of a practice for my girlfriend and I either.

My girlfriend is submissive and I am dominant. BDSM is definately a part of our lives. We don't take it too literally though, its just sex not a "lifestyle." There is actually a BDSM group on facebook at my college and I've attented a few parties with some of the members and lemme tell you they are the best parties I've ever been to.

Some women are just as much into it as some men. However its probably more common for men to be into BDSM than women I'd think.

Online porno has deranged your perspective and mentality on this subject.

I can't get myself off without thinking about being gangbanged. I have my boyfriend fuck my mouth with a dildo while we screws me.

If I wasn't in a relationship I'd totally contact cohf.com

edit: Not only do I want to be gangbanged by hundreds of men, but I want a massive bukkake, and I want giant screen tvs all over the place with me being surrounded by men being fucked, gagged, slapped, messy, etc.

I can't get myself off without thinking about being gangbanged.

qfkindatruth. i usually think about that when i get myself off, but i don't really fantasize about anything when i'm with my boyfriend.

the idea of a 3 or 4some with me and all guys is very appealing, but i doubt i would ever do it. i couldn't just have sex with some random guy, it would have to be someone i care about, like my boyfriend and an ex or something, which pretty much makes it impossible.

oh, and giving head is a huge turn on for me as well. as long as the dick's clean. i hate it when it smells/tastes like pee and/or sweat. unfortunately, i can't deep throught and my boyfriend doesn't like head.

qfkindatruth. i usually think about that when i get myself off, but i don't really fantasize about anything when i'm with my boyfriend.

the idea of a 3 or 4some with me and all guys is very appealing, but i doubt i would ever do it. i couldn't just have sex with some random guy, it would have to be someone i care about, like my boyfriend and an ex or something, which pretty much makes it impossible.


Haha! Ask him about having a 3some with your ex, see what he says. Then get back to me on that one. I know if my girl ever suggested anything like that to me she'd be on her ass that instant. Even a girl TALKING about her ex (at the wrong time) is a huge turnoff for me.


oh, and giving head is a huge turn on for me as well. as long as the dick's clean. i hate it when it smells/tastes like pee and/or sweat. unfortunately, i can't deep throught and my boyfriend doesn't like head.

Wow, I have never once in my life come across a guy who just doesn't like head. Never even occurred to me it could happen.

my boyfriend doesn't like head.

Maybe he hasn't received a proper sucking before? Cocks like the feel of anything wet and warm.

Maybe he hasn't received a proper sucking before? Cocks like the feel of anything wet and warm.

i don't know... he says he's gotten head from 5 other girls before me, and all of them could deep throat, but he still didn't like it. it took me almost 2 months after we started having sex to get him to let me give him head, and i've done it for a little over an hour with nothing happening.

Haha! Ask him about having a 3some with your ex, see what he says. Then get back to me on that one. I know if my girl ever suggested anything like that to me she'd be on her ass that instant. Even a girl TALKING about her ex (at the wrong time) is a huge turnoff for me.

haha actually it was a hypothetical ex, the guy i'm with now is my first boyfriend. he's not really into 3somes either. i mean, i'm sure he wouldn't mind having one, he says he did with his first girlfriend and her best friend, but he says he's not turned on by the thought of being with 2 girls any more than he is by the thought of being with one. i have a strange one, don't i?

i don't know... he says he's gotten head from 5 other girls before me, and all of them could deep throat, but he still didn't like it. it took me almost 2 months after we started having sex to get him to let me give him head, and i've done it for a little over an hour with nothing happening.

What kind of homos do you date?

What kind of homos do you date?

he doesn't like getting it from guys either. it's just that for some reason, he can only get off from regular sex. oral and handjobs just won't cut it for him.

he doesn't like getting it from guys either. it's just that for some reason, he can only get off from regular sex. oral and handjobs just won't cut it for him.

Some men like to be sucked a little, and then fuck to get off. My boyfriend thoroughly enjoys me giving him oral, but sometimes he'll stop me in mid-suck and swing my ass around and start banging.

On topic:

Would a single woman be considered a slut if she arranges with strangers to fufill her fantasies of being gangbanged? Even if it's once?

it's not my thing. rough sex is fine and i love it, but anything that he's actually physically forcing me to do kind of makes something in my head flip. you could argue that even though some girls are being forced to do whatever, they still want it, but i don't know...we had one little episode of something happening and i freaked right out.
guess i'm not that kinky.

it's pretty slutty, but i don't know if it would neccesarily make her a slut. i personally could never do it, but that's just me. i guess as long as they all use condoms then it's ok. but i mean, i really doubt she would go around telling people.

like if she's waiting in line at the grocery store and strikes up a conversation with someone, i don't think, 'oh yea, last night i had 3 strangers come over and gangbang me' would come up, so other people wouldn't really consider her a slut because they wouldn't know.

it's pretty slutty, but i don't know if it would neccesarily make her a slut. i personally could never do it, but that's just me. i guess as long as they all use condoms then it's ok. but i mean, i really doubt she would go around telling people.

like if she's waiting in line at the grocery store and strikes up a conversation with someone, i don't think, 'oh yea, last night i had 3 strangers come over and gangbang me' would come up, so other people wouldn't really consider her a slut because they wouldn't know.

No, but the guys, most likely would.

No, but the guys, most likely would.

yea, but if they were all strangers, who the fuck cares? they're gonna be like 'dude, last night, i gangbanged this chick' and nobody's going to know who it is

Nope! its just a male thing.

Internet pr0n is faked didn't ya know!.......girls pretending for money?.....POP! is that the sound of your bubble bursting?

You're fucking stupid.

if you are serious post a link when your not in a relationship lulz.

The only way to acheive sex results similar to porn is to go on pills and be a homosexual.

Porn is not real. Not even in the least.

While I suppose sometimes you have things that are "fake", you can't really fake a huge dick shoved up someone's ass or face. The only thing you can really say is fake is how rough it might sometimes appear, but the sex act itself is definitely real.

What fantasy world do you live in?

Depends on what the degrading type of stuff is. In the act itself, it might be degrading, but it could also be considered empowering for a women to be able do that for a guy - and get for themselves just as much satisfaction.

Rofl...

No.

I mean, perhaps that's the type of mindset (some) women have, but...it doesn't change that it's degradation.

Rofl...

No.

I mean, perhaps that's the type of mindset (some) women have, but...it doesn't change that it's degradation.
You miss the point entirely. I never said it wasn't degrading, to have those things done to you - but if you find it entirely acceptable, how is it therefore degrading?
Plus, who has the control when the male is wanting more anal sex (etc)?

While I suppose sometimes you have things that are "fake", you can't really fake a huge dick shoved up someone's ass or face. The only thing you can really say is fake is how rough it might sometimes appear, but the sex act itself is definitely real.

What fantasy world do you live in?
i think he meant like the enthusiasm and sluttiness and enjoyment of the people.

i think he meant like the enthusiasm and sluttiness and enjoyment of the people.

It still wouldn't be relevant. The girl getting gangbanged obviously enjoys it enough to keep doing it, and regardless of her attitude, she's still getting degraded...

(but thanks for clarifying)

you can't really fake a huge dick shoved up someone's ass or face.

yes, you can.

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Read erotica (people often write about their own fantasies, instead of what people like to see, unless they sell their erotica) written by males and females, you'll soon develop an opinion on the subject. But really, it all depends on the individual.

You're fucking stupid.


Maybe........ but your a sad sick fuck!

Crawl away and wank yourself to death, no self respecting female would ever let you get close. The cyber chicks here are really homo's but hey feel free freak!

Maybe........ but your a sad sick fuck!

Crawl away and wank yourself to death, no self respecting female would ever let you get close. The cyber chicks here are really homo's but hey feel free freak!

I'm sick because...I'm curious if the average female fantasizes about being degraded, dominated, and/or humiliated in a sexual fashion?

Moron.

Maybe........ but your a sad sick fuck!

Crawl away and wank yourself to death, no self respecting female would ever let you get close. The cyber chicks here are really homo's but hey feel free freak!

I'm not a homo.