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Just thought I'd give a quick update on what was previously an issue!



Things are going great with this girl, and I feel like something will definitely come of it! When good ol' &T went away, I was, at first, freaking out...as I had no clue what to do next with this girl. I eventually ran out of things to think about, and ended up going with my gut. I'll spare you the details, and get straight to the gooey goodness.

Basically, we went out, had fun, but I couldn't figure out how I did. Hell, I don't even recall her saying "thanks" or anything at the end of our 'date'. Now this led me to believe that I didn't imply, make it clear that I was interested without, of course, directly saying it. Anyway, so we end up talking on the phone over the passing days, but she would never call me when she said she would. She'd return calls, but in the case where she would have to leave, I'd say "call me when you get a chance", and she wouldn't. I didn't think much of it...I mean, I know a lot of folks that have the best of intentions, but are terrible at calling people back. But it did grow somewhat tiring.

So I ended up asking her a few heart to heart questions, and as it turned out, she was really interested in me. I mean, she didn't say it directly, but, hell, what she did say quite convinced me. So now we talk on the phone like we've known each other for years. It's funny how our actually being an item is rather blatantly obvious/implied, but we have "tied the knot".

Things are very cool now, and I believe thanks are in order. Yall pretty much told me from the get-go, that I shouldn't think too much into it, and be natural. And if it had not been for &T being out of commission for as long as it was, I probably would've been posting questions for every minor concern...and basically using &T like a crutch. I was, more or less, forced to figure things out for myself, and not be afraid to take the chance ( as &T was down, I didn't really have a choice). All in all, I think I've done well, and things are great.

Although this was only little more than two pages, it helped out quite a bit. And even though I didn't get 100% involvement, I learned to get it done on my own. So thanks again, guys. Seriously...thanks.



Well, we're scheduled for another date today.:) We're basically together now, and we just need to seal the deal. So I'm gonna shower and put some smell good on...but not too much

sounds awsome dude, whilst totse was down i had some good times mysef, actually got out the playbook and used some techniques that worked like a champ. You do have to figure shit out urself cause not every situation is the same with a girl but overall above all things it can be...

Dont worry about the calling/texting shit with girls, some girls i wouldnt even tell to call me theyd blow up my phone..but then others i tell to call me they wont, but then when i call them or text them theyll go on almost all day texting back and forth to me or we'll talk for a couple hours straight. Just remember if ur going to bother a chick often make sure u keep things fresh instead of the usual hey how are you such and such, i bring comedy into the situation whenever i can which keeps things going and off of that i can snap into some serious shit out of no where.

post up anymore info if u need it and we'll help yah