My boyfriend and I were laying in my bed last night cuddling, we ended up having sex, and we both fell asleep. About an hour later he got up to go home.

I went to the door to go say by to him, then went back up to my room and crawled in my bed. This is when i realized my sheets on his side were soaking wet with piss.
My first thoughts - What the hell? I don't get it. When did this happen and why the hell didn't he get up to use the bathroom? Did it happen in his sleep? If thats the case I should be really freaked out, right?

I havn't said anything about it yet, and I need your advice on if i should or not.
Should i just ask what happened last night? Or would that be too mean, I think he would get really embarrased. Should I just change my sheets and let it fly.
I don't know what the hell Im supposed to do. It will be wierd if we both pretend nothing happened because something obviously did.

If this happened to you, how would you expect your girlfriend to react? I don't want to be a total bitch or anything but WTF

I'd say something. At least smack him in the nose with a rolled of newspaper, then rub his snout in it anyway.

How drunk was your boyfriend?

Otherwise, there's no excuse.

How drunk was your boyfriend?We weren't drinking, if we were I would be a little more understanding.

Just act stupid and pretend it was sweat or something, as to not embarrass him.

I'd say that you should make him clean it, but you might just want to pretend it didn't happen.

He just...got up and ran away?

He probably got that disease where you cant control your piss asleep, the symtomps should dissapear when he is 18. My bro had that disorder

Just act stupid and pretend it was sweat or something, as to not embarrass him.Well my window was open so at first i thought it was humidity, until i realized it stunk like pee and was only on one side. But i guess i can just pretend it was damp from that


I'd say that you should make him clean it, but you might just want to pretend it didn't happen.

He just...got up and ran away?I slept on a towel, i'll wash my sheets myself, no chance he's doing that. And he had to leave then anyways, we set my alarm but i think he got up before me and turned it off, because it never rang.

Well thats unfortunate because he's 22, and we've slept in the same bed lots and lots of times and this has never happened. Why the hell did it have to be my bed?

I think its disgusting he didn't at least offer to clean up.

He probably panicked and didn't know what to do, so thought that the best solution was to pretend it didn't happen.

Its sad because its true.
i guess i'll pretend it didnt happen either.
i was going to wash my sheets today anyway

Save if for when you have that big argument just before you break up ;)

ROFL, the next time you meet is gonna be really awkward.

If you meet again that is.

I wouldn't mention it until you two get in a fight. Then mention in front of as many people as possible.

I reckon he had a little wet dream.

I remember learning in sex education when I was about 11 how embarrasing it could be...Never had one though...So I don't know.

But yeah...I think that's what it was. He was just really excited.

I would definitely say something...I mean he's going to know that you know about it. You should first of all ask him why the hell he didn't clean up after himself and then you should ask why he wet the bed in the first place. I'm not saying that you should be condescending or attacking...But this incident requires some answers from him, IMO.

He's probably really really embarrassed. Whether you want to humiliate him further or keep it to yourself is up to you. Personally, if my gf did that I would feel bad for her, I mean, she couldn't control it and it's really not her fault. As an act of love, take care of it and move onwards.
And if you want to be mean, save it for a nice big argument one day.

He's probably really really embarrassed. Whether you want to humiliate him further or keep it to yourself is up to you. Personally, if my gf did that I would feel bad for her, I mean, she couldn't control it and it's really not her fault. As an act of love, take care of it and move onwards.
And if you want to be mean, save it for a nice big argument one day.Ok thanks, best advice so far. I KNOW he probably feels really embarrased, which is why he made me find out about it on my own, after he left. I guess i'll just drop it, even though its so wierd. You can't get into a sleep so deep you would piss your pants after an hour, can you? Which makes me think he was awake. Whatever, this mystery will remain unsolved

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He Gave You A Golden Shower While You Were Fucking Asleep!

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Talk to him about it, and don't jump to conclusions. Women are notorious for jumping to conclusions.

Facts you should consider:
-A male will put off going to the bathroom if he thinks he is about to get laid
-It is difficult to get an erection if you have to pee
-After sex, you may not feel the need to pee right away, but a short while later the feeling will return with strong force.
-Sex can make a male incredibly sweaty, especially if done under a blanket. Sweat can also sometimes smell like pee, if starved from oxygen.

He pissed in the bed.