Some guys worry about lasting for an hour or so and think they're impotent because they can't. I've found a better formula. Me and my girl do a lot of foreplay, then I hit that for about 10-15 minutes, not trying to last long, and after that initial cum we make out more and I do finger and tongue work or whatever and 10 minutes later she's jacking or sucking my cock into erection again and this time I last going at it a lot longer(upwards of 25, 30 minutes). Since time is not an issue(we have all night) and I make her cum more than once also. I've gotten up to 4 without finishing the 5th and its pretty damn good for the both of us because we essentially fuck for hours. So yeah, what's the big deal with trying to hold in that one nut for 45 minutes? Does anyone do this instead?

i just fuck till i can't fuck no more...

i hold in my cum as long as possible, but once its out i slam that gumbo as hard as i can until i go soft.

then again every few hours until well... 8 months now?

i hold in my cum as long as possible, but once its out i slam that gumbo as hard as i can until i go soft.


hahaha nice, this is what every man should do instead of flopping over like a beached wale when they cum

hahaha nice, this is what every man should do instead of flopping over like a beached wale when they cum

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Can anyone say "MMOs"?
Have you read the guide to that?

slam the jam john...

I seem to recover pretty quick, so I bust as often as I feel like it. :)

Well, I can pretty much finish whenever the fuck I want to in almost any position... so after 15-30 minutes into it, if I'm getting bored and she's not responding, I'll just release and go to bed.

You could make a nice career in the porn industry.

I personally believe that holding it in forever is silly. Guys have a pleasure curve that is minimal when not near the orgasm stage, and therefore don't have nearly as much enjoyment if they aren't near cumming. Girls have a much more linear pleasure curve.

With that in mind, wouldn't it make more sense to focus on being able to have repeat performances rather than just one big bang?

With my partners, I've always focused on the experience as a whole. Light foreplay leading into heavy foreplay leading into the eventual sexual experience, that usually only lasts about 20 minutes. But with all that pent-up energy from the foreplay, both me and my girl cum easily. Then, once we are both ready again (she gets tired after an orgasm, which is fine with me, cuz I often cum right after her) we repeat the process, or skip some of the initial steps and go back at it.

And a sidenote, guys, if you don't know already, variation is key! No girl wants the same rhythm, the same position, for 45 minutes. Hell, she doesnt' even want it for 10. If you are monotonous, sex isn't nearly as fulfilling for either of you! Also, if you don't go back to the slow thrusting, guys you may find yourself cumming much earlier than expected. If you can't mix things up, you're going to get bored pretty fast!