I admit this may be a very cliche topic and appologise but:

I really dunno how to deal with my girlfriends friend. Everytime they get together whether just meeting on the park, during college or at a party they both want to get unbelievably hammered. (They bring absinthe to college and drink it during breaks which i think is a waste)

Now i know there is no problem with two teenage girls getting drunk and having fun and i would be a hypocrite to say there is as im partial to a drink with friends but it's just the way that they are when drunk.

My girlfriend is only like 5'5 and quite petite yet she will drink 2 bottles of vodka on her own which i something i wouldn't do to myself at 6'5 and 230 lbs. It's worrying. Also its just the way she gets when she drinks this much. You ever get it where just feel uncomfortable around someone? thats how i feel i just dont wanna be near when she gets drunk.

Even while i type this the two are planning another piss up sometime in the week.

Now i know my girlfriend is more than responsable for her actions and her friend doesn't force her to drink and its is clearly a problem she has but i just feel her friend doesn't help at all.

By no means do i want to keep her from seeing her friends but i feel there will come a point where i just wont be able to deal with it.

Totse help me i really dunno what to do here, i know some might say something along the lines of our wants and needs being different but i just feel this is one problem that stops her from being in my mind perfect.

Start drinking with her act as if you are really interested and always want to drink more with her. Making hanging out with her and getting drunk a specfic thing you too enjoy doing together, she will soon become disinterested with it.

Or she'd dump him.

But on a more serious note, is it safe for you to go drinking with her at all? I mean if she's going to out drink you...

Or she'd dump him.

But on a more serious note, is it safe for you to go drinking with her at all? I mean if she's going to out drink you...

It's difficult to say really. She isnt really gonna outdrink me as she cant handle the amounts she drinks she just drinks that much for reasons unknown.

I'm no leightweight myself its just rather than get blind drunk I would rather be drunk but not enough that i dont remember a single thing. Afterall whats the point of getting so drunk that you end up not remembering anything except spending time hunched over a toilet bowl. If you get what i mean?

I don't think she needs rehab just yet.. it sounds like she just needs to grow the fuck up really.
In one light I think "ah, all teenagers do it!" then think, "wait a minute.. something aint right.."
I do believe there's something a bit weird about how it's everyones goal to drink themselves in to a paralytic funk. Now, I've never been one for drinking like some people; I remember most drinking nights.. I get pissed, but I should hope I know when to stop. A night doesn't have to end up with vomiting to be fun. Don't get me wrong, I do have fun, but getting severely wasted every day at every opportunity is surely going to lose its charm after a while!