There is this girl in my class who i had known for a year + now. We're not really friends, just acquaintances, and she has a boyfriend. I never found her attractive, because she's slightly plump.

Last week, i had a dream about her. I dreamt that she was giving me a handjob of sort. It was a really weird dream. But that's not important. Point is, after that particular dream, all shit broke loose.

I started having feelings for her. I see her in school, and i can't help thinking, what a sweet smile, she is so cute, I want her, la-da-fcuking-da. It's really messed up because she has a boyfriend. And i have a girlfriend whom i trying to get rid of about right now. And there is this another girl who i was trying to get with just a month ago, though i have sort of put it off.

So what the fcuk is wrong with me?

Welcome to adolescence!
Life is strange sometimes.

QFT. That will happen.

That's not adolescence. I'm sure you don't have to be a teen to get that.

It's like my mind thinks the dream is real. And the thing is, usually i just forget about the dreams quickly and all the negative/positive emotions from the dream goes away. But this time, the dream is almost gone, but the emotions doesn't seem to be going away.

This really bugs me. It's like falling in love all over again. And i haven't felt this "falling-in-love" heart irregularities since I've been with my gf about a year ago from now.

Sounds pretty normal to me. I remember having similar dreams like that, and I still do. I used to dream about girls in my school whom I had no attraction to whatsoever, and I used to dream that we were madly in love. When I woke up though, I quickly remembered, its not real. It felt nice yes, but I always remember, dream and reality are two very different things.

Now, this is the weird thing about me. I have very frequent "De Ja Vu". I usually dream about an event, or subject, or any kind of time period, and in months, even years, I experience the same dream, but for real. This happens to me quite frequently.
So when I first had a dream about a girl I had absolutely no feelings for, the first thing I thought when I woke up was...What the Fuck?!? I started questioning myself, that maybe this is the girl I should pursue in my life, in order to follow up in the dream. I did that for a couple of weeks, still trying to get with her. I was right on the border of asking her out, but then I had another dream, about another girl.

After that, I realized that my mind was just playing tricks on me, and that these dreams don't really mean anything. I still have them, but now I wake up with no feelings for them.
I even have dreams about girls I am interested in, but thats a whole different story...

It's normal. That, or we're both crazy... if so, welcome to the club!

I have that problem with my smoking buddy, it's hard to control youself when you're high, I'm not sure how I do it.

If that's so, I must be crazy too. I had similar experiences/dreams.

I shall welcome myself into the club.

*does so*

Welcome to adolescence!

My words, verbatim.

It's the way most men work, they want what they can't have, you having a sexual dream about her probably triggered some sort of curiosity in what it would be like to hook up. I'm sure after you got her all feelings would go away. It's just the thrill of the chase. Dreams are weird like that though, I once dreamt about this guy I was in a play with, I always thought he was cute but after I had the dream I had the 'head over hills feeling' I'd only experienced once, I really got to know him, I thought he liked me too but things got messed up and I was let down.

Don't let it bother you. There's probably nothing important about this girl, you can't have her right now anyways, don't waste your time getting to know her, actually deciding that she has a good personality, is smart, etc. Then you'll really be fucked.

If you insist on at least talking to this girl, maybe you should try. Don't pay much attention to her, just flirt a little and see how she responds. If it's negative try to throw her aside and ignore her. It will likly lead to disappointment.

I fucking hate it when people ask for advise, we give it to them, and they dismiss it. If you don't want our fucking input go kiss the end of a shotgun...

I fucking hate it when people ask for advise, we give it to them, and they dismiss it. If you don't want our fucking input go kiss the end of a shotgun...

Well, if that's the way to go. We'll sure have a bunch of people running around, molotoving everything, huffing raid and murder/suicide.

I think all you need is a little perspective. Allow me:

Dude, you're lusting over a fat bitch.

A fucking fat bitch.

I can relate to this topic, except my shit is actual put into reality, 3 times recently proven over and times before. Some choice girls that i may have known for a long time and or just wanted to get to know better and such ill mentally mark in my head...at the time i may not say anything to them. Then out of no where down the road ill just press out and talk to them, just so randomly it happens, end up getting their number then hanging out with them.

Recent events include: a girl from my elementary school i havent seen in 6 years, just decided to throw up on her 1 day via AIM. Got her number, had to use some game on her(legit girl finally) had lunch with her, and took her to a movie yesterday. Another girl i had i my calc-trig class, never said but a total of 10 words to her throughout the whole semester, came out on myspace and just tacked something crazy to her, response/timing(she just broke up with her BF) was perfect, got her number and going to hang out with her soon(very recent, taking it easy tho)..3rd ive known this girl since like soph year in highschool, never talked to her besides on AIM, in person we chatted a few words cause she was really shy plus she was taken by my friend at the time. Other day i just changed up my style on her, going to be going out with her soon, maybe(shes younger, 3 yrs)

Even seeing how theres been years apart between the different girls, some reason i still got the hook in me that is pulling me to talk to them...just like how your dreams arent remembered but you still have that emotion. Goofy but worth it in my case(s)

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damn. this better be working.

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