Recently, I started talking to this girl I knew back in high school. We've been talkin and w/e, but she's had a b/f for over a year now, but their relationship is rocky. Well, it goes up and down I guess, I donno. Well, I know that she liked me back in high school, her friend told me something along the lines of 'yeah so and so said she would date you' or some shit like that. I think she likes me, I can tell whenever I'm with her...I donno her eyes get all watery and she just always has the biggest smile....everyone that hangs out with us ALWAYS points out how she looks at me....idk hard to explain. It seems like she drops subtle hints that she likes me.....well to be honest about the situation I'm 99.9% sure she REALLY likes me. However, we're also like best friends. I donno what to do, I told her I respect her and her bf's relationship (that's just bullshit tho to be honest) and the only time I actually made a move to try and fuck her, she kinda blew me off, and said she didn't want to come back to my house but I think she was playing hard to get, and honestly, I'm fucking in love. How do I let her know how I feel/try to advance a relationship without fucking up our friendship if that .1 percent chance happens to be true, and she doesn't like me (although I REALLY don't think that's the case).

She's in a relationship, leave it for now.

If she brings it up to you, than it would be safe to discuss it.

Basically no matter what, as long as she's with this guy she's off limits to you. It sucks but that's the way it is. If she likes you sooOOOOooOOo much, she'd probably be with you instead.

but she's had a b/f for over a year now,

Back off, be a good friend (try and strengthen their relationship) and wait...that's all you can do.

But, it's funny in her situation she has to stay with her bf otherwise she would be living nowhere, (literally) and she really just can't leave her bf. I'm fucking positive that she likes me actually, she stays with me all the time instead of her bf. For a while, we were spending way more time together than her and her bf. I honestly think she would leave her bf for me right now, but I'm not 100% positive. She dropped a pretty huge hint last night that she would rather be with me than her bf but I don't want to go into that, because I would have to explain the whole situation she's in. But I donno, I really value our friendship, she really is a good friend but I would rather be with her.


Back off, be a good friend (try and strengthen their relationship) and wait...that's all you can do.

I honestly have been. I even told her to stay with her bf IF she really loved him (and I stressed heavily if she loved him), and she will still spend the night with me over her bf. She always bitches about him when she's with me, and she always seems very excited to just see me. But again, I made my move once, and we're very good friends so I don't want to force myself on her or anything, but she's kind of shy, and always expects the man to make the move on her (which I'm sure has always been the case, as I said she's a drop dead, beautiful fucking russian). I honestly do think tho that she wants to be with me, right now she really has no residence and has been staying with me actually (over her bf). And as I said, I can't leave it to her to bring it up, she's shy about that. She's used to guys approaching her, I doubt she's approached one man that she's dated.

Alright, here's the situation now. She got kicked out of her place due to her bf. To make a very long and shitty story short, she's now literally living in her car. Her and her bf came over for a bit and we played some pool, and as she sat over on the couch crying her eyes out, he didn't really seem to care/give two fucks. I've never been in this situation before, with such an incredibly gorgeous girl, who also happens to be my very best friend. and as I said I tried to make a move on her once to fuck but for reasons unknown she kinda pretended like she didn't know what I was doing and said she had shit to do or w/e. I don't know what to do, I really need to be there now more than ever to be a good friend it seems, but I donno. Any advice on this sticky situation?

Invite her to stay with you but dont pressure her.