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 #1 
Old 2007-07-27, 18:11
sylph sylph is offline
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Default My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Yeah, pretty much. What a fucking pussy. I'm not really sure if I should attempt doing anything about this. Really, I don't care what he does as long as he stops trying to gain empathy from my friends by abusing his body with drugs and knives. It's seriously frustrating me. I'd like to stop this, not so much for his healthy, but to spare me some peace with out constant annoyance.

Edit: I would like to add that I know this seems selfish of me but if you had any idea how he is you'd understand. He doesn't know the first thing about drugs and he claims to be such an addict, for attention once again. That is one of my pet peeves. He's also playing innocent and trying to make me seem like the bad guy on this. It's so rediculous because I honestly couldn't give a fuck less about what happens to him. I want to punch him in the face.
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Old 2007-07-27, 18:22
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

It's so rediculous because I honestly couldn't give a fuck less about what happens to him. I want to punch him in the face.


Neither do we.

Go for it and post pics.
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Old 2007-07-27, 18:30
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Another person from NC!!! I don't got a car and I don't want to be stabbed so I'm never gonna actually see you, but are you near Greenville?
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Old 2007-07-27, 18:33
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

I know he's your ex and all that jazzy, but can't you just ignore it?

I mean, he's your ex-boyfriend. Unless you guys have remained good friends or on good terms, [which I don't get the impression of] your lives have nothing to do with each other anymore.

Let him be emo or whatever. People will hopefully eventually see through his act and realise he just wants attention. It's him, in the end, who's being a fool.

It's immature to say you've turned into something because of someone, and it's weak on top of that. Don't concern yourself with it and you'll be better off, I think.
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Old 2007-07-27, 19:08
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

grungekid: Dude, we're actually in the process of moving to Greenville. I think I'm either going to Wade Hampton high or Riverside high. That'd be awesome to meet some totseans up there. I figured there were probably several since it's so big. Right now I'm about 30 min. away from it in NC.

Cinquain:I see what you're saying. Good advice. I pretty much planned on ignoring him but it's slightly difficult seeing as we have the same friends, well from school, because we were bestfriends before we dated. I just posted this thread for shits and giggles and I was annoyed and felt like bitching. I hope these idiots can eventually see through his petty act but I doubt it. I'm not trying to be an arrogant fuck but they're severely ignorant. He knows that and that's why he's taking advantage of them. =/ Meh, whatever fuck him.
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Old 2007-07-27, 20:12
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

If I was in your shoes I would be a HEARTLESS bitch. From the knives I take it he says he cuts himself and takes about suicide? If so then next time he starts bitching about life tell him something along the lines of "you know what im tired of your complaining quit being a pussy and fucking GET IT over with kill your damn self already at least then I wont have to listen to you, fuck ill buy the damn razors if you want to do it" That might make him shut his mouth because he will see that you have NO Sympathy for him. I mean think about it people that say they are going to kill themselves all the time or show off cut marks do it for attention if he knows hes not going to get GOOD attention and that your just going to agree and say he should end it he will stop because it will make him feel worse.

As far as the drugs same thing goes, if he starts talking about being an addict tell him "Good im glad to see your doing something with your time, now all I have to do is hope and pray you OD and get out of my life for GOOD"

The shit works really good, I mean if you REALLY want to fuck with the guy next time he starts talking about cutting HAND Him a razor or somethign sharp and say "here play with this and leave me alone". Its really going to drive home that you dont want him around. NOW MIND YOU, theres is that slight off chance that he might actually just go kill himself and you gotta ask yourself do you really care? If you dont give a fuck then hey good ridance someone stupid enough to kill themselves probably doesn't need to live anyways.

Im a major fucking cocksucking ASSHOLE and I aprove this message

Disclaimer-I don't condone telling someone who is seriously SUICIDAL and needs help to go kill themselves. This is for attention whores only, if you know someone who may be experincing suicidal thoughts tell someone and let them get help. Handing someone a razor and telling them to kill themselves is not a good idea if you think they really will because I belive thats Illegal or some shit. AprenticeCHemistBITCHS and all affiliates are not liable for people thinking your a complete ASSHOLE if you use this post in real life, our company does use it and it works and helps but some people see us as big meany heads.
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Old 2007-07-27, 20:23
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Emos are pussies. If my fionce ever left me or even cheated on me I'd murder/suicide.
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Old 2007-07-27, 20:54
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

If my girlfriend (well can you call her that after a week and two hand jobs later) cheated on me, I'd go bah. Bitch doesn't know what she's missing.

Clue: He needs to man up.
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Old 2007-07-27, 20:56
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

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Emos are pussies. If my fionce ever left me or even cheated on me I'd murder/suicide.


Manly
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Old 2007-07-27, 21:22
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Manly

harming others for my own sick pleasure is something no emo is strong enough to do :D
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Old 2007-07-27, 21:31
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Haha, thanks all of you.

Well, honestly, I do think he'd kill himself if I told him to. I know he's tried before and he'll probably end up doing it anyways. I don't know if he truly does this shit for attention but I'm not planning on giving him any of mine. I talked to him a little last night through e-mail because I was inebriated. Other than that there's been no contact for a month, other than the time he called me to ask how to get blood stains off a matress and carpet(lawlz).

All he's doing is making me laugh. I have no feelings for him what so ever, especiall now. This just disgusts me that he would go this far to try to get me back. The only way I can prevent him from doing this to himself is by lying to him, or actually attempting to pretend like I care about him long enough to lecture him on this shit and get him out of my life for good. But being the asshole I am, I can't bring myself to that level of effort for his sorry ass, so, oh well. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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Old 2007-07-27, 21:58
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

What a bitch.
You think it's fucking funny that someone is hurting.

And dont fucking kid yourself, you're not so special someone would destroy themselves for the likes of you.
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Old 2007-07-27, 22:18
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Meh, I'm not trying to be a bitch.

I find it funny that he's doing this much for attention. He hasn't talked to me in about a month, nor made any effort to do so and now all of a sudden it's my fault he's trying to kill himself.

He's told about 4 or 5 people this. It's pathetic. He hasn't confronted me at all. I'm not going to acknowledge him. The whole reason he does drugs, etc. is because of me. He's trying to be what he thinks I consider "cool". but he fucked up.

I don't find his suicidal issues funny at all. The title of the thread was out of pure annoyance and sarcasm. In the relationships he told me of his past problems and told me that I was the one who saved him, etc. I do think he has problems, but I think this is just an issue that goes along with it. I don't think he's hurting himself because of his problems, his problem is lack of attention. I gave it to him but I didn't like how he reacted. I hate being close to people, so I backed away.

He's a huge minipulator.
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Old 2007-07-27, 22:22
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

sigh, emo kids and their drugs. I know whatcha mean.
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Old 2007-07-27, 22:48
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Im pretty sure thats north Greenville. I live just south of Greenville (less than 5 minutes) in Winterville (large 73% black suburb of Greenville). I go to South Central.
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Old 2007-07-27, 23:26
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

Your grasp of the English language is horrible, sylph.
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Old 2007-07-28, 01:38
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

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Im pretty sure thats north Greenville. I live just south of Greenville (less than 5 minutes) in Winterville (large 73% black suburb of Greenville). I go to South Central.


I was actually just told otherwise. I'm supposed to be attending Greenville Acedemy High School, near down town Greenville.
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Old 2007-07-28, 03:42
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

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Your grasp of the English language is horrible, sylph.


You don't understand. We are american. Our school system sucks ass.

Sylph: Do you mean your going to GCA? And what were you told otherwise about?
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Old 2007-07-28, 03:46
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

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What a bitch.
You think it's fucking funny that someone is hurting.

And dont fucking kid yourself, you're not so special someone would destroy themselves for the likes of you.


Actually youd be surprised so shut your stupid face. Ive got a friend who isn't that cool of a person and definatly not that much of a looker, but her ex boyfriend was doing the same exact thing talking about suicide and how he cuts and without her hed die and blah blah. They knew each other for like a few months and he was over reacting attention whore. Some people are just dumb fucks, dumb enough to destroy themselves.

I personally find it fucking HILAROUS that people are that dumb. I just got out of a 2 year long realationship and still love the hell out of the girl and we are still best friends but when we broke up there was no sadness I mean I was upset because id want her in my life as a girlfriend but you know what life goes on. I was a happy man before her, I was a happIER man with her but I can still be a happy man without her. Theres more to life then boyfriends and girlfriends. Stupid people that get all "Oh ima cut and be gay emo because I lost the one true love" And decide to try to kill themselves because of one person deserve to die, fucking weak links in the system. So if anyone is a bitch/asshole it would be me, slyph is just an annoyed person, if she was a real bitch shed have taken my advice, and let the fucker kill himself.
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Old 2007-07-28, 03:52
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If you hear from him Tell him to get over it a refuse to speak any further

Dont give him the time of day or even the chance to speak dont even answer

Honestly thats more for his good than your's I doubt your having much trouble with his (a good thing ofcouorse)
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Old 2007-07-28, 03:53
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Actually youd be surprised so shut your stupid face. Ive got a friend who isn't that cool of a person and definatly not that much of a looker, but her ex boyfriend was doing the same exact thing talking about suicide and how he cuts and without her hed die and blah blah. They knew each other for like a few months and he was over reacting attention whore. Some people are just dumb fucks, dumb enough to destroy themselves.

I personally find it fucking HILAROUS that people are that dumb. I just got out of a 2 year long realationship and still love the hell out of the girl and we are still best friends but when we broke up there was no sadness I mean I was upset because id want her in my life as a girlfriend but you know what life goes on. I was a happy man before her, I was a happIER man with her but I can still be a happy man without her. Theres more to life then boyfriends and girlfriends. Stupid people that get all "Oh ima cut and be gay emo because I lost the one true love" And decide to try to kill themselves because of one person deserve to die, fucking weak links in the system. So if anyone is a bitch/asshole it would be me, slyph is just an annoyed person, if she was a real bitch shed have taken my advice, and let the fucker kill himself.

well all i have to say to you is, FUCK YOU ASSHOLE!

@sylph

Your a bitch, whether your trying to be or not.
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Old 2007-07-28, 04:59
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grungekid:No, it's not Greenville Christain Acedemy. This (http://www.greenville.k12.sc.us/gvilleh/). And I was told otherwise about where we're moving. My parents keep changing their minds but I think this one is concrete.

ZonkoI apologize for my horrific grammar. Last night I decided to 'throw down' with some old friends, who apparently don't mess around with partying. I'm having a hard time being relatively coherent in conversations, much less typing and grammatical syntax. lawl. I know it's a horrible excuse, but it's the god honest truth.

As for the rest of you assholes that think I'm a bitch, that is the undeniable truth. I don't want to be and I would like to think there's a little more empathy in me to care about a person that is willing to put his life on the line for me, but I cannot bring myself to it. He's striving for attention, and I'm absolutely intolerent of his idiotic bullshit that he's portraying. I refuse to respond how he'd like me to.

I doubt he's going to kill himself. He's too much of a pussy. If I felt that his life was at all at risk, I would do all I was capable of, but I'm 99.9% positive that it's not the case. It's his mechanism to get back at me, and I'm not going to let him triumph.
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Old 2007-07-28, 06:01
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

You have to turn the tables on him. Start acting emo yourself. That should straighten things out.
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Old 2007-07-28, 06:11
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I hate emos
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Old 2007-07-28, 06:35
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grungekid:No, it's not Greenville Christain Acedemy. This (http://www.greenville.k12.sc.us/gvilleh/). And I was told otherwise about where we're moving. My parents keep changing their minds but I think this one is concrete.

ZonkoI apologize for my horrific grammar. Last night I decided to 'throw down' with some old friends, who apparently don't mess around with partying. I'm having a hard time being relatively coherent in conversations, much less typing and grammatical syntax. lawl. I know it's a horrible excuse, but it's the god honest truth.

As for the rest of you assholes that think I'm a bitch, that is the undeniable truth. I don't want to be and I would like to think there's a little more empathy in me to care about a person that is willing to put his life on the line for me, but I cannot bring myself to it. He's striving for attention, and I'm absolutely intolerent of his idiotic bullshit that he's portraying. I refuse to respond how he'd like me to.

I doubt he's going to kill himself. He's too much of a pussy. If I felt that his life was at all at risk, I would do all I was capable of, but I'm 99.9% positive that it's not the case. It's his mechanism to get back at me, and I'm not going to let him triumph.


...


So why not just ignore him?! and tell your friends to ignore his emo-punkass. All emos want is attention. if he calls dont answer. You have caller id right? Fuck Him.
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Old 2007-07-28, 06:49
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Well, it seems your ex bf is a dousche faggot mother fucker. Which means you date faggot mother fuckers. Which means ur probably fat. And also, why do you care?
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Old 2007-07-28, 07:35
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Look, don't feel guilty. People break up all the time and normal people get over it. If your ex is an attention whore, it's not your fault.

Also, he is doing this for attention, so don't give him any, and he will eventually stop. Don't give him the slightest amount of sympathy or he will jump all over it and keep bugging you.

And, if it turns out that he is serious.... well.... the gene pool is a little bit cleaner at least. :D
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Old 2007-07-28, 13:26
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

''I tried to kill mysefl last night''

Your response:
''Your effort is appalling''

Best line I've heard of in that kind of circumstance :)
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Old 2007-07-28, 16:07
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Goto Riverside, I went there last year, however the new building sucks. I'm graduated and going to USC so you won't get to meet me :-/
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Old 2007-07-28, 16:14
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A guy I know and went to junior high with jumped off the Mcdonald bridge a couple days ago. It's kinda fucked but you've gotta admit he "got R done"
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Old 2007-07-28, 19:44
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Goto Riverside, I went there last year, however the new building sucks. I'm graduated and going to USC so you won't get to meet me :-/


Hah! That's awesome. I suspected there were many totseans. I don't believe I have a choice though, we're not in that school district anymore. I'm excited about Greenville Academy, it looks nice and apparently it's the best school next to Riverside. I've heard the honors programs are better at the Academy. Congratulations on USC, etc. My brother's in school there.

lol@way off topic thread.
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Old 2007-07-29, 01:57
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The whole reason he does drugs, etc. is because of me.

I do drugs because it makes swimming intensely fun and hilarious!
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Old 2007-07-29, 01:58
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I do drugs because it makes swimming intensely fun and hilarious!

Word.
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Old 2007-07-29, 02:37
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in before pix and lock
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Old 2007-07-29, 06:09
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If my fionce ever left me or even cheated on me I'd murder

Fixed
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Old 2007-07-29, 06:27
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Default Re: My exboyfriend turned emo because of me (LOL)

My first word of advice, it's spelt ridiculous, spread the word properly.

Anyways, why are you giving him the attention then? Are y'all still friends or keep in contact?

And when I mean giving him attention I mean about how you went on totse and made a thread about it. This means of course that he is still on your mind whether it is positive or negative.

Also, how long ago was this break-up? Surely he didn't start "drugs" and "slashing" over a week's period?

He is a human. Humans have feelings. Obviously he is upset that you and him are separated, and he's doing the only thing his little immature mind can think of.

I hope for a response and hope that something I said may be a use to you.
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Old 2007-07-29, 07:28
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My first word of advice, it's spelt ridiculous, spread the word properly.

Anyways, why are you giving him the attention then? Are y'all still friends or keep in contact?

And when I mean giving him attention I mean about how you went on totse and made a thread about it. This means of course that he is still on your mind whether it is positive or negative.

Also, how long ago was this break-up? Surely he didn't start "drugs" and "slashing" over a week's period?

He is a human. Humans have feelings. Obviously he is upset that you and him are separated, and he's doing the only thing his little immature mind can think of.

I hope for a response and hope that something I said may be a use to you.


I shall become more concious of the way I spell ridiculous now. :)

I suppose he's on my mind, but it doesn't bother me much. I mean, I like him as a person I find it hard to look past his immaturity and be nice to him. This is just disgusting me.

I broke up with him almost a month ago, I believe. He started doing drugs when we were dating, but not abusing them, just trying them. When we broke up he started abusing them, apparently. We haven't had much contact since I split up with him.

I can understand him being hurt. I know how convinced he was that he loved me, I had no choice to end it when I did. I feel some what guilty because I never cared about him as much and I probably could have been more considerate of his feelings but I'm just rather appalled by his actions and the fact that he won't call me and confront me. It's just kind of disgusting.
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Old 2007-07-29, 20:25
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Emos are gay.

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b212/ungod11/nbc_the_more_you_know.jpg
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Old 2007-07-29, 20:38
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...I'm just rather appalled by his actions and the fact that he won't call me and confront me. It's just kind of disgusting.

Tell me what this would solve. It's not like you would take him back, you'd probably just get in an argument that would make him even more emo. So please, get real.
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Old 2007-07-29, 20:58
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I just looked at your pic on the &Totse gallery and quite frankly it's no bloody wonder that he turned emo. You're fuck ugly.

Fat, too.

And from what I can gather in this thread, you're a bit of a bitch, aswell. That guy was too good for you. I hope your next beats you like you deserve.

Seriously, shut the fuck up and get back in the kitchen where you belong.
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Old 2007-07-29, 21:31
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Greensboro? The only reasonable school there is Oak Ridge.
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Old 2007-07-29, 21:47
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murder/suicide/Molotov everything/huff raid. kthxbai.
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Old 2007-07-30, 01:21
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This thread is completely pointless.

I honestly don't care about him enough for this many replies, I had no idea it was going to be this long.

Thanks for everybody's input, but I'm pretty confident I can handle it. I just wanted to rant, really. I didn't feel like confronting my RL friends and bothering them.
 
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