So here's the story. I was at my friend's house a couple nights ago and we were all drinking a lot, playing drinking games and having a great time. Some girls came over, I knew them both and then there friend came over I didn't know. The friend was SMOKING HOT, lets call her Ashley. So throughout the night me and Ashley were flirting a little bit but at the same time one of the girls I knew was coming on really strong to me too. The one I knew eventually got too drunk and passed out. All the rest of us were still drinking though and I got Ashley's number because I was telling her about a party we were gonna have when we go back to college (we go to the same college) and she was like "well why dont you just get my number and call me". So the night went on and eventually we ended up sleeping in the same bed and having some "fun", no sex though. Right when we starting making out she was like "I shouldn't be doing this, the other girl is my friend and she thinks you're cute and I dont want to be mean" and I was just like o well and we continued. So I woke up and she was gone but I expected something like this because they had to be home at 7 AM and im not a morning person especially while hungover like the rest of the world. I really liked this girl though and I havent actually felt like I wanted to get to know a girl some more in a while, so its nice to have this feeling. So I contemplated trying to get in touch with her again and so I text messaged her tonight. No answer, which sucked. My friend is having a party this Saturday and I dont know if I should try and contact her again. I mean, I dont want to come off annoying or like stalkerish. I mean I felt like it was a good night a couple nights ago but then no answer tonight? Do you think she wants more or was just interested in some ass that night?

By the way I'm 21, so this isnt like a 15 year old random bullshit thing. Nothing against 15 year olds though

Possibly both. Maybe she thought she wanted to get deep but then realized in the morning that she totally did not want that. Or maybe that friend thing kept her from actually getting really involved.

If you really like her, then give her a call, don't text again. If she sounds excited, ask if she is going to that next party. If she sounds bored or uninterested, just tell her you wanted to check that she was okay. Either way, it's win-win for you.

Maybe got a little freaked because of her friend and that she knew she likes you. Don't be surprised if she pretty much avoids you or seems very uninterested in the short future. Go ahead and contact her, nothing to lose, but don't get your hopes up too much.

There's nothing weird or stalkerish about it man.

She gave you her number of her own free will so you could ask her to this party of yours. I say you call her up and see if she's gonna show.

Then take it from there.

If she turns up, cool. See if you can have a word with her about stuff and see what happens.
If she doesn't...Well...Screw it!

thanks for the good replies, it was a good confidence booster. im gonna do it and if it doesnt work, o well i tried

You should probably just wait a day or two and then call her about the party and gauge her reaction. Don't jump to conclusions about how she feels based on her leaving before you got up. Even if she is not interested she still might expect you to call.