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I'm a 17 y/o circumcised guy. Me and my girl just started having sex(virigins) and I just can't cum while I'm fucking her. I've tried different positions, but it's not working. I'm pretty sure its because whenever I masturbate, I 'pump' the skin, which puts more pressure on my dick. I don't even know if this is a good or a bad thing. We can fuck for a long time, which is good for her I guess because she can have multiple orgasms, but I'm kinda out of luck in that department. Any advice?

-No, I'm not gay
-No, I won't commit murder/suicide
-No, I won't huff raid

Thanks

i get the same problem once in a while. i think the best thing to do is just fuck her as hard and fast as you can, sooner or later youll get off mang

plus i dont know about your girl but mine likes it better that way anyways.

Not sure really. You don't seem to be anxious about sex but maybe you need to relax. Get her to give oral for a bit too before the sex.

- Kaizer.

well i've heard it happens sometimes if you wear a condom becauce it takes away some of the sensation

Might be just nerves. I screwed around with a bunch of girls after I lost my virginity. In the beginning I could go for a long time IF I could get it up. Every time it gained more confidence. Now That I've settled with my girl I can go for a long time if I slow down and then speed up. But I've noticed that I can get off faster and faster every time.

Happened when I was on depression meds. You on any meds?

I'm not using a condom, so that's not the problem.

I don't think it could be nerves, but there is a possibility. I'm comfortable around her and everything. I don't get nervous when we're about to do it, and my dick is nearly at it's biggest when I fuck her.

Not on meds/drugs/alcohol...

Maybe I just need more experience.

Stop masturbating if you haven't already

I just stopped...
I used to masturbate everyday.

yeah but how long have you stopped for?
don't whack it for like a week or two, your peen will be so desperate for action you'll cum if she just looks at it right.

I just stopped only a few days ago haha
The thing that sucks, is that we probably won't go for more than two days without fucking, and since I can't cum, then I usually just masturbate real quick later because I get blue ballz. (that's what happened today, our second time)

You probably just need more experience. It took me a long time before sex was ever anything approaching pleasurable for me. You just have to learn what works for you...I've found that it's a lot easier for me to orgasm when I'm alone rather than around my husband.

If I were you I would just try to relax and focus on the fun of sex and don't worry about having an orgasm. Also what do you mean you "pump" the skin?

I'm not using a condom, so that's not the problem.



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Also what do you mean you "pump" the skin?

He means he has a lethal death grip on his cock while pumpin.

OP just roll with it. Get her on top and let her ride you. If you don't cum its no big deal. Your still having sex and your girlfriend is having fun. Just keep at it until you bust.

Can you cum from blowjobs? If you can, just fuck her for a while, then let her finish you off with her mouth.

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The girl who took my virginity was also a virgin. I had sort of the same problem. I got there in the end, it just took a long long time. Tell her to open her legs more. Problem solved

Your obviously gay.

Funny thing, but I have trouble coming from penetration, too.

Some things have been mentioned already so I won't go over them.

I found I couldn't cum very well when I only thought about my girlfriend's needs, and wouldn't focus on my own sensations. If you're comfortable with your girl, tell her your issue and say that you'd really love to try and solve the problem. If you can make her O multiple times then she'll probably agree to focus on you for a session.

If you can try this, it works great, and is a lot of fun for you. Sometimes it's just nice to relax and let the work be done for you. Have her give you a massage and turn it erotic with a twist. Continue on to light foreplay, and then heavy foreplay. Be creative and get her to do things you like. Then move on to sex, with her on top at the beginning. Once you're closer to the breaking point, switch to you dominant and go as hard as you need to. If you can't cum after an entire session focused on your own pleasure, chances are you aren't comfortable enough with your situation or there is some other factor at work.
You should be able to cum relatively easy with all that stimulation. Or maybe your partner is inexperienced? That would make sense seeing as you're both virgins.

Either way, it will come (no pun intended) with time and one day you'll remember fondly the days when you couldn't cum because it just happens faster as you get better at sex ;)