got a really good almost 2 yr relationship with a girl, and tonight I sort of blew it. Me and my GF have been going out for two years, but tonight I think I ruined that.

I am out of town. Met this 28 yr old girl, was married. Anyways we hit it off really well, and we ended up giving each other back massages and stuff. Anyways, I kissed her once, thought we would fuck, but didn't.

Its now weird. I'll admit we were stoned and fucked up. I feel really bad, sort of a welcome to alcohol thing.

A.) Does your GF know? and B.)..its a beer...

IF she knows then tell her it was the beer and you were merely drunk.

IF she doesn't..DONT tell her. Plain and simple

The eternal question...to tell or not to tell.

Personally I'd tell her, even if it hurts her.

Oh and btw you're an IDIOT!

But I'm guessing you know that now.

Similar thing... had just gotten back with my ex-girlfriend through a long period of estrangement. The next night, i drank, took some pills, smoked, and did some coke, and made out with three people who were like 3 years younger than me, two girls and a guy. Immediately after i parted company, I knew i'd fucked up and fucked up big. So I told her how sorry I was and how much I loved her still and wished I could take it back, and she forgave me.

I suggest you do the same.

"waaa waaa I was soo drunk/high I couldnt help being a cheating shit. You'll notice that even though I blame alcohol for my stupid and irresponsible behaiviour I didnt throw myself off any cliffs or cut my fingers off."



Being drunk is not a fucking excuse to be a fucking cheating shit, you complete and utter fuck!

I think you should have the decency to tell your girlfriend, so she knows she's with a cheating piece of shit and can act accordingly.
You'd be a selfish evil person to hide it from her. If she's with you she needs to be able to trust you, and you've completely killed that.
Asshole.

Being drunk is not a fucking excuse to be a fucking cheating shit, you complete and utter fuck!

agreed.

Being drunk is not a fucking excuse to be a fucking cheating shit, you complete and utter fuck!


That doesn't mean he's not incredibly sorry. That doesn't mean that he wouldn't take it back if he could. People aren't perfect. We fuck up. And you don't know how disgusting it feels to have betrayed someone you love until you've actually done it.

yes but the way i'm reading it, he's trying to unload the whole thing onto the fact he was inebriated. just admit that you're untrustworthy and incapable of keeping it in your pants.

"waaa waaa I was soo drunk/high I couldnt help being a cheating shit. You'll notice that even though I blame alcohol for my stupid and irresponsible behaiviour I didnt throw myself off any cliffs or cut my fingers off."



Hmm ..so you've never drunk Merrydown Cider?

:P

I think we need to hear more from the op... and whether he is or is not blamign it on the booze. 'Cuz to me, it seemed like an afterthought, until yoyobek went on her crazy rant and it became more about him blaming it on the drink and smoke...

i agree that it's a short post and that was just my impression, not necessarily the case.

agreed

Oh calm down. Yeah, it wasn't ok for him to cheat on his girlfriend, and no, being drunk isn't an excuse. But sometimes people just make mistakes, and its not like her fucked her. He kissed her. I'm not saying that he should hide it from his girlfriend, but if its something that isn't really that big of a deal then maybe he could just forget about it. And never do it again. Ever.

It was one kiss. Yeah, it was wrong...but jesus. I don't think that makes him a horrible person. I'd forgive someone i'd been with for two years a single kiss.

Then again, he did say he was ready to fuck her...

Holy shit, overreacting a bit wouldn't ya say? I'm going to venture a guess and say that you're not in a relationship, because God help the guy that would have to deal with your bullshit.

Holy shit, overreacting a bit wouldn't ya say? I'm going to venture a guess and say that you're not in a relationship, because God help the guy that would have to deal with your bullshit.

QFT. x.X