Alright, this is a pretty simple question that I've been stressing over for awhile. I have the tendency to be able to hook up a date with the girls that I'm interested in, but I'm unsure as to what to do afterwards?
For example, tomorrow I'm supposed to go out for coffee with this someone but I mean, that takes maximum an hour.. what do I do after that? End it there or what? Keep in mind that we are also friends and share the same friend group\.

Thanks in advance

After your coffee date, suggest that you two go and see a movie or go to a beach or something, just anything reasonable that will get you more time with the girl. Or if it seems that the coffee date didn't go too well, give her some space for a day or two and see if she's still interested after that. Just play it by ear on the date and decide based upon what happens. Ask her what her interests are, make sure you remember them and try to arrange another date revolving around her interests.

Expose ur pen0r.

Take a walk with her. Get to know her a little better as more than a friend.

If I actually like a girl I take a walk with her and it works for me. You get to just shoot the shit, ask questions, give answers. It's pretty cool.
Also while you're walking, you can usually find other things to do. Spontaneity can be pretty rewarding. ;)

Also, after you've taken her home (walk her to the door like a gentleman!), you go home, smile and do the happy dance!

Sit at her parents house until it is her bedtime, then crawl in her bed and finger her.

I see this so much on S&A and it gets annoying. Quit stressing about what to do and just have fun. Just relax and hang out with her, and everything will take care of itself.

Townsend, youre missing the question. I mean, I can def. still have fun, we can go out and chill with our friends.. whatever. We already know each other pretty well... we've gone for coffee before and such. Im just not sure how to step it up

I dont mean to question your judgement, but wouldnt u feel the urge to extend the date if you enjoyed your time with her? I mean it should be a instant action, I had a girl train from place to place with me just to extend the time of me being with her....obviously she had no objections or she would of ditched out after lunch......I even have the odds against me living in a shitty town that i do and i still manage to figure out stuff to do.

Just ask them, then give them a few choices if they say for you to decide or pick YOU decide dont argue for 20 minutes saying back and forth IDK where do u want to go, make a decision and just go.

Thanks! I find that I always get into a situation where its just "well what do you want to do?... I dont know, what do you want to do... blah blah blah"

I guess I should just start layin it down.

Thanks!

You seem to be getting a good idea, and I understand where you're coming from with the whole "stepping it up a notch" type thing. Not necessarily physically, just showing her a more interesting time.

It's much harder without a car, however if you do have a car than the possibilities are quite endless. I have a bunch of different spots that I love to take girls and they always tell their friends what a great time they had and what an interesting person I was, and I did like... nothing other than talk and bring them to a place I knew.

But be assertive, tell them that you'd like to bring them somewhere, or suggest something rather than the awkward "what do you want to do... i dunno... blah blah" situation. If you don't have a car then look up what's close to the coffee place. Speaking of coffee, I've spent 2-3 hours in those shops with girls on dates, 1 hour seems like you don't have much to talk about. And if you want to spice things up, go out with a group of friends after coffee! People seem to think that adding people to the date makes things awkward, but I find a combination of alone time and company time makes the whole experience MUCH better. She can see you with other people and how you interact and appreciate you from a different angle. Many times it's these dates where I've seen amazing results.

Have some alone time at the beginning, go with some friends out somewhere and have fun, and then alone time at the end where you sit and reminisce. I've had many occasions where the girl will actually jump me during the later alone time, usually with the phrase "I've been thinking about doing this the entire time with your friends." It's seeing you in action that can really turn a girl on.

Good luck!

made me smile man...

too bad it's been a while :(

going for coffee is definately a good idea....its not too long, so if it sucks or gets awkward, it'll end soon. It will let you get a feel for the person and see if you want to continue on with things, or see if you still get a good vibe from her....if both are a yes, then after coffee suggest going to do something else, but have something else planned out....whether it be going to a movie, or putt putt golf or something like that....
if you dont feel it, or dont think she feels it....then call it a day after the coffee.