We can be honest. We may love them but it doesn't mean they never get on our nerves. It's like having a best friend. We may love them but it doesn't mean that sometimes we just want to punch them in the face and say SHUT THE FUCK UP!

So what annoys you about your partner?

1. The way she talks to her dog. The way she has to bring her dog with her every where we go. She sleeps on the $1600 dollar bed I bought my g/f for US. If it shits or pisses on it it's ok. She comes up with an excuse to how it's not the dog's fault. "I didn't take her out last night." C'MON!

One time the dog literally PISSED on my girlfriend for no reason at all. What did my girl say about it? "It probably had to go really bad." I don't like her dog.

2. How sometimes she likes to sing. It's not pretty and it's annoying.

3. How she isn't as sexual as me. Here I am going down on her for 30 minutes at a time and what does she do for me? Nothing. Never has, probably never will.

So, what annoying things does your partner do?

EDITED: I forgot to mention that I live with my girlfriend and that we have been together for two years this August. Before we were together we were pratically best friends. She was the main girl I pursued. After several "no, I don't like you's" and "you'll never have a chance with me" I finally got her.

Pretty much the only thing my gf does that annoys me is when she wont tell me what the fuck is wrong. She'll get this tone of voice which she knows I can recognise anywhere, I ask her whats wrong she says nothin and I feel shitty/pissed cause I cant help her and she wont tell me whats goin on. 10-30 minuts later she finnally tells me what it was, usually a minor insecurity, no big deal.

OH and when we'on the phone she'll suddenly break from the conversation with no warning, so I'm thinkin shes talkin to me when shes actually talkin to her sister.

Thats all I can think of, but then again I dont live with her either, so there may be more.


....ilikedots...........

My fiance can be a little clingy every now and again, and sometimes I just want time to myself to play some vids or work on a project. She's getting better with this now.

OneMulatto- Damn man, I'd hit that fucking dog and kick it's ass to the porch if it pulled that kind of shit.

As for the singing, just ask her," who sings this song?"
She answers, then you say," lets keep it that way."
She might get pissed but she'll get the hint. Do it in a joking manor to reduce the backlash,lol.

As for the sex thing, just grab her by the hair and face fuck her, and then rape her if she won't put out.

I dont think clingyness counts really in a good relationship, they're always going to get attached. That's why I didnt mention it in my post, but yea she gets kinda pissy when I tell her I gotta go, but she usually gets over it.


..........ilikedots......

Complaining about the same insignificant things repeatedly, then getting annoyed when I inform her that she sounds like a broken record and should stop whining.

Ouch, I'm not sure I'd make that comment about the singing. Seems like a surefire way to make her REALLY pissed off! Even jokingly, I'd be pissed as fuck if someone said that to me.

She's non-existent?

3. do ur thing but dont go down on her

2. gag

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How she isn't as sexual as me. Here I am going down on her for 30 minutes at a time and what does she do for me? Nothing. Never has, probably never will.



Shit man!! That's really selfish.

Shit man!! That's really selfish.

I don't think that selfish. If you give like that then you should get at least something in return.

She's non-existent?

You stole my answer, jackass.

She pinches me and is loud.

I honestly can't think of anything right now. Most of the things she does that I find irritating are one-time things. Acute annoyances instead of chronic annoyances. Maybe I'm just easygoing.

Ohhh my GOD I could go on for hours.

The "giving nothing in return", yea, recently he's not done ANYTHING like that, he's now wondering why I won't suck him off after I've done it for him quite a lot and he's been promising to do something after for me. Then the prick went straight back onto the computer.

He's on the computer WAY too much. I mean bloody hell, how has he not exhausted the internet. The whole weekend he's been sat on here after weeks of promising that he'll sort it out and not do it as much.

He fails to see where he goes wrong. "You should look at the way you are!"
"well so should you..."
"So should you, so should you *rolls eyes* for fucks sake, YOU SHOULD!" I mean what the fuck, lead by example?

When he says something that doesn't make sense to me, be it the way he's explained or I didn't quite hear him (perfectly understandable after him fucking up my ear for while) he gets all anti and rolls his eyes and does these stupid little faces that just drive me crazy and that SCREAM "I'm better than you".

Doesn't help he's got the cheek to get annoyed about me feeling weird about other girls when he had pictures of his ex on his wall for a year and a half after them breaking up. Referring to her as "my ex fiance" while he referred to me as "a girl I'm fucking" and said to my cousin "I think I picked the wrong cousin" as a"joke" to make her "laugh". Prick. What makes it worse is that I've spent months being bored, feeling trapped and quite nervous around him and being made to feel inferior and worthless.

Also, he'll get drunk and like... invent these things. Other night he spent literally over 12 straight hours on the computer, bar 45 mins when he went to his mums, then kept coming into the bedroom, drunk, promising he'll come to bed soon and he spends too much time on the computer and that he loves me, it's nothing personal. Then went out for a further hour after promising to be 2 minutes to say bye to this guy he was talking to. Then accused me of calling him a cunt, which I know I didn't. Unlike him I was sober, and just generally telling me he wants a better girlfriend who isn't clingy.

So apparently I'm shit and clingy for being bored with being stuck in here all the time watching him on the computer and getting only grunts and "uuh... yuh..." from him whenever I speak.


He can be alright. When he's not being a self-absorbed, ignorant spactard.

^^^^^
dude sounds like a keeper.

^^^Yeah, you've picked a real winner there. He's most definately your soul mate.

^3rd'ed. No question.

OP, wow, go talk to her about this, really, and Duck in a Frog too, jeez people.

My gf is kinda clingy but I'm alright with that right now, she trusts me but thinks every other girl is potentially out there to steal me away, and fully wants to, very jealous type (for now). She sings randomly too, badly on purpose, but it's gotten past funny or even irritating now, it pisses me off (someone going 'ella, ella, eh, eh, eh, eh' (Rihanna and jay-z, umbrella' but in a monotone voice, 20x a day. *slaps*

She has a tendency to overreact to nearly everything for about an hour, then comes up and apologizes about overreacting, and overreacts about her overreactive-ness for a short while.

Past that she's awesome.

She's non-existent?

This'd be mine aswell

The fact that bitches ain't shit but ho's and tricks...

She likes being bitten.

...and I dont like being bitten, but she does it, and it hurts like all fuck, and then the next day at school there are welts and hickeys and bite marks all over my chest and neck.

Don't currently have a GF, but mine was always flirting. I remember this one girl had a pretty big circle but it was mostly guys, only like 3-4 other girls. I was cool with virtually all the guys in her circle, but there were some that in my eyes were constantly flirting with her when i wasn't around. She never encouraged them, to her it was just normal. I am a pretty well adjusted guy, I have a few relationships with girls that i have no intention of ever sleeping with, and the way these guys were acting was different. I never brought it up because (and i have seen it on these very boards) I would just get labelled as clingy and overly jealous, but it bothered me.

1. He tries to use big words but doesn't use them properly or if he does, he uses them in the wrong tense. "That dude thinks he's so prestigiously" and it just makes him sound stupid.

2. He can't roll a joint/blunt worth a shit, yet insists on rolling them and refuses to let me roll them.

3. He's insanely jealous, and is 100% certain that every guy on the planet is secretley trying to flirt with me.

4. He doesn't know how to put dishes in the dishwasher or scrub pans that need to be scrubbed, despite my constant reminders. He also leaves wet towels and boxers strewn in the hallway at all times.

5. When he's with his friends, he doesn't talk in English then makes me feel like I'm being talked about when they all look at me and start to laugh, give me a thumbs up, then give him a high-five or pat on the back, thus confirming my suspicions that he's relaying to them all of our sexual adventures.

Do you honestly think I've not tried to talk to him about it? It's like talking to a brick wall, I swear to God, he doesn't seem to take it in. And when he does, it's quite short-lived.


But yea, all that about your girlfriend would do my nut. I couldn't stand the singing especially.

that he tidies in batches, like when it gets prettyyyy messy, he tidies, he won't just tidy regularly

You're no fun, biting is AWESOME!!!

Do you honestly think I've not tried to talk to him about it? It's like talking to a brick wall, I swear to God, he doesn't seem to take it in. And when he does, it's quite short-lived.


But yea, all that about your girlfriend would do my nut. I couldn't stand the singing especially.

Eh... singing sucks, she thinks I'm playing when i ask her to stop, but no, it;s just annoying.

The clingyness I deal with, i either disappear for a little while (no contact for a few hours or so, normal for most but hey), go hang out with some friends, or a girl friend of mine (that she knows and is oddly enough ok with) and I'm fine. If in person, it's alright since it's a few minutes of overreacting, then she wants to cuddle/etc., which pretty much means moar secks. :)

And hm... find way to remind him of it if he doesn't take it seriously enough, that would be enough reason for me to leave someone 10x over (kinda like my situation with you, but we're all different I suppose) so let him know how serious it is, in a non-ultimatum way. *shrug* Just tossing ideas out

I hate it when he's grumpy. When he's grumpy, it makes me grumpy and then we just feed off each other's grumpiness and it boils into a gay fight over something stupid.

I also hate the way he drives. I feel like he doesn't take driving seriously enough and it makes me scared. :(

But thankfully I find him tolerable most of them time...lol

Aww, c'mon. You're probably underestimating his driving abilities. I get this all the time, from people I don't even know. Apparently my driving is wreckless.

^^^^^

Yea there usually right even if its not beyond your "skill"

I just drive slow with them in the car sick of the whinging and dont really want to kill somone else as they remind me

*She thinks it's funny to burp then blow it in my face.

*She's so social, connected and popular. She makes me feel inferior because I'm an anti social nerd.

*She's so nice it almost seems like it's fake. Only because I became so used to being treated like shit. I always suspect ulterior motives now.

*She gets sex when she wants it, regardless. No questions about it. I maybe get it when I want it. And she's so random with it. Waking me up in the middle of the night for it. Or after I take my medication (which knock me the fuck out), and 15 minutes later she decides she wants sex.

*Wont go to the toilet while I'm in ear shot, because she doesn't want me listening to her peeing. Because I made the joke that when girls piss it "Hisses".

But at the end of the day, she's near perfect. <3

I hate it when he's grumpy. When he's grumpy, it makes me grumpy and then we just feed off each other's grumpiness and it boils into a gay fight over something stupid.

Ditto, its annoying.. and if you try and blame their grumpyness they just become even more angry.. hmm :[

* He overracts to some of the things I say.. He takes things in a negative way a lot.

* He likes to point out my imperfections.. Like I don't know what they are already.

* He likes to insult me about my past. It wasn't great, but it was exactly horrible either, but he says that I should've thought more about my actions.

* He's obsessed with guns. Guns are cool and everything, but he spends most, if not all his time messing with his guns or talking about them.

* He'll ignore me for the tv or the computer.

Sometimes, he'll do things that are cute the first couple times around, but after awhile, it gets annoying, and he thinks its cute how I tell him to stop so he thinks I'm still playing around when its really annoying, so when I get mad at him for it, he overreacts...

* When I tell him I have to piss really bad, he'll stand in the doorway with the door wide open.. I wouldn't mind him being in there, as long as he would close the fucking door so the animals wouldn't come in the bathroom...


But I love him to death. I wouldn't say he's near perfect, because no one is, but he's wonderful in the end.

Girl I'm with now has a real inferiority complex and she gets into these moods where she feels she's not good enough for me. I mean... it's not annoying or anything, I just feel terrible for her and it's hard to make her feel better. Like.. just a weekend or two ago she got drunk and later in the night while we were passing out she started crying and saying she doesn't deserve me. I could barely think straight so I couldn't help her out much, it just really sucked.
But really, in the end, that's not such an annoying trait. She's an amazing girl.

However, if I was to go through all my old relationships I wouldn't be able to fit it all into one post. Here are some serious issues I had:

* constantly bringing up the past, always brooding on it and never letting old things go. Broke up with my last ex for that exact reason.

* no passion. Old girlfriend rarely wanted to do anything physically intimate, and when we did it was always devoid of anything other than bare minimum. Just made sex with her very boring and dull and eventually non-existent.

* Being awkward and ignoring the problem/me until I finally confronted her. It was annoying as shit and a tad heartbreaking, because when the girl had something bad to say, and eventually how she broke up with me, would just be to barely talk to me for a long time until finally I had to talk to her and then it would happen.

Don't do these things. Please.

I also hate the way he drives. I feel like he doesn't take driving seriously enough and it makes me scared. :(


If I ever get a gf, I have this strange feeling this may be a problem.

Oh and she also farts too much, and is a tad too proud of it. Farts more than I do, yeesh.

Eh... singing sucks, she thinks I'm playing when i ask her to stop, but no, it;s just annoying.

The clingyness I deal with, i either disappear for a little while (no contact for a few hours or so, normal for most but hey), go hang out with some friends, or a girl friend of mine (that she knows and is oddly enough ok with) and I'm fine. If in person, it's alright since it's a few minutes of overreacting, then she wants to cuddle/etc., which pretty much means moar secks. :)

And hm... find way to remind him of it if he doesn't take it seriously enough, that would be enough reason for me to leave someone 10x over (kinda like my situation with you, but we're all different I suppose) so let him know how serious it is, in a non-ultimatum way. *shrug* Just tossing ideas out

You could add a "no, seriously... Can you stop?" after you've asked I suppose.

But yea, I was going to say something in a situation it won't lead to shouting and stress. I don't need to be with someone who doesn't make me feel I';m loved or wanted. Apparently this makes me fucked up and insecure because I like to sometimes be shown I'm cared about. =S

You could add a "no, seriously... Can you stop?" after you've asked I suppose.

But yea, I was going to say something in a situation it won't lead to shouting and stress. I don't need to be with someone who doesn't make me feel I';m loved or wanted. Apparently this makes me fucked up and insecure because I like to sometimes be shown I'm cared about. =S

I've done that, but since I'm joke-y and kinda sarcastic usually, she doesn't take it seriously.

Wanting affection is a human need, it makes you normal to want it, especially from your SO, that's more than a bit assholeish on his part to call you insecure for that, no offence, and I'd say he's insecure for not offering any. I'd say that list is a tad past just annoying, it would be enough for me to dump someone over. :\

Do you honestly think I've not tried to talk to him about it? It's like talking to a brick wall, I swear to God, he doesn't seem to take it in. And when he does, it's quite short-lived.

Leave.
Leaaaave.

He's not going to get any better. If he doesent listen to you now he's not going to be listening to you a few years down the line!
It may make you feel sad to think of leaving him, it may break your heart,but I reckon deep down you know it's what has to be done.


I had a boyfriend once, almost as bad as yours. Played guildwars, or some similar fucking game all the time. Now I'm a gamer, I can respect the fact that games can be great fun.
But if someone dedicates their life to that goddamn game first, and their girlfriend maybe fith or sixth after the game, prozac, pictures of amy lee, the game some more and then the game, it gets very tiring.


Life is too long to waste with someone worthless.

I've an attraction to gamers so I guess I'll allways be drawn to geeky people. But atleast my current boyfriend atleast notices my fucking existence when he's playing a MMORPG.

Atleast, usually.

Allthough, I'm getting quite tired of being ignored so much. A girl can only take so much before she starts thinking of looking elsewhere for some respect and affection.

Dogs belong outside. If my girlfriend had a misbehaving dog I would wait until she went somewhere and kill it, and then tell her it was hit by a car/ran away/ dropped dead.

My ex.
*She has the mental age of a 6 year old
*Obsessed with disney, hello kitty, miffie, all that shit.
*Put me absolute last with her friend. I know the whole friends before partners thing, but i was with her before she met her friend, who is a self absorbed, bi polar spiteful bitch.
*Talked to me like i was a twelve year old, in the rare occasions she acted her age.
*Never did anything with me, i had to do all the pushing. Im all for playing hard to get, but thats fucking stupid.
*Never let me have a serious conversation

etc, etc. i could go on for ages. But thats why shes my ex, eh?

haha thats fucking priceless. Heres a few things about my ex that always fucking bothered me.

*She was a fucking God child. Always listened to her parents. Literally prayed evrynight, like on her knees and shit hands folded.
*She was a perfectionist. I hate that. Even if it was the smallest fucking thing in the world she would have to do something about it.
*She would get mad at me when i would go to play a game or something sayign we havent talked that much meanwhile we talked for 3 hours on the phone or over AIM.
*She would get pissed that I wouldnt talk to her when I was with friends. I mean really, Im with my fucking friends hanging out ill call you later. Then this one time i forgot to call and I called the next day and she flipped out
*when ever she had that something wrong kind of face on she would never tell me whats wrong, ever
*when i was feeeling her up id ask if it was ok and she would say i dont care? a simple yes or no would do
*For the 1st month in summer she taught kindergartners religion for free... and then she would complain to me how we havent seen eachother.
*She over exagerated everything and I mean everything. 25 cents would turn up as 25G's
*When we finally did hang out she would want to have a bet that who ever cracked first would do this and if I won it would be a hand job.

After she told me that after I waited a month to hang out with her I just told her to fuck off.

I've done that, but since I'm joke-y and kinda sarcastic usually, she doesn't take it seriously.

Wanting affection is a human need, it makes you normal to want it, especially from your SO, that's more than a bit assholeish on his part to call you insecure for that, no offence, and I'd say he's insecure for not offering any. I'd say that list is a tad past just annoying, it would be enough for me to dump someone over. :\

Taht's what I said.
Cock.
Lol, oh well.

Leave.
Leaaaave.

........

Allthough, I'm getting quite tired of being ignored so much. A girl can only take so much before she starts thinking of looking elsewhere for some respect and affection.

Yea, I know, it's all retarded.


Eh, I'll fix it, if he doesn't keep his promise this time, then fuck it, it's over, he fucked it up.

Though it doesn't help my case that we had a huge fight and i threw a lot of stuff at him, lol.