I'm 23, I have a great women who I'm going to marry in 09', but I still want to fuck everything that moves. From what I understand, this won't get any better as I get older either. The part that makes it worse is the staggering number of women who want to fuck me, some of them hotter than my fiance. Lately, my brain has been going crazy with thoughts about hooking up with some other girls, but I love my fiance and don't want to cheat. A more open relationship would definitely fix the problem, but she'd never go for it. A major problem is that my fiance just can't handle as much sex as I want to have, and now the situation is even worse living 4 1/2 hours from each other. I'll see her on the holidays, and every second weekend, but I'm really worried about fucking up. Being a man sucks. Anyone going through or have gone through this situation?

Maybe you shouldnt be getting married just yet.

Nothing against you, you're just not ready to settle down. If you do get married before you're ready, you probably will fuck it up. And even if you do manage to keep it discreet, it'll eat away at you eventually.

Sounds like you're not ready to get married. If you don't think you would be able to resist other women, then what's the point in getting married? To me, you have to be sure in order to get married.

You obviously don't want to commit if you want to fuck other women who you think are hotter than your fiance. I don't think you should get married anytime soon...

Hey at least ill give you props for the wedding being in 09 That way you have plenty more time to think this over. You don't sound to ready to get married just yet, and im sure if you did get married with the situation as is you would end up like half of the other fucktards that rush into marraige and get a divorce. And guess what SHE GETS HALF. Remember that before you get married you get divorce and that bitch can take it ALL. Ive known a few people that lost EVERYTHING EVERYFUCKING THING. Kids, house, trucks, everything fuck one guy the bitch took his damn dog even no shit. So think about that also before you get married be sure that its not going to just be a shitty divorce a few years later and you end up with jack shit.

Oh, poor you. You need to do some growing up before you make a commitment like marriage to a girl you love, but throw aside in despair on an internet forum!

Yeaa thats why i prefer to stay away from seriousness anymore, girls cant keep it real all the time, neither can i.. and plus i use distance to my advantage, that way if any of that becomes and issue it wont be for long cause the girl will be leaving to move back to her hometown or for school starting soon. Take advantage of that shit. Knowledge works

Being able to pee standing up makes up for any stupid urges. I suggest learning how to avoid indulging in all your whims, it's part of growing up.

If you've already set the date for 09 she's clearly got you by the balls and only likes draining them when she feels necessary. Tell her to either make with the nookie or the weddings off. Tell her you love her so much you would put your future in jeopardy to fuck her a handful more times aweek. If she's all offended then fuck her and get something else.

You could just fuck other girls on the side.

Simple, just don't get married. IMO, I dislike marrage altogether.

I actually call bullshit on all of you, cause 90% of married men cheat, and 50% of women do. This is what the statistics are for my country, and I'm pretty sure they're right from conversations with men and women. How many of you are married or in long-term relationships?
From what I understand, these are very normal feelings that most men have in long term relationships. The old you want what you can't have scenario. If you don't want to screw every hot woman you see that isn't family, are you sure your a man?

Congratulations on reaching new levels of ignorance.

So basically, you're going to your entire life to another person, when you don't have the slightest idea what a marriage even is. Kudos when you finally hit that wall.

Since you seem to like statistics, even though yours are horribly wrong (It's about 22% for men, and 14% for women in america. Maybe you live on some other third world country that noone cared enough to do a report on. Either way, theres not going to be a 70% difference. But since you seem to like statistics, heres another one for you.

Each year, 7.5 people out of every 1000 get married. 3.8 of those end in divorce. Over half. Good luck with the alimony payments.

It is rough being a male. I have the same problem about the sex thing. She just can't keep up with my sex drive and she isn't very sexual AT all. She'll just lay there in bed.

All the times we've fucked it's always been the same two positions. She's on top or I'm on top. The past YEAR though it's been me on top and that is IT! She won't give me head for she is afraid of the "juices" that come out. I'm not talking about coming in her mouth, she's talking about the "pre-ejaculant" cum. She won't even give me a hand job all the way for her arms get tired. She is really selfish when it comes to pleasing me.

OTHER THAN THAT we have a good relationship, minus the dog issue. I <3 her with all my heart but I NEED sex.

I look at other girls, I can't help it. I think this is a guy thing. Any guy who says that he doesn't check out other girls is a lie to me.

You live HOW FAR away from your fiannce? If I were you I'd say fuck it and fuck some other girls. As long as she doesn't find out what's the big deal? Your own guilt will play the part at first but after awhile it'll go away and it'll be natural to fuck girls behind your fiannce's back. And, it ain't love, it's just sex.

Congratulations on reaching new levels of ignorance.

So basically, you're going to your entire life to another person, when you don't have the slightest idea what a marriage even is. Kudos when you finally hit that wall.

Since you seem to like statistics, even though yours are horribly wrong (It's about 22% for men, and 14% for women in america. Maybe you live on some other third world country that noone cared enough to do a report on, or maybe you're just black. Either way, theres not going to be a 70% difference. But since you seem to like statistics, heres another one for you.

Each year, 7.5 people out of every 1000 get married. 3.8 of those end in divorce. Over half. Good luck with the alimony payments.

Just had to throw in the racial slur. Didn't know only black people cheat. Maybe you're just ignorant.

Dude your girl sounds really shity. I couldn't stand a girl like that. My ex would get a little greedy at times and expect not to do much all you have to do is just stop eating the pussy she will learn to suck a dick then. Or find a new girl.

Dude your girl sounds really shity. I couldn't stand a girl like that. My ex would get a little greedy at times and expect not to do much all you have to do is just stop eating the pussy she will learn to suck a dick then. Or find a new girl.

People always say that to me. "Your girlfriend sounds really shitty." She isn't. She just isn't very sexually. Besides me she had only been with one other guy. The time interval between me and that guy was like 3 years, too. I think it's just that she hasn't had too many partners so she doesn't know the importance of pleasing your partner.

I remember the first time I fucked her, I could tell she was pratically a virgin.

Everything besides the sex is great. As a plus, though, she lets me fuck her in the ass.

It does suck that she isn't as sexually as me, though.

Dude, seriously, ditch the bitch and move on.

jesus just cheat on her...she doesn't has to know, you know. as long as she doesn't see it and knows it, its alright.;)

.::masturbation::.

I here you OneMulatto. My fiance is pretty fun in bed though, lots of positions, gives pretty good head, likes anal, but she just gets sore and can't have sex as often as I'd like. That feeling of rejection on the days she can't fuck makes me want to find someone who can. I'm pretty sure polygamy would be the solution to my problems, but I don't know how the old lady would take that idea. My fiance actually understands the situation though, she knows I don't want someone else, I only want more sex.

SilentMind-How long have you been married for? If you aren't, then what do you know?You seem to only know marriage as an ideal of expectations, where as I look at marriage dynamically as a relationship that fits and changes with the people who are involved in it. What works when you start your marriage isn't likely what will work 20 years down the road. Monogamy only works when both people are completely happy with it, and it's usually the thorn in the paw that leads to divorce if they aren't, or disagree. I have discussed my feelings that I'm having with my fiance quite exstensively, and she understands the situation that I'm in. She knows that men want to fuck everything that looks good, and I know women will always size up other men to their man. Human nature isn't something you can alter, It's something you must work around. Even extramarital sex is something that can fit into a marriage.

I have the same fear.. not that I have a long term partner, but I feel right now I haven't experienced enough and I'm the type of guy who is always wondering "But maybe is there one more suited to me?" or "Could I do better?". Right now I'm starting to see a girl though I don't want to make it too serious. I'll be going away in a few months back to university and whilst I'm home I want to maybe not fuck as many girls as possible, but to get to know perhaps a tad more intimately.

I can understand your fears and I honestly don't know what you should do. Perhaps take this into consideration: women like taken guys. A simple thing such as changing your facebook/myspace/bebo etc. profile relationship status from single to "It's complicated" can have a huge effect on the number of girls who are interested in you. If you were to leave your girlfriend, chances are those girls who seemed keen won't be afterwards. Perhaps even they're just there to test you.

It's going to take some serious talking to your girlfriend about this and you have to remember the amount of time you've got to change your mind. If you are going to do so, don't leave it at the last minute and leave her completely heartbroken, speak now. With something like marraige, undoubtedly everyone must have their doubts somewhere down the way but you've got to do everything in your path to avoid thinking once you marry her about what you've denied yourself and missed out on.

Just had to throw in the racial slur. Didn't know only black people cheat. Maybe you're just ignorant.

Okay, so I could have left the black people part out. You have my apologies, and an edit.