I met this girl.. about a month ago.

I asked her out after two weeks. Before that, we went canoing together. She said she had plans the next day, but free on July 4th. I had it planned to go to the casino.

July 4th, casino plan failed. I call her and hang out with her friends, where the guys simultaneously wrestled her young hot body and all I could do was watch, because I wasn't that close to them.

The day after, I ask her when I can have a real date. She said call me.

That Saturday, I call. She's busy because of work. She says she'd call me when she's off work.

That Friday I call her, and she doesn't pick up or return. I text her saying "I hope you lost your cell, because I hate to think that I wasted my time."

"What?"

I even called her to say please tell me if I'm wasting my time, because I don't like doing it. She said something about she never tells people to fuck off.. blah blah.

We texted each other every night. Sometimes it goes good, most times she has no clue what I'm talking about when I joke. She lacks something that's essential to me.

"I play a lead in The Crucible"
"John Proctor?"
"No, that's the male lead."

Of course I knew that John was a male..

"My boss at work calls me the golden one."
"I must have you! Price of gold soared in the last decade."
"Haha."
"No seriously, tell me why or I'll think you got pimped."
"What?"

"Mini putt @ 3?" (about the 15th time I've tried asking her out for a date)
"Sorry I can't"
"You win, I quit."
"What?"

?????????????

God, I bet a documentary on this attempt would sell well. Except I'm too pissed inside to recall anything.

A good read, gave me many lulz.

As for the girl, sounds like a bitch. Stop wasting your time.

It sounds like a classic case of blowing you off. If she wanted to go out with you, it would have happened. It's not rare, that's what people do everyday when they don't want to be with someone else.

People text each other when they don't care enough to call them.


Stop wasting your time.

"Mini putt @ 3?" (about the 15th time I've tried asking her out for a date)
"Sorry I can't"
"You win, I quit."
"What?"

?????????????


Haha, that's awesome.

She told you that she doesn't tell people to screw off.

You're one of these people.

This is rare.
Now that I have answered your plea, let me respond to your issue. But first some well-deserved sarcasm:

What ever happened to the good old days of romance, where a guy found a female he fancied and simply clubbed her over the head and dragged her by the hair back to his cave? [/sarcasm]

Seriously, if you think that texting a chicke with "put put @ 3" is a proper way to ask a girl out on a first date, you have much to learn, young man.

Second, if you have "tried to ask her out" 15 times in the span of two weeks +/- don't you think you could be coming across as a bit pushy? That can often chase a female away faster than poor hygine.

I have to agree the crowd here and say that your chances with this girl are next to nill. But honestly, telling someone to either date you or to stop wasting your time is hardly the way to woo your way into their heart.

p.s. The only one wasting your time is you. Take your time and work on your technique a bit. Best of luck!

ask her out once, if she is busy, then its her responsibility to arrange something with YOU. (i made up this rule myself)

Really tests how stubborn a girl is, and if she really does like u, she will torture herself waiting for YOU to call HER. You cant lose... one time, a girl waited for me to ask her out for so long (i did like her) she eventually asked me out and i said no, cus it was funny... Sometimes stuff like this is just so worth it.

That Friday I call her, and she doesn't pick up or return. I text her saying "I hope you lost your cell, because I hate to think that I wasted my time."

"What?"


Man, I think everything after this was a waste of your time. Calling her after that probably just scared her off, and the "I don't tell people to fuck off" line was a dead giveaway. Don't stress it though, you're a funny dude, just lay off the dumb chicks.

you call her too much psycho. when she knows she can have you, she probably won't want you....wierd and fucked up, but true.

so fucking true.
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sounds familiar to me, except i figured out im not getting ignored(fucking thanks god)...i went out like u did and asked what was up with this girl and she came up with a subtle reply..turns out i was just freaking in my pants since i cant be with this girl more than 1-2 times every 2 weeks :- (.

But yea dude sounds like she fucked u over, doesnt sound like its ur fault from what uve said about her she sounds like she just wanted to use you....but then u shouldnt have texted or called her so much, just have the faith that she wants u if u played ur cards right and did work. I do that and i just wait if they dont call...then when i least expect it text message or phone call...simple as that....In fact sometimes id get a bit mad of how often some call(text 2-3 times plus 2 phone calls a day, on a prepaid card phone thats not cheap LMFAO)

Dont call or text her.

Dude, the crucible sucked. That was the worst book I've ever read in school, followed by ethan frome.

An ether-soaked rag will get you a date pretty quick.

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Yeah man, she couldn't reject you but you couldn't pick up on the fact that she wasn't digging you. She probably wasn't acting into you, just friendly.

Yeah, chicks are like that. They never know what they want, and sure as hell never tell us guys. I've been through it too many times, it sucks. The guys advice of making plans was pretty good. If you try and she can't make it, let her make the effort next time. But, I think after like a week or so later, just throw something little out there, like saying you plan to see a movie or something, care to join me?

It's not rare, as a matter of fact, ALL chicks are like that. Get it through your head that they LOVE messing with guys they aren't attracted to while at the same time getting slammed by those they ARE attracted to. You are not it that category. Either deal with it, take steroids, or murder/suicide. Or it might be better to rape/murder/suicide. Or if you're really kinky, murder/rape/suicide.

I call her and hang out with her friends, where the guys simultaneously wrestled her young hot body and all I could do was watch, because I wasn't that close to them.


... what?

Dude, the crucible sucked. That was the worst book I've ever read in school, followed by ethan frome.

I loathed Ethan Frome. I really did not see any point in reading that book, it's not even that good, in a literary sense. I think it's simply a test to see how much dullness you can handle, because dullness is a lifelong struggle.

You're fucking clingy. Women hate that. Grow some balls, and a Goat T.

This is true.
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this thread helps me out quite alot...

I dunno what the deal is though, for some reason I just cant get anyone to call ME. They always want me to call them, and when I do, they dont answer.

WTF.

I would just say something like "well if you ever want to do something call me". Then basically move on.

Shes probably blowing you off, and if that is that case, it should end after that. But if she does want to do something, she can make the plans.

Odds are shes fucking with you. I wouldn't want to get involved with a girl that confusing at all.

I am in the same boat as you, buddy.

I met this girl, and we both drank a 5th of tequila. We made out for a long ass time, holding hands, feeling each other up, and in my drunken stupor I asked her out.

Fast foreward 2 days. I call her up and ask her if she wants to hangout the next day. She says: "uhmm, I don't know, call me tomarrow, I don't know if I have plans." I am not priority.

Call her the next day. My parents are out of town, and we have a little kickback going on at my house.

"Hey, you wanna come kick it today?"
"Uh, well, I'm about to go to the movies with my friends, but I can stop by for like 20 minutes."
"Ok, that's cool I guess"

Calls me back 10 minutes later.

"Hey, I'm not going to be able to come by because some bitch cussed me out in the car"

"....What? Don't worry about it it will be fine."
"no, I don't think so. I'll come by after the movie."

"...ok, bye"

She never called me back, and she never came over. What should I do? I am done calling her. She had better call me back or I am just going to forget anything ever happened. Is that a wise choice? I don't want to be on her jock constantly calling her everyday, know what I mean?

First of you came on to her to strongly with the let me know if I am wasting my time bullshit.

I am in the same boat as you, buddy.

I met this girl, and we both drank a 5th of tequila. We made out for a long ass time, holding hands, feeling each other up, and in my drunken stupor I asked her out.

Fast foreward 2 days. I call her up and ask her if she wants to hangout the next day. She says: "uhmm, I don't know, call me tomarrow, I don't know if I have plans." I am not priority.

Call her the next day. My parents are out of town, and we have a little kickback going on at my house.

"Hey, you wanna come kick it today?"
"Uh, well, I'm about to go to the movies with my friends, but I can stop by for like 20 minutes."
"Ok, that's cool I guess"

Calls me back 10 minutes later.

"Hey, I'm not going to be able to come by because some bitch cussed me out in the car"

"....What? Don't worry about it it will be fine."
"no, I don't think so. I'll come by after the movie."

"...ok, bye"

She never called me back, and she never came over.



hey i must be in that boat aswell! i asked this chick to the movies...she said "i will get back to you, and tell you" and yes...you guessed it. i never got a reply...not good my friend. but what can you do aye

hey i must be in that boat aswell! i asked this chick to the movies...she said "i will get back to you, and tell you" and yes...you guessed it. i never got a reply...not good my friend. but what can you do aye

Not a fuckin' thing.

.....You'll never see her again. She was drunk when you two hooked up, and now she realizes that she's not into you. Sorry.

.....You'll never see her again. She was drunk when you two hooked up, and now she realizes that she's not into you. Sorry.

Damn. Way to shatter my hopes!

Thanks anyways.

I also forgot to mention that she has one of my favorite shirts....I at least need to get that shit back.

Yeah dude...She sounds like an attention whore. Move on...She's the bad type.

You know, the type who love it when you seem to be going out of your way to be getting their attention so they can deliberately ignore you or tell you about what a great time they're having without you.
The ones who stand you up and drop plans and make you generally feel socially impotent.

I haven't got any issues.