I don't quite know where I'm going with this yet, so bear with me, and eventually you'll understand (amongst my ramblings).

Whenever I start to get close with/like a chick, I always look for something that is wrong with them to convince myself that I shouldn't be with them, but I think I do this just so I think that its me who's too good for them, but in reality I'm shit, and they would never like me back anyway.

It's stupid, but I've found this chick, again, I really like her, but the only thing thats stopping me from asking her or whatever is she has braces. Im like WTF?? What was that got to do with anything, but again, its imperfection, and I want, no I NEED perfection.

And even with perfection I still won't be happy.

You're picky. Deal with it.

Some might say you're hypocritical, I doubt you're perfection in human form, but meh..

I'm sure we all fantasize about the perfect person who doesent sweat whilst fighting and never crashes their car.

I know what you mean, this happens to me a lot. Braces aren't so bad though... and just think of the teeth AFTER the braces!

No, but seriously. Just try to remember neither you or her is perfect. Stop looking for stuff wrong and look for what's right. Not to sound a hypocrite here, but I'm trying too :D

Zaknafein.

Well then you're doomed to live a lonely life, in a box. Perfect darkness. :)

While there is a orgy of imperfect people going on around him, and they're laughing at the guy in the box.

No no, everyone knows that boxes are the best disguise for hiding from big men with guns, and other situations.

Its kinda about comprmise;
like too many imperfections=bad, some but good points as well=ok.

braces are good to skeet on. It's called "gluing the rails together"

just think bout the good stuff.
say if she's a fat girl with big tits.
instead of holding her love handles, play with her tits.
if her pussy is disgusting just sex will do, if she is flat chested but has a lil cute line pussy, play with that hting all day.

you remind me of a friend. he's 19 and a virgin and has the same self esteem as you. So man up, don't be so pick, or remain a virgin!

nobodys perfect
the best thing to do is pick the one thing you need the most and look for that

+1, I'm exactly like that.

I once dumped a girl because she had a chipped tooth. Dumped one because she didn't shave for like 3 days.

Little things annoy me, but I'm not really dating anymore, so it's all good. I don't have time to bask in their faults in the 6-12 hours I know most women.

You are a shallow bastard.

Shes going on holiday for 2 weeks, and I just want to tell her that I really like her, but I know I've got to get closer to her first, talk more, and I can over look her braces, thats one small imperfection, but I know I say that, but in 2 weeks when she comes back I'll have changed my mind.

I don't know what to do.

Consult a psychiatrist.

Perfection in anything would be a terrible thing.

I wore braces from 12-15 and they SUCKED. But now my teeth are teh bomb...Seriously, I think they might be my best feature and I am totally obsessed with taking good care of them. I know braces suck, but it's just part of being young. Be glad her parents care enough to get her teeth fixed.

Thats a good enough reason. I hooked up with a girl with braces and had little cuts all over my lips and the skin around my lips. Maybe she was just a bad kisser, oh well.

Get over yourself, youre not any better than anyone else so lighten up and stop looking for the negative things in everyone around you.

I disagree with everyone else on this thread, but maybe I just need more past history.

Reject......have you EVER had a girlfriend or maintained a long term relationship in the past? My take on all of this, is this your way of avoiding your fears. Fears of rejection, fears of change in your life, fears of having to expose YOURSELF (and any insecurities) to another human being.

So instead of understanding/embracing that fear and dealing with it.....it is much easier and less self analysis is having to be undertaken, if you just find a minor flaw in that person and say....."meh, she likes Coke and not Pepsi, she isn't for me".

A person's ego can really be a mind fuck at times. Could I have any relevance on what I just posted?

I think you look into it a little much dude. Yeah, hes probably a pussy but I doubt hes scared of changes in his life.

Lower Your Expectations!

Lower Your Expectations!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIptww_Vewg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIptww_Vewg

LMAO.