Does any body have any idea how i can slow it down? Im tired of 5 min sex. Please help.

Is that including foreplay and all of that? Sex usually lasts me about an hour, my routine usually consists of all that making out jazz and then 10-30 minutes of oral. The whole sex part usually only last like 10-15 minutes. You can only go in and out so long without it getting boring. If you really want to extend the penetration part it's all about mind over matter, just take your mind off of the sex and think about something gross. That's what I'll occasionally do.
Although if you give a girl some good oral she usually doesn't give a shit much about the actual sex part, that is at least from my experience. Then just chill out for awhile and go at it again a little later.

dont listen to any of these pansies, when your dick is thumping think of somethin to take your mind of the whole situation. Start thinkin of your brother jerkin it, or your parents doin it in your bed.

dont listen to any of these pansies, when your dick is thumping think of somethin to take your mind of the whole situation. Start thinkin of your brother jerkin it, or your parents doin it in your bed.

Haha, I was the only reply and I gave that same advice.

Beat off every day all day.

If there's a lot of foreplay involved cut back on it a little. But the guy above me is right, penetration does get boring unless you switch the position up fairly rapidly.

I usually make out, finger the girl, and get/give a little oral for about 10-15 mins. After that the fucking starts and lasts about 30 mins (this varies a lot, depending on level of horniness).

Don't go too fast unless you really feel like you can survive, keep it slow and intimate. Kiss the girl's neck and breasts while you're goin at it. That'll make up for any lack of speed, because if you go too fast you're gonna get yourself all hot and bothered. Just keep it calm, you don't need to have rough, nasty hate fucks all the time.

And yeah, jerking off a while before sex will help a lot.

if you know sex is coming, beat it off early, like they said. this will help you hold it in longer

Dude don't listen to these pussys, don't jerk off prior to it. I mean yea it helps but fuck that shit. You do go through forplay first right? Well when you are giving/getting oral make sure she fucking finishs that shit with her mouth/hand what ever first, before you fuck, then when you fuck you will last as long as you need unless you just suck ass. I mean yea if your a pussy bitch your dick might go limp but ive never had that happen. Don't jerk off save that for the forplay you jerk off your wasting precious jizz that could be used to squirt all over your girl instead. If your girls to selfish to not give you an orgasm before the sex then fuck it. Also you don't wanta have sex for much more then 10-15 minitues as stated unless you change it up during it because it gets pretty fucking boring when your not reaching orgasm.

Start thinkin of your brother jerkin it


This could have the opposite effect. Just saying.

i don't have that problem couse i actually have late ejaculation.:p
However, a while ago i read this article, right before you cum pull it out an squeeze right under the head and hold it for like few seconds.
i tried that few times while i was "slaying the dragon" it didn't work for me the first two times but on the third it worked!!! so try that on your own before you do it with a girl/guy.
Also you can do this sometimes, again sometimes, fuck them for a little bit then take it out and start eating him/her out for few minutes. repeat.
good luck.

This is a winner, seriously, if you beat off alot, you'll have more stamina ;)

And less sensitivity due to keratization.

Premature Ejaculation?


i dont believe in that shit. if i came man it was RIGHT ON TIME.

There are some great pieces of advice. Just make sure that if you are going to masturbate earlier in the day, make sure it is at least 3-4 hours before. Otherwise you may be less hard. It is natural for that to happen.
Thinking off-putting thoughts can work, also if you focus on her and her motions and don't think about your own sensations it can make you forget about your own cumming issue.
Also, since a lot of guys are more about constant friction rather than pressure, you can focus on doing slow, deep penetration. It will be extremely arousing for her and you will build a slow steady climax rather than a hard fast quicky.

This could have the opposite effect. Just saying.

I was going to mention that.

You can always grab your balls and pull them down, instead of bunching up next to your dick.

popping a few aderall usually helps

To the OP:

From what I know, the idea is to think non-sexual thoughts. Also, when you feel yourself on the verge of exploding, just slow down a bit, down to that speedy up thing until she's going as well.

Actually that's the dumbest thing you could do. Guys that jack off too much and cum really fast are the ones that have your problem. What you need to do is jack off and stop whenever you feel like reaching orgasm. Stop a little bit and then resume the fapping. Repeat this process several times until you reach about ten minutes or something. Keep doing this so that you can reach gradually more and more time holding your ejaculation.

so true
if she says you cum to early tell her she was wasteing time with you when she could be in the kitchen

play a song while fucking

and then try to sing along to it in your head..that'll distract you

..or do what I did, pretend you're fucking a guy in the ass..might sound gross, but fuck me, it works

You envision fucking a man in the ass to prolong your pleasure? Whatever floats your boat man.

Lol! I knew someone was gonna do that.

Relax, don't do it
When you wanna go to it
Relax, don't do it
When you wanna cum

When Im about to cum, I like to pull out and rub my dick on her clit. Slows you down and she loves it.