How much do girls care about a guy's virginity? If a guy is a virgin would he be generally perceived in a more positive or negative initial impression?

I confessed my virginity to this girl and she said it was cute and that I must be waiting for someone special. I'm curious as to what the general opinion is and whether I did the right thing in the telling her the truth in regards to increasing my chances with her.

I have no fucking clue.

I confessed my virginity to this girl and she said it was cute and that I must be waiting for someone special.

You kinda answered your own question there.

with my first girlfriend, she said the exact same thing.

Honestly it wouldn't make a difference to me.

I don't think of it as pathetic if thats what you're asking. Although it isn't a turn-on.

EDIT: I don't think that girls care much about a guys virginity. Of course it all depends on the girl. It wouldn't be a negative first impression for me though.

You definitely haven't ruined your chances with her. If anything, she probably appreciates you more now.

If anything, she probably appreciates you more now.

that, and now she'll probably try even harder to rob you of your virginity and your innocence!
Girls want the first man-juice that flows out of you, it's the most precious!

My boyfriend is and I'm happy about it. :p
I love the idea of being his first. (And hopefully only)

I would say that telling her your a virgin isn't going to increase your chances with her. Why the fuck tell her then? Unless you are about to fuck, don't bring it up. It isn't really relevant to you getting to know her.

My boyfriend is and I'm happy about it. :p
. .. . .. . being his first. (And hopefully only)

Uhmmmmm.....psycho.....

Well ...

I'm a 17-year-old girl, and if I was going out with a guy who told me he was a virgin, I'd be pretty impressed. It would probably make me want to fuck him more, as long as he knew what he was doing.

And let's face it, it isn't hard to know what you're doing ... sex is, after all, the most primal instinct.

Confidence, man.

Sex is not the most primal instinct. If you can't eat/survive how do you plan on having sex?

You're in for a BIIIG disappointment honey...

You're in for a BIIIG disappointment honey...

QFT.

I wouldn't be bothered if a guy was a virgin, I might even give him a little more respect.

As to fucking a virgin, if he knows what he's doing, it's all good.

My boyfriend is a virgin.. And I don't mind it. He wants me to be his first though.

At first I was a little uncomfortable with the fact of him being a virgin, but I've come to respect the fact that he was able to not be tempted enough and wait.

Also I've found out that foreplay with him is a lot more fun than it was with my previous boyfriends. Call it weird, but as our relationship progresses, I find it more sexy that I'm going to be the one to take his virginity.

she'll probably try even harder to rob you of your virginity and your innocence!

Sheah, I've never noticed that.

As to fucking a virgin, if he knows what he's doing, it's all good.

If the virgin knows what he's doing? WTF?

Personally, I like a guy who is experienced.
It's not a turn off if the guy's a virgin , but it's definitely not a turn on at all.

If the virgin knows what he's doing? WTF?

As in not clueless to what sex is about. A virgin at least has to have some expectations of himself. Do foreplay, oral on the girl is probably a good thing and then to know that you've got to put some effort in to the actual penetration part (positions, changing speed, etc).

If the virgin knows what he's doing? WTF?

QFMFT

isnt that like an oxymoron?

but eh, my gf was my first, she liked the idea that i was a virgin, but she honestly thought i wasnt just because somehow i knew how to do pretty much everything else great, well, even though i was completely retarded to sex the first couple times....

practice on a doll/watermelon and save yourself the embarrasment!

but nah, chicks seem to fine, and like the guy more just cuz she thinks shes his very special someone

The girl I lost my virginity to knew that I was a virgin beforehand, she seemed to like the idea. Remember, no matter what else happens in someone's life, they will always remember their first fuck. So that's a plus to fucking a virgin, guy or girl.

I bet even Ron Jeremy remembers his first time.

Girls regardless of what they say find it a turnoff.

QFMFT

isnt that like an oxymoron?



No. It's not that hard to have sex. All you need is confidence.

No. It's not that hard to have sex. All you need is confidence.

yes but a virgin that knows what hes doing? hes never done it so yea, he probably doesnt kno, so yea its an oxymoron kinda

practice on a doll/watermelon and save yourself the embarrasment!


WTF!

The message you have entered is too short.

I have no fucking clue.

same. But I've heard that some chicks like it. They would love to be someones first, and have always be remembered as that....also, if they suck in bed, you have nothing to compare it against...also, they know you don't have any STD's.

I'm 26, and I've been thinking about telling girls I talk to that I'm a virgin, just for kicks. see where it goes. I doubt they'd believe me, but it's worth a shot. not much else is working for me.

somebody thinks they know everything.
i find it a turn on actually, you know they dont have kids, you know theyll always remember you, and the innocence is kinda cute.

I think they would find it neutral or turnoff.

Virgin doesn't mean cute or innocence, after a while he could possibly screw you over in the near future for dumping you for a better girl (and after hes confident about sex).

if you lived in england I would've gotten so FUCKING PISSED OFF AT YOU..... THERE ISN"T EVEN FUCKING WORDS TO DESCRIBE HOW I WOULD FEEL TOWARDS YOU.....


Although that's a different story...involves my ex..and some guy in england..anyway......you don't....so nvm.

Depends on age group.

Although I will say I have heard a few girls say they like virgins better. It could go either way.

I personally believe that most girls are interested in a man that they think can take care of them and show them a good time. If you admit to being a virgin, they may find it special or interesting, but I don't believe they find it attractive. If anything they'll think it's "cute".
When I am taking a girl, she doesn't want it to be "cute", she wants a man who knows how to handle a lady. Just saying. It's not like I wasn't a virgin at one point, but we all gotta get past it one point.

Uhmmmmm.....psycho.....

Ummmm, fuck you. :)

I like them sweet young virgin boys. They have no bad habits yet and are easily trained and utterly willing, and they're yoooouuuung, and sweeeeeet.

Girls care what other girls think of you, its called social proof, generally if you are still a virgin by the age of 18+ it's not cute its just other girls haven't found him good enough to sleep with so neither will I.

Now I'm not stating that every girl has this opinion but most do, don't let the ones on this board preaching the exact opposite fool you.

that, and now she'll probably try even harder to rob you of your virginity and your innocence!
Girls want the first man-juice that flows out of you, it's the most precious!

virgin man juice also sells well on the black market. Shes trying to rob you!!!

Well, I can't speak for the entire female race, but when it comes to myself personally I have no problem with a guy being a virgin.

I don't understand why guys get so self-conscience about it. I would so much rather be with a guy that's a virgin than someone who has slept with 30 different girls.

No contest.

Say that after you've had the worst sex of your life with the guy who lasted under five minutes. Girl's are quick to publically speak with the "I don't mind" attitude, but when it happens to them they quickly change their minds.

We all know women hide things. Anyone think it is a far stretch that some of these bitches are lying to project some image? Lol, I don't.

Virgins are sexy. That's why molesting kids is so popular.

i'm a virgin.;)

What's this about males having virginity?

^this person is smart.

I think words like 'cute' are often used as cover-ups on what isn't actually sex-attractive.

^this person is smart.

I think words like 'cute' are often used as cover-ups on what isn't actually sex-attractive.

Lol, makes me think. If your girl ever tells you that your dick is "cute", start worrying.

(And hopefully only)

doubt it once you get pussy your not scared anymore so all you try to do is get pussy.

Ahhhhh, such naivete, it's almost cute.....

My boyfriend is and I'm happy about it. :p
I love the idea of being his first. (And hopefully only)

You're in for a BIIIG disappointment honey...


QFT.


seconded

Lol, makes me think. If your girl ever tells you that your dick is "cute", start worrying.

but...

Well ...

I'm a 17-year-old girl

Pics or you're lying.

Pics or you're lying.

Seconded

Seconded

thirded

If a girl puts down a guy for being a virgin chances are that they may be a slut and/or sexist.