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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-07-16, 09:32
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sinful_enoch 
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do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
short story first---
i had been going out with this girl for about 5 months (i know this isent long)
every thing was perfect we already had kids names picked out and everything. both our familys were planning the wedding.
i end up going to jail for 10 days.
this witch starts hanging out with her ex and then all her feelings come back about him. even after telling me all kinds of bad shit about him how she wanted to kill him and every thing i feel like im about to end up back in jail becouse im about to kill this motherfucker when i see him. (im getting of topic here sorry)
further on in the story we break up and she tells me the most selfish thing i have ever hearld. She says " if you love me as much as you say you do then you will want what makes me happy. i think to my self yeah i want whats makes you happiest. the reason this is shelfish is becouse if she loved me as much as she says she does(she still says this) then she should have wanted what would make me happiest.
i see her once a week and its always flirty the second day we broke up she basicly cheated on him with me. and now every day we hang we usualy end up in weird postions on the ground. even tho i know this is giving me false hope im still trapped this is realy frustrating becouse she has acidentaly called me baby and almost every time we come extremly close to kissing,
the funny thing out of this story is she has lost all of her friends becouse they choose my side and i barly know them
so who agrees with me??? and what should i do about this situation
if you need any more detail ask
sorry for all the mistakes its dark and i cant see the keyboard im also in a lot of pain from my surgery
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#2
 2007-07-16, 09:39
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moonmeister 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
She's 15...or at least she still thinks she is.
Is it time to find a girl who acts like she's graduated high school?
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#3
 2007-07-16, 10:00
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sinful_enoch 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
actualy she just turned 18 dropped and to take care of her baby sister
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#4
 2007-07-16, 10:18
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The Chip Shop Guy 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
Yes, I do think its selfish. Tell her so because what she did was really fucked up. How come you where put in jail by the way?
(And a little gramma wouldn't go a miss, you know? Makes things easier to read, not trying to flame or anything.)
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#5
 2007-07-16, 10:25
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gadzooks 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
the reason this is shelfish is becouse if she loved me as much as she says she does(she still says this) then she should have wanted what would make me happiest.
Now what exactly would make you happiest? Would you really be happy with her if she still had feelings for her ex? It sounds like she's actually doing you a favor.
She's already cheated on him with you, she just generally doesn't seem to know what she wants. Do you really want someone like that?
Oh, and grammar is your friend...
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#6
 2007-07-16, 19:42
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getoffmylawn 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
girls are selfish. So are guys. You gotta find a bitch where making you happy makes her happy and vice versa. If a girl fooled around on me when I only went to jail for 10 days I'd tie her to a chair and shave off all her hair, it's fair.
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#7
 2007-07-16, 20:18
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Docta? 
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Re: do you think it is selfish when a girl says......
Id have a big enough problem with my girlfriend hanging out with her ex while I was in jail, even if nothing happened and our relationship was exactly the same when I got out.
Seems to me like you're better off without her. She can't be trusted.
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