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 #1 
Old 2007-07-15, 22:32
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Default The Unhappiest Ive Ever Been.

I was making out, or 'passionatly kissing' if you will, with my girlfriend.
Ill add a brief description to aid you through the wall.
Shes 14.
Shes 5'3 (;))
Shes got shapely boobs, theyre ok.
Shes got long brown hair with some sunbbleached streaks in it.
Her ass-al region is glorious, like a fucking hourglass.
And its not all floppy like negroid hips are, but intensly toight like a teenagers should be.
There

She was on top with her legs around me, and I started to take of my shirt, i lifted it just a tiny bit and she grabbed it and just tore it off, and right after took her own shirt off.
So I unhooked her bra, first time ever actaully, yay, it went smoothly.
Then i sat up with her still with her legs around me and we kissed and just held each other hard.
She was like thrusting against and rubbing against me, it was textbook dry humping really.
Then we laid down, she was like gently stroking my chest and randomly kissing it, it was all very affectionate.

Then the tears came...:(
Almost.
But still, I felt this incredible surge of extreme unhappinines and I almost started crying right there.
I have no idea what it was, I felt kinda helpless and hopeless.

Ever hear of anything like this?

(first post: obviously youre gay, nuhnuhnuh)
 #2 
Old 2007-07-15, 22:34
Navicalist Navicalist is offline
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Was it so beautiful? :(
 #3 
Old 2007-07-15, 22:37
downwithhopeupwithdope downwithhopeupwithdope is offline
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YOUR GAY, congratulations for coming out of the closet fag. and o yea by the way i hope your 16 or younger or u should find someone older
 #4 
Old 2007-07-15, 22:41
PinkFloyd830 PinkFloyd830 is offline
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first time my girlfriend had sex with me she started crying,

some people put a lot more emphasis on virginity and first times, you were probably just nervous.

either that or my penis is way too big :D
 #5 
Old 2007-07-15, 22:45
AprenticeChemistBITCHS AprenticeChemistBITCHS is offline
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HAHA your gay! Thats all I can see to it and if your not younger then 17 then you are definatly wrong. Either way your gay though
 #6 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:16
FOYEFAN4 FOYEFAN4 is offline
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Im sorry, im not even going to read the other totseans posts,but I'm guessing they will say about the same thing. Your Gay. You show textbook signs of being a fag.
 #7 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:20
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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I felt that way when fooling around with a girl once.


So I did another line and felt a lot better. Probly doesn't apply to you though.


Maybe you felt guilty bout taking her cherry. Plus it was probably illegal.
 #8 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:28
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Find me motherfucker
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Ahahahahahahahahahahahha
 #9 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:37
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If you're still in adolesence, you can pass it off on the hormones/mood swings. But even then...it's not really normal.

All I really have to say is the standard "You should go talk to a therapist about it", but noone ever listens to that. But dont feel too bad about it. It's just the way you are. Maybe you just moved too fast? You may get over it once you've been with her a few more times and are more comfortable with her.
 #10 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:38
chickenpoop chickenpoop is offline
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uhhhhhh.....wow....I'm speechless.
 #11 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:47
YouLookFourteen YouLookFourteen is offline
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possibly you are starting to love this girl.
 #12 
Old 2007-07-15, 23:56
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Hmmmmm....ive had moments, that we sooo perfect that i could of shed a few tears, but not be unhappy.....just the glory of the moment i guess so to speak...

Dont know what to say bud, maybe u blew a head gasket from too much action?
 #13 
Old 2007-07-16, 00:00
Joe C Joe C is offline
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Your just being a bitch. Suck it up.
 #14 
Old 2007-07-16, 01:43
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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I don't know.. I just don't know what to say.
 #15 
Old 2007-07-16, 02:28
ScattyG ScattyG is offline
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Human emotions are complex. Very complex. What we attribute as the central causes for our feelings can sometimes be a lot less significant than they seem.

I'd guess seeing some chicks tits didn't make you sad.

However, it did cause you to begin a train of thought which caused you such distress.
Perhaps you felt more connected to this girl than you have with anyone before, and we're mourning over a lack of connection previously in life?
Perhaps you realised the significance of the event in relation to your growth into adulthood and began to despair at the many problems inherent in growing up?

What I'm saying is, boobs don't make you sad (unless you actually are gay), take a look at other aspects in life which you feel could be better.

There's clearly a problem that needs to be addressed, but it's up to you to find it.
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Old 2007-07-16, 02:34
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Well, I remember once when my girl was caressing me and gently touching me all over and kissing me all over for a long time in the most affectionate way I'd ever seen my eyes started to tingle a tad bit. I didn't cry or shed a tear but it was that feeling. It definitely wasn't an unhappy feeling though. Complete opposite of unhappy. I felt awesome. We'd already fucked before but I hadn't felt attachment like I did at that moment.
 #17 
Old 2007-07-16, 02:40
Malkog Malkog is offline
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It's better when they cry... And yell "Stop! Please baby, stop!"

But yeah, you're not necessarily gay. Just... Don't like attractive 14 year olds?

Ok, you're gay.
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Old 2007-07-16, 03:09
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I'd guess seeing some chicks tits didn't make you sad.



I was in 3rd grade and scraped my knee; some old lady bent over to put iodine on it and I saw her cleavage.

That made me sad.


As for the op, no idea. But go with what seems right to you.
 #19 
Old 2007-07-16, 03:24
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You're gay.
 #20 
Old 2007-07-16, 04:36
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Haha, this is pretty funny. I'm gonna go on the bandwagon with the gay thing tho, and just say I lolled fucking hard at the first comment.

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If worse comes to worse, it was all for the lulz.
 #21 
Old 2007-07-16, 04:53
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Lucky bastard.

I tried the same thing and got shot down.

I felt like crying too.
 #22 
Old 2007-07-16, 05:24
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Seems like your guilty.

What is it? are you lying on her? is being with her cheating? her age? feel like you're taking advantage of her? Do you fuck dolphins on the side?
 #23 
Old 2007-07-16, 05:37
kashel kashel is offline
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Suck it up.

I actually laughed out loud reading this thread... When you get to the bit where you're all like "and i almost cried"...

So funny.

Sorry. It was.
 #24 
Old 2007-07-16, 07:25
AEnemia AEnemia is offline
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Originally Posted by YouLookFourteen
possibly you are starting to love this girl.


I agree.
 #25 
Old 2007-07-16, 08:05
E-digger E-digger is offline
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Lol, Bean doodle.
 #26 
Old 2007-07-16, 09:58
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OP brings an image of a crumpled heap of a teenager, limp penis in his girlfriend's hands while he cries and whimpers, and the girlfriend tries to console him "C'mon champ! It's okay, I didn't want to have sex anyway! We can just sit here."
 #27 
Old 2007-07-16, 11:23
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You cried because you were THAT close to fucking her, but didn't.
 #28 
Old 2007-07-16, 15:10
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The description of your girlfriend was unnecessary... just posting that you cried while fuckin' around with your MRS would have made me laugh just as much...
 #29 
Old 2007-07-16, 17:18
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man, what a stupid emo fag.

man up or die.
 #30 
Old 2007-07-16, 19:40
lmaorofl lmaorofl is offline
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Was it so beautiful? :(

of course
 #31 
Old 2007-07-16, 19:47
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I'm sorry, but I've got to say it...YOU ARE GAY!!!

C'mon man, even if you "loved" this girl, you wouldn't have cried. you don't happen to be 18? Because if I fucked a 14 year old(no matter how attractive)...I'd cry too. Cause rape charges suck
 #32 
Old 2007-07-17, 02:02
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i lawl'd.

Don't worry about it.

Sometimes I just start crying at random times, maybe it's because of built up horomones. Not like sobbing or anything, but just like "I'm sad...*lone tear dribbles down face*".

I swear I'm not emo.
 #33 
Old 2007-07-17, 02:35
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All the blood rushed to your dick, causing the blood to stop flowing to your brain, and making you enter a momentary state of sadness and depression. Sound about right?
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Old 2007-07-17, 02:56
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I know the feeling. When the whole business started you're thinking "Well a dime of crack for a blowjob isn't such a bad deal...."

Then you start fooling around with said girl, and your delusions about her being 14 (she's really 41), shapely (she's really fat), etc etc all fade away.

And then you realize it.

You should have just smoked the crack.

Don't worry though, next time you'll know better, and instead of feeling unhappy for hours, you'll take a blast and feel great for about 2-3 minutes then just normal for the rest of the time.
 #35 
Old 2007-07-17, 05:14
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answer these questions to yourself:

1. Do you ever fantasize about men?
2. Did you have an erection during this?
3. Have you ever gotten pleasure from a girl?
4. Are you gay?

Seriously, i thought this was going to be another "oh my gf broke my heart blah blah", not that she showed you here tits and wanted your bod and you got sad. other than the gay thing its probably just guilt. i feel guilty after i fuck girls sometimes, that only lasts about 5 minutes though
 #36 
Old 2007-07-17, 22:07
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There are a couple reasons for this I could think of.

Maybe you realized that you actually love this girl a lot, and that you don't want to rush something because maybe you hold sex as a huge stepping stone in your mind and want to build up to that point and be sure that both of you are in love with each other?

Or maybe you're really just not into sex at all?

Possibly you could be gay... but no one likes to think that, so if I were you then I'd read the first reason I said and take that for an answer. Lol. Better luck next time :p
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Old 2007-07-17, 22:30
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Quote:
Originally Posted by sambob
I know the feeling. When the whole business started you're thinking "Well a dime of crack for a blowjob isn't such a bad deal...."

Then you start fooling around with said girl, and your delusions about her being 14 (she's really 41), shapely (she's really fat), etc etc all fade away.

And then you realize it.

You should have just smoked the crack.

Don't worry though, next time you'll know better, and instead of feeling unhappy for hours, you'll take a blast and feel great for about 2-3 minutes then just normal for the rest of the time.


as much as i hate sucking a mods dick that's pretty good shit

edit: actually this whole thread's pretty well done.
 #38 
Old 2007-07-17, 22:47
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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why does 5'3 require a wink? 5'3 has always been such a pathetic height
 #39 
Old 2007-07-17, 22:53
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Most of the suggestions in this thread other than "Lolk your gAY" are plausible. It even could be that, I guess. But I think it's possible that it's just one of those odd things. Sometimes people do feel terribly sad for no great reason.

If it happens again in similar situations, or perhaps frequently but in totally unrelated situations, I'd start to worry about it.
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Old 2007-07-18, 18:12
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5char
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Old 2007-07-27, 17:47
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Hehe, this thread gave me the lulz.
I left for a German hippie festival (Antaris anyone?) with said girl the day after i posted this thread.
I loled at the first gay comment, hehe.
But no, im not that gay.

I havent had any similar experience after that, ive had the opposite, being on the verge of happy crying.
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Old 2007-07-27, 18:43
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All I really have to say is the standard "You should go talk to a therapist about it"

You mean the answer that people who don't know how to solve small, basic problems of life should take. If its serious, go see one. This sounds stupid. If it happens again then maybe, but not now.
 
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