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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-07-15, 21:28
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Trading Pics Online...
Am I fucked?
This girl randomly IMed me one day, saying my screenname was on her buddy list. Then we talked to each other, made friends.
Today, she IMed me for a long conversation. Then she wanted to see my picture. So I did. Got a picture of her in return. Then we talked about sports. She wanted to see me shirtless, flexing my muscles. I traded that pic for her more...err...risque picture.
Then things got hot. She wanted a pic of my dick and she made a video for me. Now she wants to meet up with me.
Should I?
Couple things to note:
- first and foremost, i'm deaf and thusly unable to communicate verbally
- when she was sending me the video, she signed off abruptly
- i'm a virgin...I don't know if that matters, hah
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#2
 2007-07-15, 21:32
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Sounds a bit iffy to me.
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#3
 2007-07-15, 21:34
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Yeah I agree. Should I just keep it online or cut it off completely?
Oh and she's a sophomore, I'm a senior (not 18).
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#4
 2007-07-15, 21:47
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
I'd say keep it online my friend.
I don't trust wackos on the net...Especially ones who are giving me videos of themselves the second time I talk to them!
Keep it online.
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#5
 2007-07-15, 22:15
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
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Originally Posted by Brimstone
Am I fucked?
This girl randomly IMed me one day, saying my screenname was on her buddy list. Then we talked to each other, made friends.
Today, she IMed me for a long conversation. Then she wanted to see my picture. So I did. Got a picture of her in return. Then we talked about sports. She wanted to see me shirtless, flexing my muscles. I traded that pic for her more...err...risque picture.
Then things got hot. She wanted a pic of my dick and she made a video for me. Now she wants to meet up with me.
Should I?
Couple things to note:
- first and foremost, i'm deaf and thusly unable to communicate verbally
- when she was sending me the video, she signed off abruptly
- i'm a virgin...I don't know if that matters, hah
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You speek ze ASL? Me too!
-N-
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#6
 2007-07-16, 00:34
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Are you sure this wasn't someone you know just looking to get embaressing pics of you? Did she send you a live webcam or a pre-recorded one? If pre-recorded, did the video make it the whole way through? Or did it get scrambled when she disconnected (for whatever reason)?
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#7
 2007-07-16, 00:57
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
lol your deaf. dont think thats a disadvantage though
one day in college or whenever youll fuck a chick with a bad voice, like shes talking out her nose, an youll be lucky your deaf cause you wont here her.
an when you get married an when your wife nags the hell out of you. you can continue going an be like good thing in deaf.
did you tell her your deaf
an post the girls pic on totse
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#8
 2007-07-16, 01:15
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Post the pics and vid please.
...Keep it online dude.
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#9
 2007-07-16, 01:23
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
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Originally Posted by Brimstone
Yeah I agree. Should I just keep it online or cut it off completely?
Oh and she's a sophomore, I'm a senior (not 18).
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...you might want to consider that neither "I'm the same age" nor "they're pictures of me, fuckwit" happen to be legal defenses to the charges of manufacture or distribution of child pornography. Just a thought...
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#10
 2007-07-16, 01:27
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Are you sure this wasn't someone you know just looking to get embaressing pics of you?
My thoughts exactly. Keep it online my friend, the whole thing seems a little fishy if you ask me ;o
Zaknafein.
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#11
 2007-07-16, 03:22
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Tip: Always get them on webcam, so you know they're not a 60 year old pedophile.
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#12
 2007-07-16, 03:37
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Alright, after some thinking, this does smell highly fishy.
So what I'm going to do is just block her. I'm cutting it off completely.
The screen name she IMed me on - none of my friends know I use that certain screen name (I have two).
Screw this. I prefer women in the flesh, not pixels.
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#13
 2007-07-16, 04:54
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
post teh pix if your not gonna keep it going
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#14
 2007-07-16, 05:06
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
The pictures have no nudity. And I sure as hell ain't going to put up something I know to be child porn. I have deleted it. I know that won't protect me if cops do bust me.
For you guys wanting to just jack off to the 15-16 year old girl, just do it on any kind of face rating site.
So...forget this girl.
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#15
 2007-07-16, 05:13
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Maybe it's just my natural paranoia, but this would FREAK ME the FUCK out.
There are so many bad things this could turn out to be! Yet I can only think of one positive outcome that could come from this, and that one just doesn't seem so likely.
I would proceed with extreme caution. But maybe that's just me...
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#16
 2007-07-16, 06:23
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Keep it online. She's a sluzza (my new word for slut)...
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#17
 2007-07-16, 06:30
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
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Originally Posted by kashel
Keep it online. She's a sluzza (my new word for slut)...
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Have we even established yet for sure that she's actually a she?
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#18
 2007-07-16, 07:16
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
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Originally Posted by Brimstone
Alright, after some thinking, this does smell highly fishy.
So what I'm going to do is just block her. I'm cutting it off completely.
The screen name she IMed me on - none of my friends know I use that certain screen name (I have two).
Screw this. I prefer women in the flesh, not pixels.
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I'm not meaning to be a dick, so please don't take offense, but how do you go about picking up women if you're deaf? That'd definately make things complicated in person!
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#19
 2007-07-16, 08:55
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
50/50 it's a man
but if you are very desperate, what's to lose?
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#20
 2007-07-16, 11:35
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Please give us details and answer the questions above about the video/webcam. This is important.
If the girl is nobody you know in real life, this is most definately a trap. Either someone wanted to get you arrested for viewing cp (maybe that's why they wanted to set up a meeting in rl), or they wanted to blackmail you into something nasty.
You did the right thing by blocking them.
If I were you, I'd also make a new account. But that might not be necessary.
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#21
 2007-07-16, 18:36
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
She doesn't have a webcam. And I compared her video to the pictures. I'm 90% sure they are fake.
Her 1st picture showed a tattoo on her belly while the video showed none. Bullshit on her part, eh?
I might even take the next step and stop using that screen name. But do you guys think it's necessary?
As for the deaf part, that's one thing I've yet to figure out. Signing, writing on paper, texting, or IMing is usually the only ways I can communicate with other people.
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#22
 2007-07-16, 18:48
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
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Originally Posted by Brimstone
She doesn't have a webcam. And I compared her video to the pictures. I'm 90% sure they are fake.
Her 1st picture showed a tattoo on her belly while the video showed none. Bullshit on her part, eh?
I might even take the next step and stop using that screen name. But do you guys think it's necessary?
As for the deaf part, that's one thing I've yet to figure out. Signing, writing on paper, texting, or IMing is usually the only ways I can communicate with other people.
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If you have enemies, and you don't think that what happened was random, it might be wise to change your account. Use your intuition here. Did the whole thing really seem THAT creepy?
As for the deafness, I've known a few guys who were "mostly" deaf. They had some hands-free-like looking devices in their ears, and with those they could hear reasonably well. Is that an option for you?
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#23
 2007-07-16, 19:35
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
Eh, my gut feeling is telling me that this girl is just being a typical 14 year old girl just looking for cybering. Regrettably, I took the bait.
I'm 100% deaf. Been that way since birth. All that hearing aids/cochlear implants does for me is to let me know there is a noise, but not what kind of noise aside from pitch.
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#24
 2007-07-16, 23:26
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
do you read lips?
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#25
 2007-07-17, 00:53
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
I read lips a little. People who know me well can understand what I say (imagine someone with the most thickest and hardest to understand accent...that would be me :P)
Oh and, I did some checking up on this girl. Turns out that she's from the west side of my town and actually has a reputation of being a big-time slut.
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#26
 2007-07-17, 02:19
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I'm not meaning to be a dick, so please don't take offense, but how do you go about picking up women if you're deaf? That'd definately make things complicated in person!
Surprise-sex is the universal language of love.
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#27
 2007-07-17, 15:30
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Re: Trading Pics Online...
id hit it, but wear a rubber.
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