Warning: Wall of text crits you.

I've known this one girl for 2 years now, I work with her. I always thought we had great chemistry, always lots of laughs, every time we hooked up with was something different. She liked me for a while, but I wasn't interested in a relationship at the time.

Now she is seeing this one douche (this isn't just my jealousy speaking either, I won't even elaborate, just take my word for it). In the past month we have been seeing a lot of each other and well, I finally feel like I found someone I can settle down with. I can get drunk with her, smoke up with her, do ANYTHING. She even told me this recently: "I saw a couple playing soccer... they both sucked but had a great time. I thought of it and theres only one person I can just go and do something random just for the company with, you". Every now and then she will bust the little compliments like that. I decided to straight up ask her out (even though she is seeing the guy). She told me she wanted to but she has to figure things out right now, shes lost, etc. This has been 3 weeks now and I have seen her since then, we can talk about it openly though with little awckwardness.

Yesterday we went out to eat and watched some TV with some 40s (this woman needs way more than this to get drunk btw ;)). Here's the kicker, I tried to kiss her and she just brought her head back and shook her head looking me in the eyes. This fucking killed me inside. Every fucking time we talk about "us" she says she really likes me and wants to go somewhere but she doesn't follow through and each time I ate it up. I repeat, FUCK THIS. Now I have to go through "woman detox", which is basically that period of time where you try to forget about your current infatuation, and that is always a bitch.

So Totse, I do believe I just got played hardcore. And I just felt like typing it all out. It helps. o/

well, Im pretty much in the same boat. problem with me is I can't seem to get over the girl. It's always difficult when the person you think is perfect for you acts like they like you half the time...and the other half of the time you don't know what they're thinking at all.

man, falling in like with you best friend..jeez.

Yeah, you got played. Exact same thing has happened to me.

At least you're smart enough to know you're getting played, and manly enough to drop this two timing vixen on her tight little ass.