LONG VERsion:

I had asked her out and soon enough I found out she had a bf and who she really loved. so we could only hangout as friends. I didnt wanna be a homewrecker so I just stopped talking to her that much all together.

Well come this summer I noticed her Facebook status went from being in a relationship to her "hating men"

Eventually I talked to her and I found out her bf, who I think she might of said she was engaged to, cheated on her. lol......... Anyways, after talking a lil we hung out and stuff..
So here I am now, I already know im her Rebound (I dont mind that) cuz shes all over me and shit. She even told me that she still ahd love for her ex even though he cheated on her. (Im guessing he broke up w/ for another girl cuz she still wants him).

TO the main point, should I just play romeo, HIT IT and then tell her to fuck off or not pick up her phone calls



Short Version:

I have been rebounded by a girl who just broke up w/ her ex who cheated on her and left her for another girl. She already thinks guys are dogs. I am gonna start up my game on her ( she is already all over me) and play romeo. I Just want to HIT IT and then basically just be friends or something after that?






Is it okay to hook up w/ a girl who was just cheated on, fuck her and then tell we dont have a future together? I mean we can still be friends or what not. Another consequence is she can tell a lot of friends, who are women, about what I have done to her, if I do it to her. (but that might make her slutty in my commmunity).

Thanks :)

Is it okay to hook up w/ a girl who was just cheated on, fuck her and then tell we dont have a future together? I mean we can still be friends or what not. Another consequence is she can tell a lot of friends, who are women, about what I have done to her, if I do it to her. (but that might make her slutty in my commmunity).

Thanks :)

Of course its not ok ...but what do I expect from someone who talks about 'starting his game'...?

Why would you do that? Seriously?

Don't be friends with her afterwards.

But if she's ready and willing, why the fuck not?

To score duh....

Im just afraid it might hurt her a lot afterwards or wtv. Im have never done it liek this before..... She wont become psychotic or anything afterwards?

To score duh....

Im just afraid it might hurt her a lot afterwards or wtv. Im have never done it liek this before..... She wont become psychotic or anything afterwards?

It will hurt her a lot afterwards. Is that not obvious?

It will hurt her a lot afterwards. Is that not obvious?

The bigger question is: WHO CARES?

If anything, she's just using him to make her boyfriend jealous, or fill some stupid desire she's missing out on.

Use them before they use you, that's always a good (albeit misogynistic) motto.

It's very sad you'd go to all that effort to try and hurt a girl.
It shows how pathetic you are, really.


And,You dont really have a chance. She's using you for moral support and that's all.

It's very sad you'd go to all that effort to try and hurt a girl.
It shows how pathetic you are, really.


And,You dont really have a chance. She's using you for moral support and that's all.

Are you kidding? If a girl was using me for moral support, she'd be on my bed naked before the first tear rolled off her cheek.

Girls with no self esteem are the easiest of all.

Be upfront about not wanting to be more than friends. If she's still willing, then enjoy.

It's not a good idea to play the jackass though, especially when you're well aware of it.

Yeah... I hate situations like this.

It's times like these I'm so glad I got married young...

She's an immature bitch anyways. Use her like there's no tomorrow. She was too stupid to see a good opportunity when it came by, so now she deserves to get fucked and kicked to the curb.

The bigger question is: WHO CARES?

If anything, she's just using him to make her boyfriend jealous, or fill some stupid desire she's missing out on.

Use them before they use you, that's always a good (albeit misogynistic) motto.

Thats not true...A lot of woman are like that, but it doesnt sound like it in this case. She's been hurt, and she's already vulnerable. If she does decide to hook up with him, it'll be because she needs to feel accepted/wanted again. If all you're going to do is use her, then you'll make it so much worse.

There are so many girls out there that wouldnt think twice about hooking up with you. Why would you specifically go after one that you know is going to be hurt by it?

Wow...this really hits close to home... I was in a similar situation. If you've been watching this forum over the past week i've made a few threads about a recent break up.... I'll give you the shorter version of the story, the lessons learned will probably apply to you.

I met this girl one night when i was out with my friends, and she was out with hers; she's a sorority girl, im a frat guy. we had mutual friends. We end up hooking up. She tells me that she has a boyfriend out of town. she's been dating him for 4 years, but things aren't going so well. I say whatever/cool. At first I was just in it to get laid a few times. We saw eachother a few times a week for the next two months or so....basically just screwing, and doing some date stuff....but she was still with her long distance boyfriend...and i was cool with that...like i said, just in it for the pussy. then one of her 'friends' told her boyfriend everything about us, and they broke up....and she sorta got forced into the relationship with me...all my friends told me NOT to get involved with her in any way beyond just fucking...and I kept that in mind throughout our relationship. Even when she told me she loved me, and i said it back, i never felt it... I had my guard up. after about 5 months I let my guard down and let myself get feelings for her....actually did love her...and then she dumped me. said because she didnt love me anymore and needed space.....so i broke into her facebook and found out she had been thinking about her ex all the time, intensely. though she lied to me about that when i asked her. probably because she thought i'd kick his ass (im twice his size). but i wouldnt do that.

to summarize...got involved with chick who was involved....tried to keep it just sexual. it evolved from there into feelings. and i got hurt in the end.

if you can keep this thing just about sex than do it....this chick is going to screw some guy as a rebound. might as well be you...but dont let it go beyond fucking and an occasional date or so.

The bigger question is: WHO CARES?

If anything, she's just using him to make her boyfriend jealous, or fill some stupid desire she's missing out on.

Use them before they use you, that's always a good (albeit misogynistic) motto.



to summarize...got involved with chick who was involved....tried to keep it just sexual. it evolved from there into feelings. and i got hurt in the end.

if you can keep this thing just about sex than do it....this chick is going to screw some guy as a rebound. might as well be you...but dont let it go beyond fucking and an occasional date or so.


True dat, its a dual usage situation and she probably is conniving. If anything, I will make her happy and restore her selfconfidence.

There are so many girls out there that wouldnt think twice about hooking up with you. Why would you specifically go after one that you know is going to be hurt by it?

I would go after her because I knew her from before and when i wanted to hook up her she was off the market. "You want what you cannot get" I can get her now and it feels good, just that she seems too emotional for me after have had talking to her.

Also, way easier to get laid, im looking for a good respectuful "bitch." I know, it sounds cold. From my past relationships I feel like I have not had that much control. I am normally the nice guy, I guess I want to rid that role and try something new.



Thanks for all the help, I gotta dates w/ her this week. Ill will keep you all posted, for all I know I might fall in love or just pussy out about using her.

Do what you want to do but that is soooo mean. Given using someone as rebound isnt the nicest thing ever. But she seems really hurt right now and prob cant handle that much pain.