Alright here's the thing. I was kind of still going out with certain stripper which my parents knew about. Of course they absolutely disaproved this relationship and did what they could so that I dumped her. However, I didn't despite my punishment wich consisted in no car, no money and hard work with no fucking profit. I kept on seeing her even though my parents were pissed off, dissapointed and worried about this situation.

The most disturbing thing for my parents was the possibility that she might not only be a stripper, but a fucked up prostitute as well. They kept a whole week telling me shit like: "For god's sake every stripper fucks for money don't be a child and open your eyes". "She might be infected with the HIV, be careful son".

I really trusted my girlfriend. The conversations we had gave me some kind of confidence about her fidelity on me. She told me she didn't have the need to whore herself since she was a stripper and she made good money from lap dances and shit. We even had a really emotional disscusion regarding this subject once and her tears did seem real.

One day my parents decided to give a phonecall to my grandma so that she could make an appointment with her town's medium, or witch or whatever they call those kind of people. ( Important fact: That woman which I refer to as a medium, really has some unique mind powers. This is no joke. There's evidence that she is able to guess and see certain things just by doing some kind of rituals. I'll talk about this later in another thread).

My grandma went with this lady and gave her my complete name, my birthday and other information. Then she asked her about my girlfriend and what she really did for a living. If she was a whore or what the fuck.

The answer was the following:

That woman works as some kind of dancer. She has sex with men in exchange for money. She only goes out with (my name) and no other man. You don't have to worry she is free from any STD.

I have to tell you that after receiving this information I talked to my girlfriend and told her it would be better to break up and remain as friends with no special benefits whatsoever.
She was really comprehensive about this since she knew all the shit that has been going on in my family so she told me she didn't want to cause more trouble for me so it was ok to end up our relationship.

Right now there's a big fucking puzzle in my head. I haven't figure something out yet. I know that lady's mind powers are real, trust me. However, there's always the chance that my parent's could have lie to me just to separate me from my girl. On the other hand, it is also possible that my parents are telling me the true and my girlfriend could be a damned fucked up prostitute.

I just can't stop my spinning head. It is about to take offfffffffffffffffffffffff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Discuss.......

Your parents were probably telling the truth, so long as they aren't religious. If they really do trust in this medium to tell the truth, then they really wouldn't have felt threatened if your girlfriend really wouldn't have been having sex with other men and was clean.

If your parents are just trying to keep you away from strippers for practical reasons, which it sounds like they were doing, then they were probably telling the truth.

If your parents wanted you to stay away for religious reasons, then they are probably lying stacks of shit.

No religious principles applied in this situation, trust me.

its a parents natural instincts to do what is best for their children. They are just trying to protect you from anything bad happening. You should be thanking them.

So you believe a medium/witch/fake docter who takes your money? You deserve the worst possible outcome for this situation by believing something so stupid.

Wow...

You broke up with her because someone told you that a psychic saw that she slept with other men?

And then, when you finally did break up with her, she was caring and understanding enough to let you go because she didnt want to cause you any more trouble?

Congratulations, you did the right thing. You didn't deserve her to begin with.

Yeah, that's absolutely ridiculous. You better get over this fairy-tale psychic nonsense unless you want to be a weirdo with no friends for the rest of your life. There are so many places with this psychic that people could be fucking with you and obviously at least one of them are.

You're a dumbass.

You're a dumbass.

No i'm not anymore. I left her for many reasons. First off, my family is having a pain in the ass because of this situation. She lies way too much. I found out just a couple of weeks ago that her real name was another one can you believe this shit???
She lied at the beginning of our relationship about her job and I can't stand this crap anymore. She always criticizes me and she never stops for a second to have a look in the mirror and analyze her mistakes.

In just a few words I can tell you this relationship is really fucking me. I have become more anxious, inpatient, obsessive and paranoic than before.
She is like a drug that I can't leave for good.

Random rationalizing what I did to make her seem like the bad guy

Oh, well seeing as how the real reason you broke up with her was that stuff you just pulled out of your ass, and nothing you actually mentioned in your original post, you're actually a stand up guy. I cant believe I ever doubted you.

I don't understand why you're still obsessed with this

Congratulations, you did the right thing. You didn't deserve her to begin with.

I agree totally. OP should go sit in a corner and reflect on the fact that he is not a real man.

The answer seems pretty obvious. Go back to the psychic and ask her yourself.
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How could you possibly get me to believe that this "medium" isnt full of shit?

I agree totally. OP should go sit in a corner and reflect on the fact that he is not a real man.

So what would a real man do in this situation?

So what would a real man do in this situation?

A real man would never be in that situation, because a real man would never break up with a good woman over a psychics advice.

But...since you're fucked anyways, you should probably apologize to her. Don't try and get back with her, because you honestly don't deserve her. Just move on with your life, and learn something from this. Next time, make your own decisions about who you want to date. Don't let your parents or your spirits tell you otherwise.

A real man would never be in that situation, because a real man would never break up with a good woman over a psychics advice.

But...since you're fucked anyways, you should probably apologize to her. Don't try and get back with her, because you honestly don't deserve her. Just move on with your life, and learn something from this. Next time, make your own decisions about who you want to date. Don't let your parents or your spirits tell you otherwise.

I'm not gonna flame back to all this crap I'm reading now. All I can tell you is that I'm sick of this relationship. I cannot trust her, and I don't give a fuck about the psychic's prediction. She lied to me in the past and she will keep on lying in the future, and I don't want that anymore. I dislike her job and the way she treats me.
I'm not gonna say whether she's a bad or a good woman because I don't really know that. I mean everyone has their own personal flaws right??
Besides I didn't tell her anything about that medium shit you dumbass so I don't have anything to apologize for.

lol@"stucked"

I'm not gonna flame back to all this crap I'm reading now. All I can tell you is that I'm sick of this relationship. I cannot trust her, and I don't give a fuck about the psychic's prediction. She lied to me in the past and she will keep on lying in the future, and I don't want that anymore. I dislike her job and the way she treats me.
I'm not gonna say whether she's a bad or a good woman because I don't really know that. I mean everyone has their own personal flaws right??
Besides I didn't tell her anything about that medium shit you dumbass so I don't have anything to apologize for.

Just out of curiosity, how did none of that make it into the OP? You said you trusted her. Now you're saying she's been lying the whole time. What did she lie about? The not being a prostitute?

You make a shit load of typos and flat-out make up words, son. Educate yourself. And another thing.

There are no such thing as psychics.

Period.

Whatsoever.

At all.

Ever.

Also, you ghey. You super ghey. You Oscar Wilde ghey.

hahahaahaha that's why I love Totse.... Pshychics?? Sorry about that.