I recently started talking to this girl I know again, I knew her a while ago and whatnot. Well anyway, we've been talkin and whatnot, and we both really like each other. This girl is absolutely beautiful, the girls I typically date are ok but this girl is truly 1 of a kind. Well, we've been talking, she usually comes over to my house when I get off of work and stays all night. I really fell for her, and last night my family caught her and my cousin fucking. Even though we weren't officially dating (she had a boyfriend but was having problems with him, and was about to break up with him) this just has completely devastated me. I don't know what to do, I know that she was really drunk, and her and my cousin used to date a long time ago. She called me last night, sounding all teary or whatever I donno and I told her to never fucking call me again and hung up. Anyone been through anything similar, any advice? :(

I'm sorry to hear that.. :( Did she ever say anything to you about you two dating or something?

Yes. We were very close, you really might as well have said we were dating. She was with me virtually every waking moment that I wasn't at work. I can honestly say, even other girls that I actually have dated, I've never been so close to anyone as her ever :(

*she was drunk
*she likes u

It wasn't a good idea to hang up but it i understand

if she calls u again don't hang up and talk to her

Being drunk isn't a good excuse at all. I think you should let her talk to you one more time, and decide what to do after that.

I myself was extremely drunk, I had about 7 shots of tequila and a 12 pack of beer. I went completely off, I certainly didn't nicely say don't ever fucking call me again, I was screaming. When she tried to call back I turned my phone off. At this point I don't even think she's going to call me back, I haven't gone a day without talking to her in god knows how long and she has yet to call me. Do you guys think I overreacted? I know I got really pissed at her a few times, and in front of her, with my friends I would say things like 'hey let's go pick up some bitches, I need to get laid tonight'. I'm wondering now if that is going to come back and bite me in the ass, severely. :(

Being drunk isn't a good excuse at all.

Definitely quoted for truth. If you guys were close, and she knew that, and she'd go and do that to hurt you (Even whilst drunk) then I'd be particularly weary. Speak to her, and see what she has to say. However, if you do decide to still go for her, remember that if she got drunk again, what's to stop her doing it again if she thinks it's an acceptable excuse? At least make sure that you let her know that it's not acceptable to simply say "Oh, I was drunk!"

Zaknafein.

ouch.


Fuck dat bitch.

Pfft... you didn't fuck her soon enough.

Ya know, you gather more knowledge used to answer these sort of threads from S&A than experience you could use from real life.

You didn't say what, physically, you had done with her, which makes us (me) assume it's nothing.

So, again, you didn't fuck her in time.

If she fucked her ex, it's not likely for the first time. Ive never seen that happen.

Looks to me, from what little information I have gathered, that she was your friend who you maybe could have fucked at some stage but didn't and now you're pissed and the very awkwardness will have already destroyed any friendship which was there... you're fucked.

...and more importantly... PWNED!!!¬!1

No, we fucked about every night. But that's not really important, as I said we were very close, all but dating without making it official to anyone.

Well if you were havin' a lot of sex, and were "really close" then, even if only you assumed you two were in a relationship, she cheated... in my mind.

that's harsh...

I'd call it cheating. Even though you two probaly never stated that you're a couple, it sure sounds like you were. And the fact that she was screwing someone else from your family, just wow (the fact that it' her ex doesn't mean shit!).

This bitch is GARBAGE

not worth fallin for, seriously.