So the past couple times i've had sex with my girlfriend while sober i've been unable to last more than like a minute which really sucks... And when i'm drunk but sober enough to drive, I can't get it up. So, I've decided that I need to get some desensitizing spray so she can actually finish when we're sober (which has been far to frequently for my taste lately).

Instead of desensitizing you penis, maybe try doing more foreplay before you have actual intercourse? My husband can hold back a lot better if he gets really excited and then holds back a few times. Sometimes it backfires and he comes really quick anyway, but usually it works pretty well. If you finish really quick, just help her get off another way.

Get bigger balls.


Pretty sure that's what controls how long you last. If your toes curl that just means you're like 15.

Drunk but sober enough to drive..?


It sounds like your problem is more alcohol and confidence related. Make sure you dont end up relying on alcohol to make your sex life work.

Topical cocaine.

Or benzocaine if you want to be a pussy.

Wait a minute, I just saw your post in the "condoms" thread:My favorite brand is durex. I usually use max sensation, but the studded ones really feel weird as shit. I've only ever had one condom ever break, and that was 'cuz we'd been going for like an hour and the friction finally just wore it apart.STORY DOES NOT ADD UP/maybe your problem is that your using "max sensation" condoms...

Well yeah I like max sensation 'cuz usually i'm drunk when i'm fucking and i need every bit of sensation i can get... But really, I haven't had much luck with other condoms either.