Straight to the point here, it's urgent....

She stopped ringing/txting me

She's gone a bit cold

We haven't been talking as well lately

After 6 txts a day, we haven't talked in almost 4 days...and I invited her out but she didn't reply 2 my text message.

Does she want to break up with me? I'm sitting here on IM and I have the lets break up message typed already....but IDK. I don't really mind if we break up, but I wouldn't be opposed to giving it another go. So am I mis reading signals here, or should I go ahead and end it?

Pre-emptive strike. It'll turn everything around and she'll want you again.

I know this sounds juvenile so forgive me, but she hasn't taken me off her msn name or myspace...which I've found to be good indicators of how relationships are going with people my age.

uhh...no, no it isnt. Once you actually break up, you'll get taken off or whatever. Thats not really a sign i'm willing to analyze.

If things have gotten cold, break up with her first. It leaves you with all the power.

UPDATE:


Okay...she's crying. Apparently she didn't want to break up, but i can either get a better chick or take her back when she has cleaned up her act.

UPDATE TWO: Her brother is threatening me

Dude, people arent actually supposed to listen to me.

Anyways, leave her alone for a day or so, then call her up and tell her you miss her and you didn't want to break up, and that you were just afraid that you were growing distant and it hurt you to feel like that when you really cared about her. You'll be closer then ever.

Assuming you want her back, anyways.

In my high honest opinion: You should ask her this question(thread title) (certainely not phrased the same way).

eg. "what's been going on lately?, are you okay, or is it me?"

Anyways, leave her alone for a day or so, then call her up and tell her you miss her and you didn't want to break up, and that you were just afraid that you were growing distant and it hurt you to feel like that when you really cared about her. You'll be closer then ever.


sounds good

No it does not sound good! Why can't people just say what they are thinking? You don't have to play these games. Just say what's on your mind (people like this, usually)

No they dont. "Do you want to break up? Are you okay? Is it me?" just sounds desperate/needy/clingy. You can be with someone that really likes you, and if you're insecure enough to ask them if they want to break up more then once or twice, they'll probably start taking the hint.

Lol, she was probably out of credit, and you broke up with her over it.

Still, if the relationship's one where you would break up with her on the spur of the moment, it's probably not an important one anyway.

egh the sad part is silent, what you recommended will work as moral-less as it may be. NO ONE wants be dumped no matter how they feel about the other person. Its a huge game changer. and my thought on this specific case is she was losing interest, and shes going to try to make it seem as if it was another problem since the battle has been taken to her. relationships can be such fucking games when it comes down to it.