I'm currently seeing this girl who although we get along great, I'm having a tough time knowing when to kiss, partially because I'm very self concious around her. I haven't really had this problem knowing before, but this one seems very difficult.

Obviously, this sort of thing is very personal and depends on the person, but what are some general signs that a girl is gonna be receptive to you kissing her? Or is the majoritiy of it just balls up and take the risk?

PS: My apologies for originally posting this in the wrong forum.

i didnt read anything you wrote but just do it.
the worst that is going to happen is she wont kiss back and itll be awkward for 5 minutes.

Her genitals will become red and swollen and she'll hoot like a barn owl.

Haven't you seen any David Attenborough?

I always used to worry about this. After a while I realised that it isn't that big a deal. If a girl likes you, she'll probably want to kiss you as much as you do her. All other things aside, if you line your faces up, all innocent like, and she doesn't move away, chances are she's willing and will often tilt her head back a little (if you're taller) or move forward, purse her lips a little etc.

Anyway if you're getting along great, she's not going to bite your head off for trying.

Put a necklace on for her, and see if she's comfortable having your face that close to hers.

-B.

I usually just be like "lemme get a kiss!!" in my fucking around manner, and usually their just like "haha ok :)", and after that it's basicly just random, or simply saying "sweetheart.."

The only girl I had trouble getting to kiss me was the one who had trouble with public affection.

I got her to do it eventually, when I was like "Lemme get a kiss!" and she was like "on the cheek", cuz we were in front of like 30 people, and I was like "No kiss, no bottle"

It was the most pussy ass kiss ever.

I don't really regret not being able to kiss her suriously more than that time.

Yeah, just go for it...

If you want to test, try feeling her hair and if she doesn't move back or flinch while you go real close to her then she's probably ready.

David Deangelo offered advice on going for the kiss, and I think it works pretty well. Usually I just wait until my arm's around her, our eyes lock, and then I can almost see their eyes screaming "TAKE ME NOW". But if you can't, do this.

Touch her hair. If she brushes your hand away or goes "WHAT ARE YOU DOING" make up some bullshit about feeling if it's actually as soft as she said, or some bullshit. If she lets you touch her hair, and is even pushing you to go on, she's ready for a kiss. Try it, let me know if it works. Good luck.

Touch her hair. If she brushes your hand away or goes "WHAT ARE YOU DOING" make up some bullshit about feeling if it's actually as soft as she said, or some bullshit. If she lets you touch her hair, and is even pushing you to go on, she's ready for a kiss. Try it, let me know if it works. Good luck.

=[] WTF? That's what I said. Maybe I read a David DeAngleo ebook or something, and my brain, through years of training and re-training took his idea and plagiarised it automatically, so as to bypass conscious thought which would have slowed the whole process.

You should have some kind of instinct, and that should tell u when its necessary, just feel out the situation, and you'll know....cause especially if your getting close to each other or if your departing on date/hangout you'll get a different tone in her talking or ya know like others said check to see her actions when your close to her then if she doesnt flinch out or back up...your good to go

You'll know shes ready when her tongue is in your mouth.

Her genitals will become red and swollen and she'll hoot like a barn owl.

God damn it man, you nearly made me wake up the girlfriend.

You'll see it in her eyes, mate. When she's open to anything is when she's ready to kiss.

When she's slurring.

When she stands up, begins stamping her feet like a angered skunk. She will then flail her arms wildly for a minute while creating screeching sound every 10 seconds. Once this ritual has been completed she will lay down on the ground, still as a rock as she waits for a mate to come by and kiss her. And by mate I mean you.

Its tricky. You gotta count the screeches. If she doesn't do them every 10 seconds exactly then she means something else, such as, "get out of here you pig" or "I'm telling my boyfriend". We haven't been able to study those two calls but we know for sure that if your screeches aren't exactly 10 seconds part, run like fuck.

Good day.

Just wait a while and you'll get used to things.