Are there many people here that are in a semi-long relationship and that incorporate anal sex into their sex lives?

My girlfriend and I were fucking about and decided to smoke some weed, we ended up a bit high. Next thing I know we are away to have sex and she slips it into her ass. There has never been any mention of anal, in the two years i have been in a relationship with her there has not been one suggestion of it.

I really can't put it into words. I was completly speachless, I dont know if I actually enjoyed it.

I am completly stumped at what to think.

How can you not be sure whether you enjoyed it or not? Sounds to me like maybe you enjoyed it a bit too much if you get my drift.

Not the physical side of it so much, just doing it with someone so close seems a bit weird.

don't overthink be happy

I fuck and finger my girls ass every now and again. I don't see whats so great about it in a long term relationship. However, it does come in handy in degrading women you fuck but you don't like on the short term basis.

How does it 'come in handy for degrading' them?

You're thinking of ass to mouth.

The first time I was with my current partner wasnt my finest performance. There was a lot of alchohol involved, and I had been up for some 18 hours. Hey, it happens. The next time we had anal sex.

Silent_Y_Mind: You told me you'd call me when you woke up
bella: I did? oh....yea....I did.
bella: well, whatever....we're even.
Silent_Y_Mind: how are we even?
bella: I let you fuck me up the ass....that cancels out anything "bad" I've done to you....like forever.
bella: *and* I didn't even bitch about the fact that you did so in absence of any lubrication...whatsoever.
bella: hence, we're even.
bella: ...
Silent_Y_Mind: ...yeah, that sounds about right.
bella: ok.
Silent_Y_Mind: -shrug- I thought you were into that.
bella: I was trying to boost your ego after the last time.
bella: thought it would be a nice gesture.


Sweetest thing a girls ever done for me.

Teach her to cook and marry her.

Teach her to cook and marry her.

She can cook. But I like cooking for her better. And I have every intention of marrying her if its at all within my power.

She can cook. But I like cooking for her better. And I have every intention of marrying her if its at all within my power.

Whom(Who/Whose/sp???) else's power would it be in, if not yours?

Whom(Who/Whose/sp???) else's power would it be in, if not yours?

Now that would be, a silly question.







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Whom(Who/Whose/sp???) else's power would it be in, if not yours?

Well, she's got a say in it as well. Obviously.

Well, she's got a say in it as well. Obviously.

Hasn't TV taught you anything? Women can't turn down a good proposal.

We're not even exclusive yet. We started seeing each other while she was seeing this EMT she works with. And well, she's still seeing him. So the timings not quite right yet.

You sure she's ready for marriage or even marriage material? I'm not questioning your choice, but for the love of God, look objectively. It's easy to be led by the heart, but sometimes even Saint-Exupery is wrong, you've gotta use the eyes, especially an unbiased pair of them.

You sure she's ready for marriage or even marriage material? I'm not questioning your choice, but for the love of God, look objectively. It's easy to be led by the heart, but sometimes even Saint-Exupery is wrong, you've gotta use the eyes, especially an unbiased pair of them.

Yeah, I really think she is. She's got her life together, an awesome career, and I've been completely comfortable with her since day one. She's so patient and understanding about pretty much everything. When I'm awkward or make mistakes, she's not afraid to teach me, and she doesn't hold it against me. She's ridiculously supportive. She's family oriented, and despite the current situation, she leans towards more traditional values.

I think theres definitely potential for a future, but nothings set in stone or anything. It's just headed in that direction. And she drops a lot of hints that make it seem like if I asked her to be exclusive, she would. I'm just waiting until i have a little more behind me before I make that move.

Yeah, I really think she is. She's got her life together, an awesome career, and I've been completely comfortable with her since day one. She's so patient and understanding about pretty much everything. When I'm awkward or make mistakes, she's not afraid to teach me, and she doesn't hold it against me. She's ridiculously supportive. She's family oriented, and despite the current situation, she leans towards more traditional values.

I think theres definitely potential for a future, but nothings set in stone or anything. It's just headed in that direction. And she drops a lot of hints that make it seem like if I asked her to be exclusive, she would. I'm just waiting until i have a little more behind me before I make that move.

Ask.

Trust me. Ask.

You'll be much happier knowing you're the only man she's fucking.

If she says no, come out to Toronto and I'll take you out to bars for a whole week (7 days) and pay your tab at each one.

Hmm...maybe I'm not the best person to take advice from. I PERSONALLY would ask. Whether that's the right thing to do...I can't say. Sorry mate, hope it works out either way though.

I'll be fine. I appreciate your concern though. It's really just a matter of waiting for the right time.

All right mate. I'm having a smoke and then it's nighty night.

Sleep well.

How long have you been with this bird?

I've been seeing mine for a few months. The OP has been with his for 2 years though, so it's high time we got the thread back on track. My apologies for derailing it :\

I really can't put it into words. I was completly speachless, I dont know if I actually enjoyed it.


Hey, ease off on the ganja next time, bro! And use lottsa lube.

Most of us do it from time to time in LTRs; personally, I always leave it up to the lady. Some like it a lot; most are curious about it; and a few don't ever want to do it. They're all fine with me.

I had anal sex a couple times with an old partner of mine. I didn't finish becuase she said it hurt, but i can certainly say it's nothing like pussy. It feels good nonetheless, it's just something that you should do every so often to keep the deffinition of "taboo" behind it. Actually last night, i was with my girl and her friends and her friend asks me "have you and *insert my girl's name* had anal sex yet?" I said no, and my girlfriend's responce was just a simple "No." So the way i see it, it may be in the near future for me. Yippe. Other than that, Anal sex isn't that wild. Bukkake on the other hand...

She really liked it though, the only reason we stopped is because we ran out of codoms.

It is something that I would of NEVER of done, there is just no urge to do it. I think it has changed my opinion of her, which is fucking weird!

I want to know if she had planned it or not...

She just sees all the anal on the internet, and hears people talking about it. Its only natural to be curious. Stop over reacting and being a bitch. You've been with her 2 years and your worried because shes curious about her sex life? Durr.

Ask.

Trust me. Ask.

You'll be much happier knowing you're the only man she's fucking.

If she says no, come out to Toronto and I'll take you out to bars for a whole week (7 days) and pay your tab at each one.

Hmm...maybe I'm not the best person to take advice from. I PERSONALLY would ask. Whether that's the right thing to do...I can't say. Sorry mate, hope it works out either way though.

I did it about a week ago. I told her that I cared about her but that we were over until she resolved her thing with him. So the past week has been kind of distant scattered with occasional arguments about stupid shit.

Then a couple days ago, he was over, and she told me she didn't even kiss him. She told me they hadn't had sex in a while anyways. But he fell asleep over there, and she took his penis out and drew a sad face on it and took a picture to send to me. It was a very strange way of putting it, but I got the point.

I figured if they werent having sex, It didn't bother me, so I went over and spent the night. Then again tonight. Thats when she told me she broke up with him. And a few hours/drinks later, she told me she wanted to start trying to get pregnant again.

Looks like you were right. +1.

I did it about a week ago. I told her that I cared about her but that we were over until she resolved her thing with him. So the past week has been kind of distant scattered with occasional arguments about stupid shit.

Then a couple days ago, he was over, and she told me she didn't even kiss him. She told me they hadn't had sex in a while anyways. But he fell asleep over there, and she took his penis out and drew a sad face on it and took a picture to send to me. It was a very strange way of putting it, but I got the point.

I figured if they werent having sex, It didn't bother me, so I went over and spent the night. Then again tonight. Thats when she told me she broke up with him. And a few hours/drinks later, she told me she wanted to start trying to get pregnant again.

Looks like you were right. +1.

Let me get this straight, you want to marry and have a baby with a woman you have only known for a few months, and had just recently broken up with her ex?

Let me get this straight, you want to marry and have a baby with a woman you have only known for a few months, and had just recently broken up with her ex?

They weren't dating, really. She was just kind of seeing him. I had been seeing her before she even met him.

I'd have left by now, honestly. Girls caught up or involved with their exes aren't my idea of a good time or smart move, it just bothers me like crazy. :\ DO what you will, but I hope it works out.

my boyfriend and i have been together for just over 3 years and he'd brought it up a couple times in the past. awhile ago it just kind of happened and i didn't die or spontaneously combust or anything so i was like "ok i guess i'm open to try it." so we did and it wasn't that bad. it would definitely take some getting used to and i definitely wouldn't do it with someone i hadn't been with for a long time and trusted to that extent.

sums it up

I did it about a week ago. I told her that I cared about her but that we were over until she resolved her thing with him. So the past week has been kind of distant scattered with occasional arguments about stupid shit.

Then a couple days ago, he was over, and she told me she didn't even kiss him. She told me they hadn't had sex in a while anyways. But he fell asleep over there, and she took his penis out and drew a sad face on it and took a picture to send to me. It was a very strange way of putting it, but I got the point.

I figured if they werent having sex, It didn't bother me, so I went over and spent the night. Then again tonight. Thats when she told me she broke up with him. And a few hours/drinks later, she told me she wanted to start trying to get pregnant again.

Looks like you were right. +1.

Good to hear mate. Life doesn't always work out the way we want, but when you get exactly what you want, it's pretty sweet. Good luck with everything, tell us the baby story when it happens.

Uhh...are you sure that hte baby isn't his? Maybe she's pregnant and wants you to think it's yours.

I'd wait a few months before going bareback in there, or make her take a test first.

yeah, sounds like a fucking trainwreck waiting to happen

so lets review this:

she was fucking both of you at the same time
she breaks up with him
then she says she wants a damn baby
what the fuck man, how cant it be more obvious?

and anal, I tried it with my girlfriend once, it was just kinda awkward. Next time I try it I'll be drunk methinks

Anal disturbs both my girl friend and I.

No offense to anyone who enjoys it... but... SHIT COMES OUT OF THERE. Not my cup of tea... whatsoever.

I'm not as cold as that, but yeah.
Anal sex is nothing but agony and displeasure to me. Sure, I should feel happy that my boyfriend is enjoying it, but..
Being utterly selfless doesent work too well anymore, because he doesent appreciate it.
So sure, he can have anal sex on occaision, but by god he better get me something nice in exchange.

GIRLS DON'T POOP!

No offense to anyone who enjoys it... but... SHIT COMES OUT OF THERE. Not my cup of tea... whatsoever.

since when does shit bother a totsean