The other night, my girlfriend and I were making out on her bed, and I we got around to talking about sex. The next day I went and bought some condoms, and today I went to her house, to do it.

What's important is, it was her first time, and it hurt her, which was expected... But she said she didn't feel anything. What I'm wondering is, is it like that for some girls their first time? We talked about it, and she said every now and then she'd feel good, but fleetingly.

And no, all of you expected assholes, she did feel me in her; she meant euphoric/intimate feelings.

Any details, just ask-- I'd like to know more about this.

What do you mean she didn't feel anything?

She doesn't love him.

Anything intimate, any sexual feelings. She told me it was like I was just inside of her, and nothing else. No spark, nothing.

1. You went way too fast, not enough foreplay or anticipation.
2. She isn't attracted to you.
3. She was craving a big black cock, but instead she got you.

She's normal

I'm pretty sure you're wrong, at least about the first and third things. And her not being attracted to me doesn't really make sense, when looked at more deeply.

Give it a few more times. If she still doesn't enjoy it, it's her mindset, and it's very difficult to do anything about that.

Yeah, she said that she thinks it was because it was her first time, and after we do it again it could be better.

But that's why I posted this in the first place. Thanks for the advice.

Yeah, she said that she thinks it was because it was her first time, and after we do it again it could be better.

But that's why I posted this in the first place. Thanks for the advice.

She's right. Remember this, Grasshopper: So long as you are in this relationship, she's right. It is a good lesson to learn early.

She's right. Remember this, Grasshopper: So long as you are in this relationship, she's right. It is a good lesson to learn early.

Yeah, I know that, to a point; but I wanted other people's opinions on it. I don't want her telling me it's just the first time, and trying to fake it later, or something, for example... I don't know. I'm just confused.

It should get better. just keep practicing.