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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-07-13, 20:44
stripped stripped is offline
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Default Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

About a month ago, I started talking to a guy whom I'd met through a friend. Everything was great, we got along, he's smokin' hot, and he's made it quite clear that he finds me attractive. About a week and a half ago, he took the initiative and said we should hang out, I was cool with that, so I said alright.

We decided that we would hang out the following Friday (today), but didn't decide what to do. I haven't heard from him since Tuesday, so I'm a little confused.

I think part of the problem is that I have a really overprotective best friend, who tends to scare off my potential guy friends.

Devin, the guy I was supposed to meet up tonight, acted like he was really interested and suggested us hanging out 4 or 5 times + said he was really into me. He may be just trying to get in my pants, even so I wanted to hang out with him.

Could he be waiting for me to contact him, or should I just wait it out? Could he possibly be saying he doesn't want to hang out anymore?
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Old 2007-07-13, 20:48
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Default Re: Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

He may be just trying to get in my pants, even so I wanted to hang out with him.

God damn. Are girls really that naive? You think this guy's got anything else on his mind other than plowing you? Come on. Get real.
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Old 2007-07-13, 20:54
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Default Re: Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

^I'd think if he wanted to plow me, he would've atleast gone through with his plans.
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Old 2007-07-13, 20:55
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Default Re: Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

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^I'd think if he wanted to plow me, he would've atleast gone through with his plans.


Or something better looking or easier came along, and he swiftly put you into the "Plan B" category.
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Old 2007-07-13, 21:01
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Default Re: Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

^ Alrighty, that's basically the answer I was looking for.
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Old 2007-07-13, 21:08
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Default Re: Am I overthinking this, or should I just drop it?

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^ Alrighty, that's basically the answer I was looking for.


It's not necessarily the truth, though it is a distinct possibility. Or he's just playing games with you and trying to make you think that he's not into you any more to keep you on the edge, y'know?
Give it a few days, if you don't hear from him, fuck it.
 
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