So I think I finally found a girl worth attempting to date..

Anyways, there are a few problems id like some tips to help overcome.

Problem 1.
She just got out of some long relationship (2 years i think?). I'm not entirely sure that its over between them. This happened once before, last year sometime, and their break lasted all of a week. How can I tell whats going on with them? I don't want to invest alot of time, just to have her go date someone else (That'd be the THIRD time its happened to me )

Problem 2.
I'm not sure where we can go out around here. We went to see transformers last night. Movies are good and all, but they don't really give you a chance to actually talk with the girl (which I think is kinda important). I think Im going to suggest going to the park Sunday, which is kinda my thing. I always take girls there, and it usually seems to work in my favor. But besides that I'm stuck for ideas....any tips on where to go?

Problem 3.
I cant really tell if shes into me the same way im into her. Ive known her for quite a while, but we never really did anything in the way of hanging out because she had a boyfriend, which leads me to believe MAYBE she feels something? When they did break up for that little bit last year, she drove all the way to Boone (probably an hour drive for her, I go to college up there) just to see me...We drove around the parkway to go to an overlook, which ended up not being that great, and a hell of a long drive, then drove about 15 minutes back down the mountain to go eat, but that place was closed. We ended up watching a movie in my room (Dead Alive....yyyyeah, I suggested it. And I actually THINK she liked it, so IMO, keeper...). She suggested the movie thing last night, which I never really have happen to me. I have problems where I just don't call people, ever. I HATE talking on the phone, so I communicate through AIM or Myspace or whatever. Any ways to really tell if shes digging me, or is it kinda hit or miss?

I haven't dealt with any of this for quite some time, I kinda got tired of trying just to be shot down over and over again.

Id also like to send her some kinda text messages while Im at work, but cant think of much to send. Any ideas there as well?

As for looks, shes whatever number can be higher than a 10 on a scale of 1-10, probably higher than whatever number you come up with.

Same goes for personality. It was damn hard to watch that movie last night, she smells pretty good

You will know if a girl likes you or not, its pretty obvious IMO. Casually text her about her day or if she has plans for the weekend.

The bf thing is going to be hard, because she obviously has alot of feeling for him if they have been together for 2 years. I would be wary of this girl and try not to feel anything too meaningful for her just yet.

Date some other girls and wait until its a good time too actually spark something up with her. If she's just had a break up, she's most likely on the rebound. And thats ALWAYS trouble.

As for taking her out, ask her out for dinner. Take her some place casual, have a few drinks and by then you should know if you two have something.

the fact that she's on a rebound could either work for or against you, so play it cool. Like he said ^ work on other chicks too until you know there's mutual feelings.

I believe when you think about the game, you lose.

Mate, less thinking and more doing.

Your first two points are completely moot. They don't matter at all. Your third, about you not being sure about her feelings? That's more important, but you don't know how she feels. If she's smart, she could be a good actor. If she's dumb, she might not be able to express herself. Etc. etc.

Basically, worry about what you want, and not what you think she might probably maybe think she kinda wants?

Go and get coffee. Seriously, no one is ever that excited about coffee, but if they feel like hanging out with you in a non-threatening place where you can just chill and chat, and if she accepts to going to get coffee she probably feels comfortable jsut chilling with you, which is a good sign. If she talks a lot about herself, you might wanna watch where you tread.

I just lost the game cos of you.

I just lost the game cos of you.

Shit, me too. :(