So i have this girlfriend, one you may have read about possibly being pregnant in a past thread. Well I didn't really describe her well there so i will briefly now. She's absolutely slammin, Italian, tall, legs that go for miles, nice perky tits, the list goes on. But aside from the nearly perfect physical side, her personallity is something that i've recently been looking for. I'm 17 years old, and i've learned that spending my adolescence looking for true loveis a waste of time, and maybe even a government conspiracy, but we'll save that for SOTD. Either way, her personallity matches mine all over. Me and this girl have gotten drunk together, and then gone out and robbing shit out of cars. We've smoked a blunt together and gone egging shit. She'll have sex any where any time, bsacially a girl that can satisfy me not only sexually, but i can have a good time with her also. However I can certainly notice how this isn't like a regular relationship. I really can't have in an indepth conversation with her like i could my past girl friend who i was with for a year. Neither one of us is really content on "settling down" at this age, unlike most of our friends who think they're going to fall in love.

So at one point in the relationship, i was trying to see if she was for polygamy, Basically before i could really get on the subject, she said "well basically if someone cheats on me, i don't go out of my way to make them mad, or threaten the girl they hooked up with, i just say it's done and over." So from their on, i assumed she wouldn't want polygamy, but hell that was fine withme. We'd basically have a good time with each other for a while, and if we run into someone who sparks are intrest more at the time, then so be it, we can stay good friends becuase there would be no "break up", and there wouldn't really be much heart break for either of us.

So the other night someone told me she hooked up with some people we werew at a party at together. Now let me say problems have stemmed ever since she came into the picture, but i can easily say it was people making problems for them selves. A little shit was stirred with one of my friends and her basically he doesn't put in the tie or effort to hook up with girls, he just expects them to fall into his lab. But anyways, we both wound up going to this girl's party last week (we will call her J). We all got messed up, and i left around 12, and she stayed the night. Now last night (about a week later) i'm hanging out at my buddies place and he says ohh yeah "J said your girl hooked up with al and brian". So it didn't really botherme all that much, we are still in an open relationship, so the only thing i hope that she did do is use protection if she did fuck them.

Now i was ready to beleive this just yet. I know how people are, even people who are 18+ years old who still love to stir immature bullshit. So i go to a party last night and i run into J. I ask her to come outside with me so i could talk to her, mainly beucas ei wanted to hear it from the source. So we step outside and i ask her about what i heard. She said her dyke friend saw my girl and some fat ugly motherfucker named Al hooking up in the tent (i honestly have no idea why she would, he's a sorry, fat slobberin soul). Then she said she hooked up with someone named brian and left her underwear in her basement (haha, actaully it does sound like her to leave her danties in unwanted places). I asked J for me to see the underwear, basically as just more proof to the sotiry, but she said her mother threw it away. And aparently my girls good friend is mad at hr for hooking up with brian becuase they had a thing going on.

Now like i said, aeven if it is true, it's not that big of a deal. We're still young, we're not breaking any hearts, it just goes to show "ok she said she doesn't like cheating, but she does it anyways". So if that's how it is, then i'll let her know i'm fine with her fooling around with other people, but she better understand i'm gonna be doing the same thing. The reason i'm not so sure about believing it is because of the person i herad it from. As cool as J may be for letting us party at her house, and having her mom buy us booze, I still know what kind of girl she is. and that's one that i suspect to still cause drama. The main question i have is should i even bother bringing it up. Of course i'd like to just know for sure whether or not she did, but if it's just going to cause problems, then why fuck up a good thing? This is a pretty good relationship, i'm having a great time. If i brought it up, i'd let her know i wasn't mad about it, but acording to my ex (the one that i wa with for a year) she told me that my girlfriend would just deny is regardless of how i felt about it.

All the help is appreciated
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i would def. bring it up IF you are dating! If your not in a serious relationship then why the fuck would you want to bring it up? Atleast your gettin sex mother fucker!!

your girlfriend sounds kickass

spit in her face than ask her if she cheated on you. If she says no spit again, if she says yes yank her hair and burn it off. That's old school

your girlfriend sounds kickass

Ohh hell yeah, she deffinetly is. She's coming over this evening once i leave my math lab. I'm gonna pick her up, bring her back to my place, and put my "SEX" card game to use. Either way, i'm just trying to figure out how to play this han that's been dealt to me. I'm trying to think of all the opitions as well as out comes of those options. I

Ohh hell yeah, she deffinetly is. She's coming over this evening once i leave my math lab. I'm gonna pick her up, bring her back to my place, and put my "SEX" card game to use. Either way, i'm just trying to figure out how to play this han that's been dealt to me. I'm trying to think of all the opitions as well as out comes of those options. I

Didn't read your whole situation, but if there is a question like that it is best to bring it up directly and to not be negative about it. Do not accuse her of anything, just bring it up and ask her to confirm what you already knew. Of course you are going to go with the thought that all along you knew she wouldn't cheat, but that you want her to put your mind at ease.

Then pull out the sex card, and carry on about your business.

I concur with carbonb.

The very first rule is you NEVER believe or give credence to anything her friends, your mates or anyone else tells you about her.

Trust her. If something did happen then she'll tell you about it when the time is right (ie when she trusts you).

I just checked your location, does this mean you are posting from Narnia?

QFTMFT. Couldn't have put it better.

I just checked your location, does this mean you are posting from Narnia?

Hahahhah *wipes snot and coffee guffaw spray from monitor*

Nope, (for those who don't know)its a reference to an 80's song by the Cure called 'Close To Me' ...in which they are shown all packed into a wardrobe on a cliff top.

Close To Me (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-d4-pDw_dHw)

Lawl, So what about the other 80% of girls??

I just checked your location, does this mean you are posting from Narnia?

I fucking lol'd.