My gf of 2+ years is superparanoid about pregnancy and we have to use a condom even though she is on the pill.

is this normal at all? anyone else have to use both? is it even safe just using the pill whilst still cumming inside her?

It's recommended to use both for total STD+pregnancy protection.

If you have no access to any method of aborting the baby i would use both, since there's a chance the pill doesn't work 100% for her, or if there's a slight tear in the condom without you knowing.

Until i know that the pill is going to prevent pregnancy in MY girlfriend, i'll use a condom as well, or in the very least pull out.

I would use both, and I used to every time. If you don't want a kid, the more protection the better.

The pill is based completely on faith, would you put your relationship the line? over a chemical that isn't 100%?
Just be glad your getting sex at all.

sadly, once my friend got his girl pregnant and she was on the pill and he used a condom. She never told him, they broke up, and she got an abortion and told him a few months later. That really fucked with him.

sadly, once my friend got his girl pregnant and she was on the pill and he used a condom. She never told him, they broke up, and she got an abortion and told him a few months later. That really fucked with him.

That really sucks :( I don't know how common that is, but I've never gotten pregnant. For a few months with my first guy we only used a condom, and I never had any problems then either..

That really sucks :( I don't know how common that is, but I've never gotten pregnant. For a few months with my first guy we only used a condom, and I never had any problems then either..

i'd say it's fairly uncommon. Those little guys must've just been pretty determined.

I think that's pretty ridiculous using both. Don't you think it's bullshit having to sheathe your porksword and not get the real deal? Instead of condoms, just pullout and use the pill. MrMojoRisin had a lot of references saying pulling out had a remarkable prevention rate when used properly, which combined with the pill ought to be damn near fullproof, and you don't sacrifice sensation.

Pill +Diaphragm + Injection, implant, etc = No fucking baby!

If it's that important to you, get snipped(read as: vasectomy). I'm thinking of having it done myself to be honest. One little surgery and you never have to worry about getting her preggerz ever again.

Yeah, that's pretty normal.

Or at least, if I'm on a form of birth control other then using condoms, I will still use a condom.

The pill doesn't protect you from STI's.

The pill doesn't protect you from STI's.

Seems kind of odd to me to be having sex with people you don't know about on a regular basis...unless you are talking strictly one night stands, in which you absolutely should be using a condom.

But I don't see much point in a relationship with a person whom you can't even trust to be clean...

Seems kind of odd to me to be having sex with people you don't know about on a regular basis...unless you are talking strictly one night stands, in which you absolutely should be using a condom.

But I don't see much point in a relationship with a person whom you can't even trust to be clean...

Yes, but it still needs to be pointed out to the topic starter.

And having the extra protection can never hurt.

condoms aren't bad at all anyways. i kinda prefer using one in all honesty.