It's so confusing, there is this girl whom i have talked about before. Basic info she's in my english class in college, i would consider her a good friend now but secretly (or not so much anymore) i fancy the pants off'f her.

Well for a while now i've been talking to her best friend who tells me the girl likes me aswell. I had suspicions seeing that in english lessons we basically just flirt for 1 1/2 hours.

Well yesterday there was meant to be a big group of us going out for the day just hanging about in the city and shopping but conveiniantly all of our friends who are desperate to get us together all pulled out so it ended up just the two of us. I had an amazing day and she said she did aswell we just spent it all messing about and flirting.

Anecdote: Stood planning what to do and some obviously drunk guy comes up to us and says we have a great aura together and we look made for each other. Now im not a big believer in signs but that tells me something. He then tried to get us to show what he read as our obvious liking for each other by saying he wasn't leaving till i put my arm round her and we said we liked each other. So i held my part of the bargain so to speak and told her i liked her. She just sort of made noises.

So at the end of the day we hugged and said goodbye nothing too physical happened. So i was on the bus home confused as hell as she was sending me signals but not enough to confirm that if i made the move i desperately want to she would respond. So i got home and spoke to her best friend who said that things were basically going well and confirmed she liked me but was shy.

So come today i thought im just gonna ask straight out am i a friend or potentially more. Her answer. "im not sure...".

Totse am i expecting too much too soon? Cause to be honest i think the least i deserve is to know how she feels. Is that too much to ask or is this normal from girls?

Dude she clearly likes you, but instead of running with it you seem to be worrying about unimportant details asking about feelings and such.

Girls want to feel like it all just happend like in the movies people don't talk to eachother and go "do you like me I like you" things need to just happen.

So take her out to a movie or some other place hold her hand, and when the momment seems right kiss her. Set yourself a goal also for the date, do not go home without getting that kiss, even if you never manage to have a romantic moment, just go for it.

Erm... That means, in my experience, there's another boy in the picture. She isn't with him, but just getting to know him, just like she is with you ect.

Dunno, you could of caught a shy one or one that'll execute the 'lets jus b fwends k?' on you. Waattcchh outttt.

The short answer: She's a girl. They can never come straight out and tell you anything.

If you want it and there are obvious signs, then go for it.

Girls aren't very likely to make the first move especially if they're shy. It seems pretty normal in our society for the man to make the first move.

If you like her and you know she likes you, there are no worries, you're already good. The worst thing you can do is act ackward. So keep up with what you're doing cuz it's obviously working. Then, one day just casually ask if she'd like to do something later, don't make it sound like a hardcore date or anything, but there should be signs. Then go with the flow. I find it all breaks down when people get ackward, and it rarely gets ackward if one person is just being cool with it, it puts the other person at ease.

Good luck!

I text her friend and she says that she is just really, really shy and she again confirmed the does like me.

If so why must she make it so hard for me?

I've decided im just gonna tell her straight up next time i see her that i like her and really want to try and move to more than friends.

Would that force her out of her shell?

I would give her an ultimatum. Something conveying the meaning that you want to be with her, but if she doesn't want to be with you then tell you. So that you can move on and find someone who does want to be with you. Otherwise she is just wasting your time.

Although there are tons of beautiful women you can't let their beauty and games string you a long. There is only so much time before you die, and you should want to spend it with people who want to spend it with you.

Give it some time, spend more time with her, and see if she opens up. If she doesn't, then give the ultimatum and see what she says.

Be really careful what you wish for, it might come true.

I believe it that right dere ^^^^

If the girl is legit(not a super slut) they usually they keep to themselves about stuff and *you* got to be the one to throw down the moves

Im pretty much in the same position as you with a girl, girl is real shy, cause see on the phone talking to her she gets some energy, cusses a bit, talks with some volume...but then in person around be she never cusses, talks soft/mumbles and i often have to say what? huh? and her tone is just real mellow ....but she manages to put out some signs that tell me some things too, a damn shame that i gotta be pressing up(i gotta show all the affection), but thats just how the rules are...gotta do work

I think she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Good advice by citric.

I would give her an ultimatum.

Bad advice by carbonB.

I'll tell you what she's feeling right now....



My cock thrusting in and out of her asshole.

Now she just felt me donkeypunching her....

I've decided im just gonna tell her straight up next time i see her that i like her and really want to try and move to more than friends.

Would that force her out of her shell?

Don't do that, I'm telling you right now.

With women, you don't declare or announce anything. You just go with the flow and make your moves accordingly. You don't have to tell her anything or explain anything.

It's an "actions over words" thing. When you make your move, if she's receptive, it should be obvious. If she's not ready, then you should be able to detect that and back off a bit.

^^^^^^ EXACTLY

You let your actions do the talking, dont tell her, someone told me to do that..tell her how i feel its like.....nah man thats grade school shit, if i want her to know ill make it known thru an action....

Plus it feels so much more better to do so this way and i think itll show that you do work and are in control