Its just one of those situations that just suck!

Me and my girl live together and we going thorugh a break up, she lives with me and my rents. We have our whole room mixed in together with eachothers stuff. the whole room has been planned out together, everything is in that poisition beacuse we talked about it.

I don't know how im going to deal with it the day she packs up her shit in front of me, and leaves.

atm we are trying to have a break from eachother, because we see eachother all day everyday so we are going to see if that sparks us back up.

I wont make this a long thread so any questions are happily answered :)

Thanks for any advice, or stories that are similar.

Just gone through that shit myself exactly a month ago now man.

It hurts like fuck...There's not one single thing that hurt as much as having to go back into the flat we moved into every day after work for the remainder of the week to pack my shit up.

But life moves on.

And God damn it's great getting back with the womens!

i dont know if i could move in with a girl unless i was engaged/married to her. isnt it a lot like being married? i would want to be committed before i made that step

we see eachother all day everyday so we are going to see if that sparks us back up.

Well no wonder!!

How old are you guys? And how long were you together for?

I'm just curious, because it sounds like you two moved in together a bit prematurely, and that could be a major factor in why things aren't working out so well now.

I'm 17 and she's 18.

We have been together for about 11 months and been living together for about 7 of them.

Yeah, that's most likely the reason then. I'm almost 23 and I can't see myself moving in with any chick. Even if I really liked her a lot, I know that we'd just get on each others nerves at some point. Or at least she would get on mine.

My ex used to stay over at my place a lot because she had to travel like an hour each way to get from her place to mine, so she would come at night, then leave in the morning. And even that could seem like a bit much at times...

But then again, I'm weird, and I like being alone. So of course take whatever I say in this thread with a grain of salt, because I am a bit biased.

Unlucky dude. It does sound like you both need a bit of space to be honest. Who knows, maybe in a couple of weeks you'll find you really miss each other. Everyone needs time alone man, living with ANYONE is hard. Give her the space she needs and see what happens, and don't forget to learn from your mistakes.