And sometimes, that's all I want to do. Yet, somehow the girl I'm with blames me for not being into her. Sometimes, I just want to be intoxicated by the notes that flow into me from various artists. And is this such a crime?

No, it's not. But you may want to keep being awed by the music and hanging out with your girlfriend separate if she doesn't appreciate it as much as you.

Well, no. She's a bit clingy and it's hard. I feel persecuted. I try to go, but she begs me to stay... and she's just been used too many times that I can't just go.

well, im guessing that this is a fairly new relationship and in that case its probably just a phase. if you care about her so much you want to spend the time with her and she cant stand not getting attention, i say just deal with it. i mean in most cases girl friends are fairly short term and you have your whole life to enjoy music, so why not just spend the time with your girl now.

Introduce her to musical orgasms.

Listen to music during sex. I find Tool and Type O Negative work great. :D