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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-07-10, 03:41
Maddict Maddict is offline
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Default I really just don't understand.

I've never just straight up asked a girl out. Every time I've gotten into something I've either been fucked up beyond belief or really drunk. After that its all good because your in. But I don't fucking understand... when a girl says your cute... WTF do you say back? When I'm on something or drunk it just comes naturally (or I think it does Confused can't remember). But when a girl just straight up tells you that, what does she expect you to fucking say?
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Old 2007-07-10, 03:45
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

What the fuck did you just say?
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Old 2007-07-10, 03:46
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

Women are an enigma. Stick to porn.
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Old 2007-07-10, 03:48
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
Default Re: I really just don't understand.

Ahh for you to respond positively, which i dont either really well cause i dont really take the word "cute" too well cause to me its like a cover up word for saying that oh maybe u are attractive to them but then maybe your just looking good...goes many ways....so i usually get the 1 second hype that they called me cute, then say something back similar about them or ask how so?
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Old 2007-07-10, 03:49
TheManticore91 TheManticore91 is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

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Originally Posted by Maddict
I've never just straight up asked a girl out. Every time I've gotten into something I've either been fucked up beyond belief or really drunk. After that its all good because your in. But I don't fucking understand... when a girl says your cute... WTF do you say back? When I'm on something or drunk it just comes naturally (or I think it does Confused can't remember). But when a girl just straight up tells you that, what does she expect you to fucking say?


In my experience, all a girl expects is that you tell her the truth. You just go with the flow, and tell her how you feel about her in return. There's no standard line, or special trick to it.
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Old 2007-07-10, 03:52
Maddict Maddict is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

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Originally Posted by NitrousMafia
Ahh for you to respond positively, which i dont either really well cause i dont really take the word "cute" too well cause to me its like a cover up word for saying that oh maybe u are attractive to them but then maybe your just looking good...goes many ways....so i usually get the 1 second hype that they called me cute, then say something back similar about them or ask how so?


I sort of worked that out myself but thanks. I just have no clue what to say. I know being "cute" doesn't mean much but it still catches you off guard when your just trying to have a normal conversation and your thinking "well thanks so are you but I have no clue what hell you want me to say back".
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Old 2007-07-10, 04:29
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

In my experience, all a girl expects is that you tell her the truth. You just go with the flow, and tell her how you feel about her in return. There's no standard line, or special trick to it.

Ha that actually worked. I guess I just reacted weird cause she totally changed the subject.
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Old 2007-07-10, 04:55
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

eh man I've been in this situation to. Like after meeting a girl then talking to her on aim or something, or anytime. It's weird the conversation for me has still flowed nice after she said it. Still to this day w/e they say I have forgotten what I've said I think I just say thanks. If it's someone your into you can go on with it and maybe get somewhere from that comment. But if it's someone random just say thanks.
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Old 2007-07-10, 05:02
casanova casanova is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

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eh man I've been in this situation to. Like after meeting a girl then talking to her on aim or something, or anytime. It's weird the conversation for me has still flowed nice after she said it. Still to this day w/e they say I have forgotten what I've said I think I just say thanks. If it's someone your into you can go on with it and maybe get somewhere from that comment. But if it's someone random just say thanks.


That's the best advice. A simple "thank you" will suffice...shows you have confidence in yourself. She expects you to say something back to her, and for some reason, it never works.

I've seen guys fuck up by saying things like "No, I think I'm ugly."
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Old 2007-07-10, 05:44
Townsend Townsend is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

"Of course I am."

It's that simple.
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Old 2007-07-10, 05:59
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

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"Of course I am."

It's that simple.


That is a good one to make them laugh, but then it almost seems like your the nice kinda cheery fellow. If your the asshole stuck up prick type trying to keep your cool when shes says that how would you comment?
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Old 2007-07-10, 06:29
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

^ "Of course I am."

It's cocky and confident, what the fuck else do you want to 'play' that character?
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Old 2007-07-10, 09:59
The Humble Noob The Humble Noob is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

well thanks so are you but I have no clue what hell you want me to say back
This seems a pretty good course of action, yo.
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Old 2007-07-10, 11:20
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

"Obviously... Wish I could say the same for you."

Then just grab her head and push it onto your cock, which should already be exposed since you are in the presence of a female.

Jeez you guys, it's not that hard!
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Old 2007-07-10, 15:21
charliels531 charliels531 is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

"Thank you" is always good to say when you're at a loss for words.
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Old 2007-07-11, 01:51
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

You have to compliment her back! Its not that difficult. Get her to blush a little bit too while being humble... Ill usually say, "thank you, but im not nearly as (insert word: pretty, beautiful, gorgeous) as you are" then just smile and look them in the eyes! They will probably turn a little red and look away. Or jump you. Either of which is good.:) hope that helps!
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Old 2007-07-11, 04:39
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

You say "Thanks...You're not bad yourself, darlin'!"

That's what I say at least.

Once you have gotten over the "Like...OMG!" barrier, you'll be fine.
When I was younger the only ways I could approach and/or talk to women was to be drunk or high.
Both worked but you didn't learn too much.

After a while and some simple advice from my brother, it became "What if she says no? What if she laughs? What if she doesn't like me? Who gives a shit either way...Let's try!"
Women appreciate you a lot more if it appears you are putting some effort into talking to them.

Once you've gotten used to ignoring the part of your mind telling you that talking to a girl sober will be painful or embarassing, the easier it becomes to talk to women and have a smart arse answer to pretty much anything they say!
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Old 2007-07-11, 05:02
D-$tack$ D-$tack$ is offline
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Default Re: I really just don't understand.

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Originally Posted by gadzooks
"Obviously... Wish I could say the same for you."

Then just grab her head and push it onto your cock, which should already be exposed since you are in the presence of a female.

Jeez you guys, it's not that hard!


EEK!

LOL, repped.:D

But in all seriousness, taking the compliment and returning it in a jokingly manner usually works fine for me. Humor goes a long way.
 
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