I'm 19 now and thank God I really know what I want in a relationship now. I'm past the stage of what I call immature relationships- where the girl has to be around you ALL the time and when you're not together you're on the phone or some bullshit like that. It's weird though, I'm in college and me and my girlfriend are in a long term relationship. Say what you will about that, but if you think it's not going to work then simply put, fuck you. Anyway, it's hard to actually be in a good, mature relationship. We talk every day but I still get a little.. weird.. when she goes out drinkin and all and I just sit in. (I do go out but you know, we don't always go out at the same time.) I know she only wants to be with me and everything, but can anyone relate to what I'm feeling? It's not that I don't trust her or anything, I don't know what it is. I don't have any doubts about our relationship or anything, we both aren't ridiculous about it. We don't talk about marriage and stuff like that or say I love you yet because we're not rushing things and confusing love with just really liking someone. But bottom line, as I said, can anyone relate to me? I feel like I'm a needy bastard when she goes out. I don't have to talk to her all the time, that would be annoying.. only when she goes out.

I think I know what you mean, but I can't write you a good response right now. Just let me say I'm in a bit of a similar situation and this post is reserved for a better response later.

I felt glad when ll my gf's friends went traveling abroad leaving her alone.
Thats messed up isnt it?